[Snowflake]

Hey guys, I need some insight as to not to become a chick's boyfirend while keeping her close to me. I seem to have trouble walking on that thin fuckbuddy-boyfriend line. The last girl I was banging found out I was banging another girl in the other city (I live between two cities for family and study purposes) and gave me the 'it's her or me' decision to make and since I don't want to be tied down in no LTR I had to drop her. I'm still in a phase where bangs are difficult to come by on the reg so I try to keep each new girl around as much as possible.

Is breaking up with one fuckbuddy after the other just part of a player's evolutionary process or am I missing something here?

[el mechanico]

Don't do anything except smash them whenever you want. Avoid the convo as much as possible and let them drop off as they need to unless they're in your face and cockblocking then eliminate them. And yes ditching one after the next is part of the deal

[Icarus]

(08-04-2012 03:10 PM)Snowflake Wrote:  

The last girl I was banging found out I was banging another girl in the other city (I live between two cities for family and study purposes) and gave me the 'it's her or me' decision to make and since I don't want to be tied down in no LTR I had to drop her.

Why didn't you tell her that you had chosen her? Would she call your other fuckbuddy for confirmation?

[Snowflake]

yes and letting her boss me around as she pleases would have fucked up our relationship anyway

[MrXY]

(08-04-2012 03:10 PM)Snowflake Wrote:  

Hey guys, I need some insight as to not to become a chick's boyfirend while keeping her close to me. I seem to have trouble walking on that thin fuckbuddy-boyfriend line. The last girl I was banging found out I was banging another girl in the other city (I live between two cities for family and study purposes) and gave me the 'it's her or me' decision to make and since I don't want to be tied down in no LTR I had to drop her. I'm still in a phase where bangs are difficult to come by on the reg so I try to keep each new girl around as much as possible.

Is breaking up with one fuckbuddy after the other just part of a player's evolutionary process or am I missing something here?

Running through girls is just part of the lifestyle.

Girls you see often will start putting the screws on you for exclusivity and commitment sooner or later.

Fuck buddies or casual dates will lose interest because you won't see them more often and take them more seriously, or because they found a guy who would

Girls will get pissed when they find out you are seeing other girls and how many you are seeing

Don't ever cling to a girl- it's bad for your inner game and unattractive to women anyway. Keep working to improve your skills and bring girls into your funnel and you'll never lack for female companionship

[Toni]

If you want to keep her close just tell her you don't want a relation and you are "the thing u cant have"

If she annoys you and you want to get rid of her be as much beta as you can be. She will simply stop wanting you. Smoothest way to break up a relationship