He who fights and runs away‥lives to fight another day!
Roosh's post on when to eject from a date, as well as reading the thread about our biggest sticking points, and my own recent experiences have inspired me to dedicate a thread to the art of ejection.
Like most of you probably are, I'm a busy guy. Between my work and game, I don't have too many moments of rest other than sleep, and I don't take vacations.
I'm still in the more numbers-game part of game, where a lot of my success can be seen as a result of approaching/contacting multiple girls in the same way that Paul Janka describes in his fuck manual.
It is becoming more clear that knowing when to eject is as important as forcing yourself to approach. Being able to recognize if or when it's appropriate to cut-out gives you more power because you are the one making the decision to end it, not her. It also frees up more of your time and energy to pursue other potential bangs.
So, what are the signs that you are being led-on? One that I've noticed is when a girl constantly rejects your suggestions for a meeting location, or keeps pushing the time back. These are fairly obvious shit tests.
The girl who rejects your suggestion or makes her own after hearing yours is checking to see if she can walk all over you.
The girl who keeps pushing the date back is testing to see if you have a life or not.
Maybe there are more gamely responses to these, and I'd be curious to know how you other players would handle them. At my skill level, it makes more sense for me to hit the eject/next button.
Here's an example from tonight. I approached this girl on the train a couple weeks ago, got her number, and wasn't able to get her out on the first attempt a few weeks ago, so I went for a meet-up today over text. This exchange has been going on from 9pm-1am in the morning.
Me: Hey how is your Wed?
Her: Fine. Work til 11. Yrs?
Me: Good. I'm going out for a drink. Care to join
Me:? Sent immediately after last text
Her: Sure where
Me: xxx x place near my home
Her: No xx train for me tonight
Me: Let's go to xxx xxxbar that's closest to me right off the subway line she's near
Her: xxx xxx is a lil gross last time I was there the ceiling leaked on me
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So, now it is almost 2 in the morning, and I'm pulling the ripcord.
Reasons:
- She's putting up too much fight by denying all my suggestions. I need some compliance.
- There is no indication in her last two responses that she's still interested in actually coming out at all.
- I'm getting tired, so it's not worth it for me to trek out to the bar.
I'd be curious to hear your ejection stories/rules/ideas. Did you cockblock yourself, or did you save some time/energy and dignity?
Roosh's post on when to eject from a date, as well as reading the thread about our biggest sticking points, and my own recent experiences have inspired me to dedicate a thread to the art of ejection.
Like most of you probably are, I'm a busy guy. Between my work and game, I don't have too many moments of rest other than sleep, and I don't take vacations.
I'm still in the more numbers-game part of game, where a lot of my success can be seen as a result of approaching/contacting multiple girls in the same way that Paul Janka describes in his fuck manual.
It is becoming more clear that knowing when to eject is as important as forcing yourself to approach. Being able to recognize if or when it's appropriate to cut-out gives you more power because you are the one making the decision to end it, not her. It also frees up more of your time and energy to pursue other potential bangs.
So, what are the signs that you are being led-on? One that I've noticed is when a girl constantly rejects your suggestions for a meeting location, or keeps pushing the time back. These are fairly obvious shit tests.
The girl who rejects your suggestion or makes her own after hearing yours is checking to see if she can walk all over you.
The girl who keeps pushing the date back is testing to see if you have a life or not.
Maybe there are more gamely responses to these, and I'd be curious to know how you other players would handle them. At my skill level, it makes more sense for me to hit the eject/next button.
Here's an example from tonight. I approached this girl on the train a couple weeks ago, got her number, and wasn't able to get her out on the first attempt a few weeks ago, so I went for a meet-up today over text. This exchange has been going on from 9pm-1am in the morning.
Me: Hey how is your Wed?
Her: Fine. Work til 11. Yrs?
Me: Good. I'm going out for a drink. Care to join
Me:? Sent immediately after last text
Her: Sure where
Me: xxx x place near my home
Her: No xx train for me tonight
Me: Let's go to xxx xxxbar that's closest to me right off the subway line she's near
Her: xxx xxx is a lil gross last time I was there the ceiling leaked on me
-----
So, now it is almost 2 in the morning, and I'm pulling the ripcord.
Reasons:
- She's putting up too much fight by denying all my suggestions. I need some compliance.
- There is no indication in her last two responses that she's still interested in actually coming out at all.
- I'm getting tired, so it's not worth it for me to trek out to the bar.
I'd be curious to hear your ejection stories/rules/ideas. Did you cockblock yourself, or did you save some time/energy and dignity?
