Got myself into a pickle. I ignored the saying, "Don't shit where you eat," and decided to take a giant dump right on my dinner plate.
The details of what went down aren't that important, but I have been receiving endless calls, emails, texts, and voice mails, some of which are threatening. Her action culminated in coming to my house, when I specifically told her not to, and her not leaving, not the first time she did this. Called the police, they told me to go to court the next day and get a restraining order. I did so, and was successful. I feel good about that because there was a guy behind me seeking the same thing and the judge denied him. I also have plenty of evidence to back up my story when we both have to appear in court in the next week.
I feel like I have handled the situation as well as I could have, so I am not asking for advice, but I am interested in if any of you guys have had similar experiences, how you handled things, and what happened.
Note: this is the only 100% American girl I have dated in the last 3 years, and the only girl I met in real life, not online.
The details of what went down aren't that important, but I have been receiving endless calls, emails, texts, and voice mails, some of which are threatening. Her action culminated in coming to my house, when I specifically told her not to, and her not leaving, not the first time she did this. Called the police, they told me to go to court the next day and get a restraining order. I did so, and was successful. I feel good about that because there was a guy behind me seeking the same thing and the judge denied him. I also have plenty of evidence to back up my story when we both have to appear in court in the next week.
I feel like I have handled the situation as well as I could have, so I am not asking for advice, but I am interested in if any of you guys have had similar experiences, how you handled things, and what happened.
Note: this is the only 100% American girl I have dated in the last 3 years, and the only girl I met in real life, not online.