[MrXY]

I have a real dilemma. A few weeks ago I got a message from a chick on Plenty of Fish, basically just saying hi. I looked at her skimpy profile and photos and something about them just gave me a vibe that this chick was DTF.She just looked sexy. In particular, she has the "crazy eyes."

I decided to skip over the usual message exchanges and just ask for the meeting that night. She agreed to meet me at a bar. She looked pretty damn good in person and had a sensuality about her that had come through in the photos. Only problem- she was socially awkward as hell. Couldn't maintain a conversation or even look me in the eye hardly. After a while a friend of hers showed up and she started talking more to the friend than me. OK I was getting annoyed. They suggested we go to another bar close by and i agreed thinking that if she drank a little more maybe she would get over her nervousness and loosen up a bit. I excused myself to go to the bathroom. When I returned about two minutes later they were gone. I then got a text saying "we left" Well, no shit.

Here's where the old me would just have walked out angry and disappointed and gone home.But that was the old me. The current version of me drove over to the other bar, walked in, saw them sitting at a table, went over and confronted her. Told her she was rude as hell and had no social skills at all .Cussed her out and told her friend to shut up when she tried to interject. The chick started in with a sob story about how mean some guys had been to her and that she knew she had poor social skills. She started to cry. By now the whole bar was looking at us. I insulted her a final time and turned around and left.

A couple of weeks later she sent me a message saying she was sorry and wanted to meet me again. I deleted it, even though I did think about it-she is sexy as I said.

Now this afternoon I got another message from her asking for another chance and saying that she will let me tie her up, spank her, slap her, pull her hair. ....

I admit I am strongly tempted. These activities are part of my preferred repertoire anyway, and I would definitely like to do this to her given how she pissed me off. That would be especially satisfying.(not that I would actually hurt her of course). Also over time I have developed a sort of sixth sense about which chicks are into this sort of thing and she absolutely gives off that vibe.

Here's the problem- I'm worried about the crazy. Maybe she's trying to set me up for a false rape charge to get revenge on me (although I have her message as proof that it was consensual). Or maybe she actually wants it but she'll turn on me later.Or maybe stalk me. Seems a sort of borderline personality type.

My dick is telling me to do it, my head is telling me not to. Has anyone had a similar experience? If I did it, how could I protect myself?

[Deluge]

IF you go through with it, film the whole freakshow to play to the grandchildren one day. That and it could save your ass from prison, but like you said you have the message.

Bitches, they be crazy.

[HiFlo]

U could audio record it as a safety precaution. can hide an audio recorder pretty easily.

bitch sounds nutso tho.

[Timoteo]

It would be really hard for me to get past her bailing on me when I went to the bathroom. I actually don't blame her for having the friend drop in - she didn't know you, and agreed spur of the moment to meet you. But then the crying, offers to let you abuse her, etc. etc. is a bit much. The sexual tension created by her erratic behavior is too great a risk. I agree that this shit is tempting though...

[Kona]

Brah, you should beat the shit out of her.

You got it in writing that that's what she wants.

Think about what you wrote there about the "old" you verses the "new" you. I say the "really new" you ties bitches down and smacks them till they scream.

She left you when you went to the bathroom. Nobody fucks with the new you.

Aloha!

[Cr33pin]

Do you need permission to tie chicks up an spank an slap them? I have never had one tell me i couldnt.... ofcourse its hard for them to talk with the ball gag in thier mouth....

[Screwston]

I would abuse the hell out of her in a crack motel room.

[Belize King]

Proceed. Just smash at a motel or hotel so she can't chase you down if she ends up being a crazy stalker. Hopefully she doesnt have your email or facebook. After you smash, give her a week or two to and you can assess how crazy she is. If she isn't crazy, you found a girl for the rotation. If she is crazy, all you have is POF to worry about or bumping into each other at some bar or club.

Go hard or go home.

[esperar]

Pay cash for the hotel room as well incase she gets pregnant. She can't trace you that way.

[kosko]

(06-03-2012 10:21 PM)MrXY Wrote:  

I have a real dilemma. A few weeks ago I got a message from a chick on Plenty of Fish, basically just saying hi. I looked at her skimpy profile and photos and something about them just gave me a vibe that this chick was DTF.She just looked sexy. In particular, she has the "crazy eyes."

I decided to skip over the usual message exchanges and just ask for the meeting that night. She agreed to meet me at a bar. She looked pretty damn good in person and had a sensuality about her that had come through in the photos. Only problem- she was socially awkward as hell. Couldn't maintain a conversation or even look me in the eye hardly. After a while a friend of hers showed up and she started talking more to the friend than me. OK I was getting annoyed. They suggested we go to another bar close by and i agreed thinking that if she drank a little more maybe she would get over her nervousness and loosen up a bit. I excused myself to go to the bathroom. When I returned about two minutes later they were gone. I then got a text saying "we left" Well, no shit.

Here's where the old me would just have walked out angry and disappointed and gone home.But that was the old me. The current version of me drove over to the other bar, walked in, saw them sitting at a table, went over and confronted her. Told her she was rude as hell and had no social skills at all .Cussed her out and told her friend to shut up when she tried to interject. The chick started in with a sob story about how mean some guys had been to her and that she knew she had poor social skills. She started to cry. By now the whole bar was looking at us. I insulted her a final time and turned around and left.

A couple of weeks later she sent me a message saying she was sorry and wanted to meet me again. I deleted it, even though I did think about it-she is sexy as I said.

Now this afternoon I got another message from her asking for another chance and saying that she will let me tie her up, spank her, slap her, pull her hair. ....

I admit I am strongly tempted. These activities are part of my preferred repertoire anyway, and I would definitely like to do this to her given how she pissed me off. That would be especially satisfying.(not that I would actually hurt her of course). Also over time I have developed a sort of sixth sense about which chicks are into this sort of thing and she absolutely gives off that vibe.

Here's the problem- I'm worried about the crazy. Maybe she's trying to set me up for a false rape charge to get revenge on me (although I have her message as proof that it was consensual). Or maybe she actually wants it but she'll turn on me later.Or maybe stalk me. Seems a sort of borderline personality type.

My dick is telling me to do it, my head is telling me not to. Has anyone had a similar experience? If I did it, how could I protect myself?

Just got for it man. She sounds like a A-typical bitch whom is into that Fetish/scene lifestyle. I hit them swinger bars a lot and these bitches are always there and they are always awkward and socially strange. They def. have some screws loose but once you edge her into that type of territory she will melt and basically submit to you after that. I would not worry about her trying to go after fake rape charges, there is shit in writing and she will have to consent to shit anyways. To test if she is in that fetish lifestyle tell her to wear stockings or leather or some bullshit then you will know she's for real since she should have something kicking around. These bitches are fucked though. I really avoid them unless the opportunity is to great to ignore.

You will have to beat her around first then fuck her. That's usually how they get going some of these broads won't want to fuck until they get crazy pain. Its their foreplay.

[Sentrix]

I would do it.

In the extremely unlikely chance that she is trying to set you up, or something insane like that, you can counter with screenshots of the consenting messages, as well as an audio tape of the actual event. I personally can't see her doing that though. I don't put many things past the realm of possibility when it comes to women, but I just cannot see a woman asking something like that without meaning it.

[j r]

You should post the message. I would think it would be fairly easy to tell the difference between some chick who is trying to set you up and some chick who is sincere.

Also, remember, women carry around all sorts of self-loathing. One of the reasons that being a dick with women works and being a nice guy doesn't is cost most women, deep down, are aware of the shitty things they do and want to be held accountable for them.

[Snowman]

(06-04-2012 12:51 AM)houston Wrote:  

I would abuse the hell out of her in a crack motel room.

The bitch is crazy and it sounds like someone has been reading 50 Shades of Grey. But if she really is sexy and you're already into dom, do it for the notch. You'll get to beat and smash. Win win.

But like everyone else said, tread carefully. Avoid her at all costs afterward. She may fall in love with you because you fulfilled her fetish/fantasy or something.

[YoungGunner]

If you go through with it get a few more messages from her telling how bad she wants to be dominated and fucked, then save all of the, messages, and record the sex so you have ironclad protection if anything goes wrong

[babelfish669]

The girl is crazy and retarded.

Tieing up, spanking, slapping, pulling hair is not "beating." You bet if she leaves with a black eye you could go to prison irregardless of what she did or didn't tell you.

Because the girl had her friend show up & then left without telling you, she doesn't qualify for any attention other than sex. I would try the "come over to my place and lets hang out" message around 9 or 10pm at the beginning of the week a few times. If that doesn't work forget it. Spend less time thinking about it than I did writing this message.

[observer20]

RUN AWAY. I have some experience with BDSM and most of the women into the scene have mental issues. Bipolar disorder is quite rampant. A lot of them (almost all of the dominant women) have man hating issues; most were abused somewhere along the line by a man. A lot of them are ashamed of their desires and suffer from "slut's remorse".

It doesn't matter if you get in writing or a videotape, by law she cannot consent to a felony. And even if you get it on tape, what is the jury going to see. A video of you smacking a woman around, and most people get offended by that.

[el mechanico]

Crazy girls say shit like this all the time but in my experience it's all talk. Just show up and play it out to the end and see what happens.
There's no need for any fear. I've fucked so many girls like that I could probably describe to you exactly what the sex is going to be like.

[MrXY]

OK guys I banged her this afternoon.

She acted pretty normal and I found myself liking her after a bit of conversation

Sex was wild-porn star style

I didn't beat her, of course, just gave her my usual rough manhandling which she really enjoyed.

She invited me to drop by any time for a repeat

Everything went better than expected

will do a more detailed report tomorrow since there are a few things that happened that i think will be instructive for game students

[Duke Castile]

Good for you man. I bet you didn't take any audio/video precautions either haha

That's the problem. The "it'll probably be ok". If she's crazy enough to want to be abused sexually, then she's crazy enough to fuck you up good once scorned.

I had a girl that wanted me to "rape" her. She would get so into character that I would actually think she'd changed her mind and I'd stop because, fucking hell, if she's all bruised up around her wrists, her pussy has little tears from just shoving it in, and she get's upset about a random txt message that shows up on the phone then what is really there to prove I DIDN'T just rape her?

Anyway, one morning I woke up still half drunk after a botched attempt and I full on did it. She kept screaming "no" and "stop" and "please". I was rough as fuck. I bent her over and banged her and then fucked her ass too. It was great but, afterwards I was a little freaked. I still played it cool and txtd her I had fun etc. It was a nail biting time period waiting for her to txt back saying she couldn't wait to do it again. There was no "again". I never called.

[Hades]

I'd run, lol. Trust your gut if you think you should back out of this one.

edit: Nevermind. Great work though.

[silent_scope]

She's not really crazy..

I know a chick. Seems normal, big ass tits, very pretty, poor social skills(like a lot of women) and acts like one of the guys. Yet is into the whole BDSM scene as a sub, likes being tied and beaten n other shit like that.

Its either a funny or sad coincidence we both know chicks like this and I suspect there's more of these women out there.

If you got the other shit covered keep banging until you get bored. Learn some of that Domination shit and really rock her world... you got yourself your very own sla..err cock-slut.

[pitt]

Those are my favourite type of chicks.

You should also spit on her, call her dirty names and soon as you bust on her face, kick her out of your house.

I miss dirty bitches, nothing better than that.

[teh_skeeze]

Here's what I would have done:

-Blindfold
-Ball Gag
-Ropes

After securing her, walk the fuck out. If she had the gall to contact me after that I would say "sucks being walked out on doesn't it?"

[dulst]

I wouldn't call a bit of rough sex "abuse". Most girls seem to like that shit. But given that she's asking for it outright rather than hinting like most girls do, secretly film it for security.