[ElJefe]

OK, I'm in new territory here. Background:

First off, I'm working hard trying to finish school (I declined the well-paying job I asked about in a different thread in order to do this) and trying to stow a little money, get my life together, focus on training. I really needed to pull the plug on partying and go back to working on getting ahead again. The sooner I finish this chapter of my life, the sooner I can have real fun.

This also means I hardly ever go out right now. It's too much time and trouble at the moment compared to my more immediate goals. I want to return to the game, but all my efforts are focused elsewhere until I achieve the first goals.

Lucky for me, at the same time I began to stop going out, a girl I met online has been failling pretty hard for me.

She's a solid 7.5, moving towards 8 as she blossoms. To boot, we get along very well with conversations of a caliber and depth I don't even get from most of my buddies. This is nothing short of fantastic for a weirdo like myself. So she's got looks, a cool personality, and she's 19.

She wants to take things to the next level. I have avoided this talk because I am too discombobulated to deal with that stuff right now, but I decided to take advantage of my bargaining position and introduce the idea of threesomes as a part of the package that is me.

She says the idea turns her on immensely, but she's very insecure about it and me, and since we talked about it, she wants to know:

1. Did I do threesomes with my ex?

2. How often would I want a threesome?

What are the correct answers to this question and how should I go about this? There might be potential but she needs to feel like she's in good hands.

I also considered just dumping her but why no deal if I can have a win-win.

PS: if this works out, I also want her to get fake tits. Any strategies for this, too?

[iamvirgin]

(06-13-2012 10:07 AM)ElJefe Wrote:  

OK, I'm in new territory here. Background:

First off, I'm working hard trying to finish school (I declined the well-paying job I asked about in a different thread in order to do this) and trying to stow a little money, get my life together, focus on training. I really needed to pull the plug on partying and go back to working on getting ahead again. The sooner I finish this chapter of my life, the sooner I can have real fun.

This also means I hardly ever go out right now. It's too much time and trouble at the moment compared to my more immediate goals. I want to return to the game, but all my efforts are focused elsewhere until I achieve the first goals.

Lucky for me, at the same time I began to stop going out, a girl I met online has been failling pretty hard for me.

She's a solid 7.5, moving towards 8 as she blossoms. To boot, we get along very well with conversations of a caliber and depth I don't even get from most of my buddies. This is nothing short of fantastic for a weirdo like myself. So she's got looks, a cool personality, and she's 19.

She wants to take things to the next level. I have avoided this talk because I am too discombobulated to deal with that stuff right now, but I decided to take advantage of my bargaining position and introduce the idea of threesomes as a part of the package that is me.

She says the idea turns her on immensely, but she's very insecure about it and me, and since we talked about it, she wants to know:

1. Did I do threesomes with my ex?

2. How often would I want a threesome?

What are the correct answers to this question and how should I go about this? There might be potential but she needs to feel like she's in good hands.

I also considered just dumping her but why no deal if I can have a win-win.

PS: if this works out, I also want her to get fake tits. Any strategies for this, too?

1) This is a tricky question. If you say No, then she would ask that why are you demanding threesome when you were not doing it with your ex. If you say yes, she will say that what is the guarantee that this relationship will work with threesome as the last one failed.

I am inclining towards "no" because you won't face more questions like i want to know about your ex and the third person etc..etc..Keep a solid answer ready when you say "no" and you should be good to go.

2) Tell her it depends on the mood. If she asks for more details or specific time, just tell her once a month or it depends. Don't give any Clear cut answer.

Make sure you make her happy during the 1st threesome and give special attention to her. Also give some special attention for the next few days after threesome. This will eradicate her issues about insecurity and you would be able to have threesomes frequently.

If possible, encourage her to explore her bi-sexuality. Thus, she will also enjoy during the threesome and want more.

Not sure about the fake tits. It will be her decision in the end because it is a major surgery on this body (same as a girl who cannot force you for circumcision)

[bacan]

I wouldn't push for fake tits. I have had a ton of experience with them in Colombia and Venezuela and the reality is that the people who don't get to touch them enjoy them more than you I think. They look great in sweaters, low cut shirts, etc. but don't feel that great. Plus they can have problems later on. The only reason is if you want guys to be jealous of your girl's nice rack without knowing for sure they are fake, but I would pass on it. Too weird of a thing to pressure a girl into doing for a guy (modifying her body) in my opinion. Of course, to each his own and I don't know how much you love fake tits.

[bacan]

With how often, you just say that depends on finding the girls that would fit well as a fun and sexy addition to your relationship.

I don't know how it would hurt to say you've had them with your last girlfriend. Have you?

I had a lot of experience having threesomes with girlfriends as well as just... pairs of friends (awesome).. The biggest key is that she is bi or at least turned on by the idea, which she is.

[Kona]

(06-13-2012 10:07 AM)ElJefe Wrote:  

She says the idea turns her on immensely, but she's very insecure about it and me, and since we talked about it, she wants to know:

1. Did I do threesomes with my ex?

2. How often would I want a threesome?

1) You say YES to this question. In fact you had threesomes so often, they are second nature to you. You can't believe that you and this new girl aren't having a threesome right now. You're ex, who is quite a bit better looking than this current girl, found the girls for you. She was bringing them home every night. After you guys were together for a year, she started to not want so many threesomes, so you threw her out.

2) You want them as often as possible.

Aloha!

[ElJefe]

Thanks, gents.

I like how the counter-intuitive approach (ie. not to assuage the girls feelings) is the way to go.

It almost seems like a shit-test.

So, I will say yes and often.

[kosko]

You have to take the lead on this and show your comfy with it. So......

Lie....lie....lie...lie.

Don't big it up too crazy infinity but just be confident in re-affirming to her that threesomes are second nature to you. The issues of Bi-sexuality and all that shit will come later. In the start she may even just even like watching you pound some other broad.

But with part 2 just play it cool and just say when ever you both feel its right. You just gotta sell her on it because in my experience any female that *thinks* about.. *wants* it. So its just a matter of them getting past the brick wall and letting their hamster run wild once they are past that initial insecure stage you will have a freak on you hand.

Work up her kink side slowly by watching porn with her and shit. Plant seeds and pre-select porn that you like and would want to emulate.

When her comfort level gets to the stage of her being willing to dive in the part of agreeing on how to introduce a girl will be tricky. You can't being in a girl you know initially as that will set off flags in her head. She would honestly be more comfy with some random off craigslist you guys have dinner with versus a girl from your past. If she recommends a friend they take it the offer. Just make sure you fuck her brains out after you do the threesome to help her forget any hamster concerns she might have (you most likely will anyways). In my experience I find broads don't give a shit unless they know that they still have first access to the cock. The girl I used to play with, it worked well because she assumed that she had first dibs so she was comfy with whatever after the first few rounds.

[DirkJohanson]

i don't like fake tits, but the most surefire way to get a chick to get them is for you to buy them.

[snoop]

(06-13-2012 09:32 PM)DirkJohanson Wrote:  

i don't like fake tits, but the most surefire way to get a chick to get them is for you to buy them.

That also seems like the most surefire way to get her to ditch you once they are paid for.

I don't know anyone who bought a women fake tits and it worked out well for them, but then again I only know like 3 people who have done that.