[Ethiopian_Volt]

Hey there guys,
I am new to game in general and this forum in particular. I live in Tulsa, Oklahoma ; 23 years old, Petroleum Engineer , near six-figure salary,185 lbs & somewhat toned, 6 foot 1 , considered good looking by most. I'll be the first to admit that despite my "potential" i have never been the best when it comes to women ! After i graduated in January i moved to Tulsa and met this girl through a co-worker... average face, good body ,HB5 all n all, yet with a magnetic personality so i kinda liked her from the get-go. She is a student at the local community college which is not too far from where i live so we started hanging out at bars during the weekends every now and then. In late March, she moved out of her dorm and applied to the Apartment complex i live in. And by mere chance she ended in the apartment next to me , so we basically were wall mates. I was beyond elated but decided not to take things too fast. After a few weeks I asked her if she wanted to go out on a date sometime. She said she liked me but that she just wasn't ready for a boyfriend at this point in her life and that she was " emotionally drained" from a previous relationship.
What can a man do ? I said ok and wished her the best while our hallway meetings became awkward. 2 or 3 weeks i hear some strange sounds and guess what ? She's getting piped down by some guy ! I cant sleep because the walls are thin and she is LOUUD !!! I didnt mind ... UNTIL ... about 2 weeks ago i met the guy. He's is some Trinidadian dude who works at the local grocery store where i shop . He's got no style ( baggy jeans and Do-rag) , he's short( but somewhat muscular) and drives a beat up Chevy cavalier.
What should i do ? Is it better to use this situation as a stepping stone and start gaming other girls ? Or should i pursue this girl and fuck her whatever the cost , just to get this anger out of my system ? What would you do ?

[tapanar]

Only way for revenge is if you make her jealous by fucking other girls (assuming she gives a fuck). Or just move on.

[WanderingSoul]

Your only realistic option is to kill yourself. I see no other way out of this situation.

That, or if you are not a troll, you should buy Bang and read it before asking any more questions on this forum.

[WanderingSoul]

(07-06-2012 05:00 AM)tapanar Wrote:  

Only way for revenge is if you make her jealous by fucking other girls (assuming she gives a fuck). Or just move on.

But the only problem is he can't make her jealous because she doesn't give two shits about him.

OP, buy Bang and read it.

[vinman]

(07-06-2012 05:11 AM)RioNomad Wrote:  

Your only realistic option is to kill yourself. I see no other way out of this situation.

That, or if you are not a troll, you should buy Bang and read it before asking any more questions on this forum.

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha!!!!! I woke up this morning and banged some dudes wife, sent her on her way and started reading the forum. Now I've had a good laugh. Thanks RioNomad. My day is complete.

[joehoya]

(07-06-2012 05:11 AM)RioNomad Wrote:  

(07-06-2012 05:00 AM)tapanar Wrote:  

Only way for revenge is if you make her jealous by fucking other girls (assuming she gives a fuck). Or just move on.

But the only problem is he can't make her jealous because she doesn't give two shits about him.

OP, buy Bang and read it.

Exactly. At first, I thought that this was going to be a post about a guy that had a bad breakup. But this is just some dude that is WAY too focused on a girl who isn't even interested in him.

Doing anything to make her jealous or get revenge is completely fucking moronic. What do you want revenge for? What the fuck are you angry about? She didn't do shit to you. YOU WERE NEVER IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH HER. When she rejected you, she was actually quite polite about it and let you down easy. I've seen girls humiliate guys in public just for having the nerve to ask them out.

Here is the deal. SHE ISN'T INTO YOU. Move the fuck on. Forget about her and focus on picking up other girls. Maybe she is only into foreign guys. Maybe she is only into black guys. Maybe she is only into guys who aren't very educated. Maybe she is only into guys who don't obsess about getting revenge over a non-existent relationship. Who knows? Who cares?

Meet other girls. Meet a lot of girls. Forget about this chick and just give the Trini guy the universal "RESPECT" nod whenever you see him leaving her apartment after pounding the hell out of the girl you USED TO obsess over. One day, if you are lucky, you will be able to joke with the guy about how you were trying to hit that.

[Duke Castile]

Let's assume that this story is different and you used to care about this girl because you both had something going and then you found out she was cheating on you with another man.

Then let's say you were not you and you were just a carefree motherfucker that was into his job and only had an LTR out of laziness.

Then let's change the story to her actually being hot instead of depressingly average and had something more going on than community fucking college.

The answer would still be the same; the best way to get "revenge" is to file her away under "bitches I have naked photos of that I used to fuck and can't quite remember because I'm fucking something better"

[Screwston]

How do you plan on fucking her now if you've never been able to before?

[RedBull]

(07-06-2012 05:11 AM)RioNomad Wrote:  

Your only realistic option is to kill yourself. I see no other way out of this situation.

That, or if you are not a troll, you should buy Bang and read it before asking any more questions on this forum.

OMFGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOO LOLOLOLOLOLOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL !!!!!!!!!!!

[wolf]

Whenever a girl makes excuses she is not interested in YOU. She is interested in having a boyfriend, having a f*ck buddy, selling p*ssy on the street for the RIGHT GUY. If the right guy comes along then she will take whatever he gives her. Don't get mad that it's not you.

And by the way chicks sometimes go find a guy quick and bang him and make sure you hear/see it just so she can let you know she is not really interested in you. The same crap happened to ex-coworker. He started dating some girl from his apartment building and when he got too close she avoided him and brought a guy over quick and let everybody know that she did.

Drop the "I need to show her" mentality. In 5 months this chick won't even register in your mind. Move onto something better.

[joker]

You engineer petroleum. go out and get yourself some real smack

[WestCoast]

Jesus.

The level of not caring needs to be so high in western society now that i actually almost feel bad for this guy.

It has gotten to the point where if you care, even a spec, you're fucked.

So what "opener do I use?" who gives a shit
What do I do to get back? Never cared in the first place
Should I do...? Doesn't fucking matter just do whatever and if it does not work who cares

Unfortunately competition has increased so much and hamster spinning is going faster than a Ferrari redlined in first gear, that the answer to 99% of questions is to just not give a fuck.

Answer to this one? Should I "revenge or leave" it's too late just leave and don't give a fuck.

I'll make one asshole comment thats no where near as bad as RioNomad, who just made me puke up my morning coffee. But a 5 with a magnetic personality? She is still a 5. Who cares bro.

[WanderingSoul]

(07-11-2012 09:43 AM)WestCoast Wrote:  

I'll make one asshole comment thats no where near as bad as RioNomad, who just made me puke up my morning coffee. But a 5 with a magnetic personality? She is still a 5. Who cares bro.

In my defense, I am leaning towards him being a troll.

[WestCoast]

Yeah I agree could be a troll but he seems very very new to game. I have no hate on your comment was hilarious, just hope the OP doesn't go all beta on us and think we are just being mean.

I only read up to the point where I saw "magnetic personality" and threw up.

Guy suffering from massive one-it-is and should probably get on a program before he posts again.

(07-11-2012 11:29 AM)RioNomad Wrote:  

(07-11-2012 09:43 AM)WestCoast Wrote:  

I'll make one asshole comment thats no where near as bad as RioNomad, who just made me puke up my morning coffee. But a 5 with a magnetic personality? She is still a 5. Who cares bro.

In my defense, I am leaning towards him being a troll.

[ThatNorwegianGuy]

(07-06-2012 05:11 AM)RioNomad Wrote:  

Your only realistic option is to kill yourself. I see no other way out of this situation.

That, or if you are not a troll, you should buy Bang and read it before asking any more questions on this forum.

Harsh, but not entirely unjustified.

[finton_the_toole]

(07-12-2012 04:15 AM)ThatNorwegianGuy Wrote:  

(07-06-2012 05:11 AM)RioNomad Wrote:  

Your only realistic option is to kill yourself. I see no other way out of this situation.

That, or if you are not a troll, you should buy Bang and read it before asking any more questions on this forum.

Harsh, but not entirely unjustified.

Harsh!?? This is a forum for men. Harsh is part of the scenery.

[Ethiopian_Volt]

So I'm finally done reading Bang ! To be honest I feel profoundly ashamed starting this thread, especially harboring that ueber beta mindset for so long. I honestly can't believe that was me less than 3 weeks ago. I'm certain that from this point, I can only get better.

@ RioNomad ,as for me being a troll ... I can't comprehend where that came from. This is a Newbie Forum. Boiled down to its essence, it means it's a place where newbies ask for advice from Players like yourself regardless of beta/omega status. I'm sure I'll prove you otherwise in due time.

As for the rest, thanks for the feedback !

PS: Saturday night I decided to hit downtown OKC & do 25 approaches. Only managed 8 but got 1 Phone number and one girl called me " pretty hot ". I'll keep ya'll posted on my progress.

Cheers

[blackglasses]

(07-06-2012 03:37 AM)Ethiopian_Volt Wrote:  

Hey there guys,
I am new to game in general and this forum in particular. I live in Tulsa, Oklahoma ; 23 years old, Petroleum Engineer , near six-figure salary,185 lbs & somewhat toned, 6 foot 1 , considered good looking by most. I'll be the first to admit that despite my "potential" i have never been the best when it comes to women ! After i graduated in January i moved to Tulsa and met this girl through a co-worker... average face, good body ,HB5 all n all, yet with a magnetic personality so i kinda liked her from the get-go. She is a student at the local community college which is not too far from where i live so we started hanging out at bars during the weekends every now and then. In late March, she moved out of her dorm and applied to the Apartment complex i live in. And by mere chance she ended in the apartment next to me , so we basically were wall mates. I was beyond elated but decided not to take things too fast. After a few weeks I asked her if she wanted to go out on a date sometime. She said she liked me but that she just wasn't ready for a boyfriend at this point in her life and that she was " emotionally drained" from a previous relationship.
What can a man do ? I said ok and wished her the best while our hallway meetings became awkward. 2 or 3 weeks i hear some strange sounds and guess what ? She's getting piped down by some guy ! I cant sleep because the walls are thin and she is LOUUD !!! I didnt mind ... UNTIL ... about 2 weeks ago i met the guy. He's is some Trinidadian dude who works at the local grocery store where i shop . He's got no style ( baggy jeans and Do-rag) , he's short( but somewhat muscular) and drives a beat up Chevy cavalier.
What should i do ? Is it better to use this situation as a stepping stone and start gaming other girls ? Or should i pursue this girl and fuck her whatever the cost , just to get this anger out of my system ? What would you do ?

First you should be careful giving out that kind of information. Second just leave her alone and find some new pussy