When I met this girl, she already had a BF.
Although I liked her, she was happy in a relationship so I didn't think about any possibilities with her.
We just got to know each other through work environment and kept everything professional.
She got married for a year and now she is going through a divorce. she is going to move out soon.
I liked her personality since the day 1 we met (she has the opposite traits of American girls we hate on this forum)
I just wished I would find a GF like that someday. I also wished she stayed with a guy forever.
I am having a mixed feeling. I am not excited for her becoming single. I know her guy so it kind of sucks to develop feelings for her after watching them dating and living together.
After she told me about her going through a divorce, I pretty much have been her emotional tampon. I knew this was a beta move but I couldn't ignore her but to listen and offer advices.
We click so well in conversation. But she told me this phrase several times in conversation 'you are my good friend'
I feel like I just want to confess like a classical beta 'hey...I look at you as more than a friend'
But her answer should be 'oh...johnny....but we are just friends'
I am not looking for some lay at all. I've known her for a while and I am drawn to her personality. I am looking forward to serious relationship.
Obviously, she is sad right now and will be sad for a while after a divorce. Should I just keep in touch with her as friends till she sorts out her feelings about the divorce? I don't think she will be ready to meet any guys for a while.
I don't think 'confession' would be a good idea. what other ways are there to let her know about my feelings?
Although I liked her, she was happy in a relationship so I didn't think about any possibilities with her.
We just got to know each other through work environment and kept everything professional.
She got married for a year and now she is going through a divorce. she is going to move out soon.
I liked her personality since the day 1 we met (she has the opposite traits of American girls we hate on this forum)
I just wished I would find a GF like that someday. I also wished she stayed with a guy forever.
I am having a mixed feeling. I am not excited for her becoming single. I know her guy so it kind of sucks to develop feelings for her after watching them dating and living together.
After she told me about her going through a divorce, I pretty much have been her emotional tampon. I knew this was a beta move but I couldn't ignore her but to listen and offer advices.
We click so well in conversation. But she told me this phrase several times in conversation 'you are my good friend'
I feel like I just want to confess like a classical beta 'hey...I look at you as more than a friend'
But her answer should be 'oh...johnny....but we are just friends'
I am not looking for some lay at all. I've known her for a while and I am drawn to her personality. I am looking forward to serious relationship.
Obviously, she is sad right now and will be sad for a while after a divorce. Should I just keep in touch with her as friends till she sorts out her feelings about the divorce? I don't think she will be ready to meet any guys for a while.
I don't think 'confession' would be a good idea. what other ways are there to let her know about my feelings?