Hello, I've read some of the travel forum in the past. This is one topic I haven't seen covered. A good example would be Miami vs Tampa.
Miami is obviously the better, trendier, city of the two. And has better looking women.
Tampa, smaller, somewhat redneck, but has good-looking women as well, and it's easier to become "known" in the local club scene. In Miami, the clubs scene has celebs, millionaires, Wall St guys visiting from NY, etc.
So, this can apply to any big city vs mid-size city.
In a "big" city, there's a certain level of anonymity, which can help in some ways. In a mid-size city, the 20/30-something nightlife is usually still somewhat ran like high school in many ways. This can help in a way:
If you get in the right group - you can be "the man". It's also bad because if you appear single too long....people will notice. People also marry younger, not as many available women. Guys appear more desperate as well. It's also harder to get into the established social cliques, most people were born and raised there and have their high school or college friends, etc.
At the same time, it's easier to be impressive.
Your thoughts?
Miami is obviously the better, trendier, city of the two. And has better looking women.
Tampa, smaller, somewhat redneck, but has good-looking women as well, and it's easier to become "known" in the local club scene. In Miami, the clubs scene has celebs, millionaires, Wall St guys visiting from NY, etc.
So, this can apply to any big city vs mid-size city.
In a "big" city, there's a certain level of anonymity, which can help in some ways. In a mid-size city, the 20/30-something nightlife is usually still somewhat ran like high school in many ways. This can help in a way:
If you get in the right group - you can be "the man". It's also bad because if you appear single too long....people will notice. People also marry younger, not as many available women. Guys appear more desperate as well. It's also harder to get into the established social cliques, most people were born and raised there and have their high school or college friends, etc.
At the same time, it's easier to be impressive.
Your thoughts?