[paulspin]

Hey guys, need some advice ... for the future that is; I've already f*ed up. I'm in the beginning stages of it all so I'm stumbling and messing up a lot.

After so many years of suppressing my inner-man, I've accumulated a lot of "friends." Some (or most) of you will know what I'm talking about: the friend zone. The thing here is, I'm attracted to some of them and want to have sex with them.

Here is the general question: how do I bang a girl who I already know? So there is no approach, there is no opener. That is, they see me as a "friend." I'm already in but not really ... any advice as to how I can go about breaking friend zones? Should I just abruptly change course? And have a f* it attitude?

[Lumiere]

[Giovonny]

"Paulspin" said ..... " Should I just abruptly change course? And have a fuck it attitude?" ..... Yes, a "fuck it" attitude will get you laid alot more then the "freindly" attitude that you have now.

[UgSlayer]

Go outside your circle of friends. Bang chicks that you are not already acquainted with. Have them hang out with your female friends in a group situation. This may hurt your chances with girl you're banging/looking to bang if your female friends think of you as a little brother figure, so do not bring them around those friends. But after you have those notches under your belt, if you are still interested in your friends, this will help your chances. Also, a long layoff from seeing them while improving your game will improve your chances of banging them.

[speakeasy]

I'm convinced that kino is the fork in the road that causes girls to split into either the platonic friend camp or a potential bang. If you keep finding yourself collecting female friends who like you a lot as a person but don't want to get down and dirty, ask yourself if you are kino-escalating. If not, then that's why they are ending up as just friends. Either that or you have some personal thing to tweak you aren't aware of. Could be anything from rancid breath to being overly needy or some nervous tick.

[thegmanifesto]

"how do I bang a girl who I already know?"

Have you tried the multiple bottles of Red Wine approach?

[paulspin]

speakeasy and ugslayer, good advice ... makes sense: kino and long layoff. Thanks.

[paulspin]

(12-06-2009 09:20 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

"how do I bang a girl who I already know?"

Have you tried the multiple bottles of Red Wine approach?

Not yet ... but I'm so bad in the zone with some of these chicks, this would go in-line with the f* it attitude. But I'll take this advice if and when the opportunity presents itself; I think, at this point, it's not worth going back to a stop I missed.