[Catch 22]

Went out with a POF girl tonight. Second time I've seen her. First time I got horrible body language signals, lots of distance the whole time, but I just rolled with it. Still got cheek when I went to kiss. Went out with her again tonight and only did some weak kissing.

Normally, you plow ahead and it becomes pretty clear that either 1) it's not going to happen or 2) that it's on, always before D3. I'm not sensing either of those. Clearly she's not playing the free drinks card, I think I've spent less than $20 on her so far, and tonight she trekked to Arlington from College Park, farther than I'd trek for most women.

So what do you all think is the deal here? We've all run into cats where during the day you meet or on D2 you just know you'll be smashing, they're quick. Is it possible that some are the opposite and just take longer? If so, is it even worth bothering?

[Screwston]

Maybe she actually likes you and wants to make you wait a while...lol! This ain't the 50's. Give her one more try if you want and delete her number after that. Get her full of alcohol and go "caveman style". Let it be known right away what's going down.

[slubu]

One girl that's in my rotation now, that turned out to be a complete sex fiend, was somewhat slow. Would not kiss me on date 1, on date 2 tried to pull the same shit and I got angry and she finally kissed me, date 3 bj, date 4 and on pure sex. Now she just comes over for sex and leaves. So you never know. Actually, I didn't even pursue her after she failed to make out on date 1 but she invited me out again so that ended up working.

[Menace]

Arlington to College Park is far (DMV reresent!), so that was some real effort on her part. Get her over to your place and go for bang. If your dick is not going into at least one of her holes on D3, then just next.

[thegmanifesto]

(06-07-2012 10:18 PM)Catch 22 Wrote:  

So what do you all think is the deal here? We've all run into cats where during the day you meet or on D2 you just know you'll be smashing, they're quick. Is it possible that some are the opposite and just take longer? If so, is it even worth bothering?

This has got to be an online dating thing.

If you will notice, 99% of the weird girl stories on here start with:

"So, I met this girl on Plenty of Shrimp..."

Or

"So, I met this girl on OKStupid...."

[I'mWaitingForTheMan]

(06-08-2012 09:28 AM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

(06-07-2012 10:18 PM)Catch 22 Wrote:  

So what do you all think is the deal here? We've all run into cats where during the day you meet or on D2 you just know you'll be smashing, they're quick. Is it possible that some are the opposite and just take longer? If so, is it even worth bothering?

This has got to be an online dating thing.

If you will notice, 99% of the weird girl stories on here start with:

"So, I met this girl on Plenty of Shrimp..."

Or

"So, I met this girl on OKStupid...."

To me all these weird girl stories stem from over exposure to technology. People aren't learning how to interact normally without text messages and social media and all that crap. Their understanding of male-female relations is based solely on what they see on television and the internet, as if we are breeding the next generation to be slightly more autistic on average.

[j r]

This thread is a little confusing, cause the term "cats" usually refers to dudes.

[Shamrock]

This is the perfect time to pull the home dinner date move. If she declines you'll know where you stand. I pulled this two weeks ago (I planted the seed D2) and she agreed. She then backed out the day before because I was still a strange man, blah, blah. I said cool...I'll pick you up after work instead. Picked her up at columbus circle and just went straight back to my apartment...literally shoved her into the cab.

[Duke Castile]

(06-08-2012 10:46 AM)Shamrock Wrote:  

This is the perfect time to pull the home dinner date move. If she declines you'll know where you stand. I pulled this two weeks ago (I planted the seed D2) and she agreed. She then backed out the day before because I was still a strange man, blah, blah. I said cool...I'll pick you up after work instead. Picked her up at columbus circle and just went straight back to my apartment...literally shoved her into the cab.

I met a girl in person but with the same body language. I just told this story but it's relevant here too. I would kiss this girl and she would respond with a kiss, but I never got the signal to progress (moaning, her touching me etc) and so I got the feeling she just wasn't turned on. I said fuck it and after a shitty movie date at home said "I think we should have a good ole fashioned high school makeout". She laughed and I was fucking her within 20 minutes, hell maybe 10. Get her to agree to a dinner date at home, wear your "kiss the cook" apron and make something nice. Put on a movie and see what happens. She will be nervous about D3 and coming to your place, I've used the HS makeout line before and it always gives them plausible deniability. "Oh, makeout sounds safe, that's not sex, he isn't expecting sex then" and yet, her guard goes down, she gets turned on and you fuck her. Bam.

[Catch 22]

Thanks for the thoughts everybody. Sounds about right. I like the idea of a lame movie or dinner date and then just going caveman on her ass.

Slubu, that's good to hear. I'll never understand the BJ but no sex concept. I would never do that if I were a woman.

And no doubt that the crazies are on POS and OKS. Seriously, if a woman in DC can't find a guy...something's seriously wrong with her.

Yeah, I started reading Day Bang, so I've been thinking of women as cats from that.