[silent_scope]

(06-29-2012 09:50 AM)thedude3737 Wrote:  

Now, on the flip side, you certainly want to avoid a slut who's transitioning into the phase of retired and embittered ex-party girl who's looking to change her ways and settle down with a nice harmless beta. And it's betas like these that will become furious and seeth with jealous resentment if they find out their girlfriend's past.

Soup's fruit metaphor is perfect. Get em while they're ripe and keep a fresh supply

ETA: I've fucked a few girls that I worked with who had slutbag reputations. And since they had that reputation, they had a huge line of suitors who thought they could get in easy, but sluts aren't always "easier" just because they've been around. They denied plenty of guys who couldn't make it happen, and when I fucked them I was the target of some coworker envy. Just sayin'.

Just lived this. LTR with a chick transitioning out of her slutty phase. I caught it on the tail end.. (still a slut when I met her) and now she's trying to be all "I don't want to do that anymore". So I parted ways with, "If we're not fucking, we got nothing." I noticed quite a few of these beta orbiter dudes hanging around. Mad that I jumped their place in line and still hoping to get a piece of the slut action. Sucks to be them.

Problem now is that she may have polluted the pool of single chicks available to me via that social circle because she been going around telling them we're a couple. Is there a good way to mitigate that damage or is it even worth it to try and bang chicks in this circle now?

[esperar]

Because they have no self esteem and they think a slut is all they can get? I think all women are sluts for the right guy though, so it doesn't bother me.

[OGNorCal707]

Sluts are good for fucking, that means FWB and fuck buddy situations, in my opinion LTR is a whole other beast. I think it was Samseau who said if you're going to LTR a slut, you have to be 100% dominate and in control of the relationship, which is not exactly an easy feat.

Hot slutty women, have ran through so many guys, a lot of them are experts in playing their "game", lying, manipulation, getting into a guys head, fucking with his confidence, and ego. Your inner game has to be 100%, if you have any weaknesses, or beta tendancies, they will uproot that shit.

So if you get involved with one of these types, just know what you're getting into and what to expect. It's like that saying, "you can't teach an old dog, new tricks", most guys would be a fool to think they are the "super alpha" that's going to tame the wild, slutty, party girl. What are you going to do when she wants to do a "girls' night out" partying with her slut friends?

You can't become the super over-protective jealous boyfriend, that will turn her off, but you know she's a slut and her friends are sluts, she's going to be getting drunk on tequila shots, getting hit on by other guys, and probably going to grind dudes on the dancefloor, and God knows what else.

So IMO, sluts are a no-go for a LTR, that is a "long term relationship" where I am assuming you expect her to be loyal and monogamous with you. Maybe you don't care if she fucks other guys, but I'd say 90% of guy here, and the vast majority of "alpha" don't want "their girl" fucking other dudes, I certainly wouldn't. However, if she's not "my girl", I don't have any deeply invested emotional connection, then whatever. I certainly don't want to know about and think about other guys, but she's just a fuck toy to me, and ideally I'm fucking other girls like her.

[keepreal]

It is not just cheating with sluts, sluts go through so many guys, she probably get bored u real quick after knowing u, she will become a drama and complaining bitch trying to screw with ur head. She is probably selfish, outside of fucking, is questionable she knows how please a man. U don't want her for LTR, maybe for STR.

[Kona]

(06-29-2012 01:34 PM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:  

Sluts are good for fucking

Granted I haven't had what you call a "LTR" since I was 21, but if I was going to, it would be with a slut. Especially what you guys are talking about is the "local slut."

If she caught me messing around, I'd just be like "well you fucked around on Johnny" or whoever. You get a million outs.

Plus like OGNORCAL said, sluts like to fuck. You got a way better chance of threeways and slut swapping and whatnot than you do with non-sluts.

I say sluts are the way to go.

Aloha!

[DjembaDjemba]

I've dated some prudes in this town, never again.

Give me a dick sucking slut any-day over some stone faced prude that doesn't want to get her hair wet in the shower.

[Giovonny]

Because they are desperate, have no other options and are getting their dick wet for the first time in months/years..