Hey guys I just started trying the pof/okc dating stuff this week and managed to possibly have two tentative dates scheduled early next week. I seem to be getting a better date to effort ratio this way over my day or night game, but I am still a novice at those too. I tried searching around, but could not find an answer to these problems.
I have two problems: I got their numbers, used the Bang "do you want to hang out later in the week?", but forgot to ask where they were located (would normally do this in real life before number), though I haven't picked a venue yet (following Bang).
What would be the best way to ask for their location through text? And should this be done on the scheduled day of the date or before?
My next issue is that the hotter one is being sketchy (but has delivered so far). She was giving shit comments during our online chat ("Sounds intense " "Aww what a sweetie" "At least half"), so I just threw out "I have this thing for meeting people face to face. Ferro xxx-xxx-xxxx" (thanks Basil I think) and surprisingly she said she would message me today and did. Here is the text convo:
[I am the one in bold]
Hello
1:25pm
Hello
1:25pm [I had my phone off, so I don't know when she tried texting each one]
Hey its ferro. how are you?
1:26pm
Good. Sleepy.
1:38pm
Its good weather out there for sleep. Btw whats your name?
1:50pm
Cassie [not using her real name]
2:05pm
I'm going to the gym and I really don't want to
2:06pm
Hi Cassie heh bc of weather or your routine?
2:14pm
Weather mainly and my butt hurts
2:24pm
Usually the more i hurt my butt the bigger and stronger it gets. Pros and cons
do you want to hang out later in the week?
2:36pm
I should tell you, I have a boyfriend. I don't know why I'm really doing this. I get bored easily. Sorry if that's all disturbing to you
2:37pm
I just met you and youre already telling me about your problems
How about tue at 9?
2:47pm
What would we do
3:03pm
Are you working?
3:23pm
I am lifting now.
Let me think of a place. Ill hit u up tues
3:35pm
What do you guys think? I need some player criticism. This is my first time with the boyfriend line, and naturally the Bang line seemed to work. Though I still do not know where she lives, didn't really get confirmation of the day nor time (nor a dismissal), and unfortunately the weather will be shit all week. What is a player to do?
I have two problems: I got their numbers, used the Bang "do you want to hang out later in the week?", but forgot to ask where they were located (would normally do this in real life before number), though I haven't picked a venue yet (following Bang).
What would be the best way to ask for their location through text? And should this be done on the scheduled day of the date or before?
My next issue is that the hotter one is being sketchy (but has delivered so far). She was giving shit comments during our online chat ("Sounds intense " "Aww what a sweetie" "At least half"), so I just threw out "I have this thing for meeting people face to face. Ferro xxx-xxx-xxxx" (thanks Basil I think) and surprisingly she said she would message me today and did. Here is the text convo:
[I am the one in bold]
Hello
1:25pm
Hello
1:25pm [I had my phone off, so I don't know when she tried texting each one]
Hey its ferro. how are you?
1:26pm
Good. Sleepy.
1:38pm
Its good weather out there for sleep. Btw whats your name?
1:50pm
Cassie [not using her real name]
2:05pm
I'm going to the gym and I really don't want to
2:06pm
Hi Cassie heh bc of weather or your routine?
2:14pm
Weather mainly and my butt hurts
2:24pm
Usually the more i hurt my butt the bigger and stronger it gets. Pros and cons
do you want to hang out later in the week?
2:36pm
I should tell you, I have a boyfriend. I don't know why I'm really doing this. I get bored easily. Sorry if that's all disturbing to you
2:37pm
I just met you and youre already telling me about your problems
How about tue at 9?
2:47pm
What would we do
3:03pm
Are you working?
3:23pm
I am lifting now.
Let me think of a place. Ill hit u up tues
3:35pm
What do you guys think? I need some player criticism. This is my first time with the boyfriend line, and naturally the Bang line seemed to work. Though I still do not know where she lives, didn't really get confirmation of the day nor time (nor a dismissal), and unfortunately the weather will be shit all week. What is a player to do?