[Juan Antonio]

IMO the hot, introverted girl is the best of both worlds. You get the beauty of the hot girl without the associated drama. The introverted girl isn't an attention-whore, is down-to-earth, is more likely to stay loyal, and won't have a dozen male orbiters hollering at her.

Yet in my experience, every hot girl in America is super-extroverted with a huge social circle and a huge ego, and nearly every introverted girl is on the plain to ugly side. So do these girls exist in America?

I think you're far more likely to find the elusive hot, introverted girl in Eastern Europe where the quality of girls is far better. Any one hot girl won't be inundated with attention because hot girls are in abundance, and you even have hot girls who are on the shy, modest, meek side. I honestly don't think I've ever encountered that in America.

So am I chasing a pipedream here?

[Veloce]

(08-07-2012 12:16 PM)Juan Antonio Wrote:  

So am I chasing a pipedream here?

Somewhat.

In my experience with shy, introverted girls, even they too have had episodes of wild sluttiness, and god bless them for that. Just don't get any delusions, and don't think they're not drama either. They just let it build up more and harbor fucked up resentments that they never openly voice.

I will say though, it's refreshing and attractive to hang out with the occasional girl that can keep her fucking yaptrap shut.

[MrXY]

Hot introverted girls do exist.

I think they are actually somewhat more common than most guys realize, but the social attention they get from girls and guys tends to camouflage their introversion somewhat.

But from my experience and observation they are not more likely to be drama free or loyal

[EisenBarde]

I think you're confusing personality types here.

People around me tend to think I'm charming as hell. I can easily start a conversation with strangers, and I like to push girls buttons just to see their reactions. Does this make me extroverted? No.
It took time to develop those social skills but they still drain me to the point where I need a lot of space and time to recharge, and I will probably always be this way.

Introverted girls still have orbiters, in fact I'd say they probably have more than your average loudmouth bass on account of how the introverted types see her as "accessible."

Introverted girls often overcompensate when speaking to others in public. Instead of gauging the world around them they just ramble everything that they think in hopes that somebody else gets rid of all the awkward in the room.

Introverted girls can have just as much ego as anybody else. And spend more time thinking about all the dumb ways people affront her that only she notices.

What you want is a demure girl, and those largely have to be trained by men just as "chivalry" was trained into men by women.