Let me summarize:
Been seeing this girl for a few weeks now. Things have been going pretty well, with increasing levels of making out each time we see each other. Last night, at her suggestion, we got together with a few friends for drinks. When we were leaving the bar, one of our friends suggested we (the girl and I) crash at his place... obviously so we could hook up there. At first the girl was excited about the idea, but then inexplicably, she flakes out and decides to get a ride home with one of her guy friends (definitely platonic, nothing more) who was there having drinks with us. It had previously been established by a mutual female friend that this girl is really into me, so what gives?
Haven't heard from her today, and this is a pretty serious flake out, considering the way things had been escalating. Do I play it ice cold by brushing her off? Should I give her another chance? It seems like there should be some sort of punishment for flaking out like that. Anyway, only been seeing each other a short time, so nothing really major invested in this chick.
Been seeing this girl for a few weeks now. Things have been going pretty well, with increasing levels of making out each time we see each other. Last night, at her suggestion, we got together with a few friends for drinks. When we were leaving the bar, one of our friends suggested we (the girl and I) crash at his place... obviously so we could hook up there. At first the girl was excited about the idea, but then inexplicably, she flakes out and decides to get a ride home with one of her guy friends (definitely platonic, nothing more) who was there having drinks with us. It had previously been established by a mutual female friend that this girl is really into me, so what gives?
Haven't heard from her today, and this is a pretty serious flake out, considering the way things had been escalating. Do I play it ice cold by brushing her off? Should I give her another chance? It seems like there should be some sort of punishment for flaking out like that. Anyway, only been seeing each other a short time, so nothing really major invested in this chick.