This thread reeks of gay...
But honestly...go play some fucking sports and don't hang around your lame ass office buddies.
But honestly...go play some fucking sports and don't hang around your lame ass office buddies.
Quote: (07-10-2012 01:36 PM)Feo Wrote:
go play some fucking sports
Quote: (07-10-2012 01:36 PM)Feo Wrote:
go play some fucking sports
Quote: (07-10-2012 04:36 PM)Blackhawk Wrote:
Quote: (07-10-2012 01:36 PM)Feo Wrote:
go play some fucking sports
I moved to a new town and had the bright idea to join a co-ed softball league to meet lots of locals (and girls) quickly.
Everyone was married and older than me. I ended up on the worst team in the league. We literally lost every game.
It wasted my Thursday nights for 3 months.
I don't recommend repeating my experience.
Quote: (07-04-2012 06:13 PM)HiFlo Wrote:yeah everytime i'm out especially at nightclubs (easier to blend in the crowd than in a bar) i see guys solo trying to have fun or just watching what's going on around
I've been reading Roosh's Bang Poland, and while it's great on some game techniques, one of the lines that stuck out with me was that when Polish girls asked him who he was at the club with, he answered, "I'm here alone, I don't have friends here." In Poland, this worked for him b/c they interpreted it as self-confident, but in the US the lone-wolf thing isn't really considered cool.
Quote: (07-04-2012 06:13 PM)HiFlo Wrote:fast way to do it is, not surprisingly, by knowing girls..
What about you all? Do you have close guy friends? Or do you have just guy acquiantences who you may see time and time again at the same bars/clubs?
Do you join a sports team league? Do you bond over sports at a sports bar with some regulars?
Quote: (07-04-2012 06:13 PM)HiFlo Wrote:
I've been reading Roosh's Bang Poland, and while it's great on some game techniques, one of the lines that stuck out with me was that when Polish girls asked him who he was at the club with, he answered, "I'm here alone, I don't have friends here." In Poland, this worked for him b/c they interpreted it as self-confident, but in the US the lone-wolf thing isn't really considered cool.
Quote: (07-12-2012 03:04 PM)MikeCF Wrote:
If you want to make friends, you need to be worthy of being a friend.
Are you? Why? Because you were born?
What do you offer other guys?
Quote: (07-12-2012 02:33 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:
Quote: (07-04-2012 06:13 PM)HiFlo Wrote:
I've been reading Roosh's Bang Poland, and while it's great on some game techniques, one of the lines that stuck out with me was that when Polish girls asked him who he was at the club with, he answered, "I'm here alone, I don't have friends here." In Poland, this worked for him b/c they interpreted it as self-confident, but in the US the lone-wolf thing isn't really considered cool.
Why do you say that?
What city/state are you in?
Quote: (07-12-2012 07:57 AM)Sebastian Wrote:
they hit the bar right after the game lol.
Quote: (07-05-2012 12:00 AM)pitt Wrote:Pitt, excactly how do you maintain this international playboy lifestyle. I'm only 20 and I so badly want to travel.
I wouldnt be so desperate to make new male friends.
I have dumped most of my male friends almost two years ago and i have told myself not too long ago that i dont want to have new male friends and im good with the ones i have now. However, due to my super social nature, i cant help but get to know new people, i usually avoid it to go anywhere but when the new cat is interesting, i cant help but connect with him.
However when you are an adult, you are not just interested in connecting with someone who makes you laugh, you are more interested in connecting with someone who helps you grow. The truth is that the majority of males are uninteresting people, its hard for you to find other cats who are into self development. I am more interested in giving and receiving value. For example, me and one of my best mates were rolling the other day, then he told me to go see his cousin, we went to his cousin house, next minute we started talking about sports and then the conversation is getting more and more interested and i found out that he is got a post graduation degree in sports and health (some shit like that) and that he works as a personal trainer. Latter on we arranged a deal where i would pay his gym membership and he would give me personal training in the gym with non additional value (what a deal, a gym membership is 50 dollars per month and personal trainers charge that money per hour). So this cat became part of my circle by being my personal trainer. Talking about this, i have also met another cat two weeks ago who is giving me programming lessons for almost nothing.
Resuming, im more interested in getting to know people that bring value to my life then guys who are bringing fun.
Plus i am an international playboy, i dont stay around a lot, most of these cats dont even have money to go to a local nightclub, i cant see them keeping up with being my friends, they can't afford my lifestyle (i am talking mainly travelling here).
Quote: (07-12-2012 03:48 PM)46. Wrote:
Quote: (07-12-2012 07:57 AM)Sebastian Wrote:
they hit the bar right after the game lol.
Yup. Everyone mentioned sports because its true. Most of my adult friends revolve around sports and after-game drinking (as well as work). The additional thing about hanging out with other men and sports is that sports qualifies dudes. You know who's all talk, and who delivers. You know who's selfish or unselfish, and who's got your back. All those characteristics displayed during games is what you'll get as a friend.
Quote: (07-13-2012 06:50 PM)HiFlo Wrote:
OK, another question, let's say I'm not a guy interested in talking about sports (I like playing em, even though I suck), but I just can't really develop 'feelings' to follow a sport.
Football is huge in the south. I know the scores the next day, but I have little interest in watching it.
How do I adapt myself to actually learning more & liking football/baseball/bball? Cause right now all I see is numerical stats on a page that I'm supposed to memorize. How do I inject emotion into this shit?
Quote: (07-13-2012 06:50 PM)HiFlo Wrote:
OK here's a deal that makes shit tough for me, want to see if anyone has any suggestions. I can't drink.
Quote: (07-13-2012 06:50 PM)HiFlo Wrote:
How do I adapt myself to actually learning more & liking football/baseball/bball? Cause right now all I see is numerical stats on a page that I'm supposed to memorize. How do I inject emotion into this shit?
Quote: (07-13-2012 06:50 PM)HiFlo Wrote:
OK, another question, let's say I'm not a guy interested in talking about sports (I like playing em, even though I suck), but I just can't really develop 'feelings' to follow a sport.
Football is huge in the south. I know the scores the next day, but I have little interest in watching it.
How do I adapt myself to actually learning more & liking football/baseball/bball? Cause right now all I see is numerical stats on a page that I'm supposed to memorize. How do I inject emotion into this shit?
Quote: (07-13-2012 04:47 PM)pitt Wrote:
I am not living big like other guys on here. You should ask guys who are making more than 100k per year. Check out the lifestyle subforum, there is tons of information on how you can make money long term. I wish this forum existed when i was 20, there is so much info on here, if you use it wisely, you should be doing fine in few years.
Quote: (07-13-2012 10:39 PM)_DC_ Wrote:
Quote: (07-13-2012 04:47 PM)pitt Wrote:
I am not living big like other guys on here. You should ask guys who are making more than 100k per year. Check out the lifestyle subforum, there is tons of information on how you can make money long term. I wish this forum existed when i was 20, there is so much info on here, if you use it wisely, you should be doing fine in few years.
I don't get the point. I'm making over 100K now, and have no problem making friends, however, I'd say it was even easier back in college when I didn't have a job. Money has little to do with it.
As I write this I have to check myself though. I'll admit having a really awesome pad makes people want to come over and hang out more... if thats what you mean by more $$$.
Quote: (07-12-2012 03:04 PM)MikeCF Wrote:
If you want to make friends, you need to be worthy of being a friend.
Are you? Why? Because you were born?
What do you offer other guys?