[speakeasy]

Okay, you know the scene, you walk in, hot girls on the dance floor dancing with their little circle of girlfriends. You want to game one. Some guys will just walk up and start dancing with girls. Okay, that's cool, it might get you a dance and some kino, but you might not build enough rapport to get a solid number. And unless the girl thinks you're really hot at first sight, she's probably not going to build attraction just because you're dancing with her.

What's the best way to work the dance floor? Just walk up to them and start dancing, or just talk to girls at the bar, build some attraction first, then bring them out to the dance floor?

[thegmanifesto]

I think the key is get them to the bar.

That is where you can talk and throw down more booze.

Catch them in transition or at the bar.

Easier that way.

Where are you rolling to? "Dance Floors" seem almost obsolete these days.

[speakeasy]

(11-20-2009 02:00 AM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

I think the key is get them to the bar.

That is where you can talk and throw down more booze.

Catch them in transition or at the bar.

Easier that way.

Where are you rolling to? "Dance Floors" seem almost obsolete these days.

Where? Just clubs around town. I think you have to dance at some point in the pickup. Just too many chances for good kino to miss. It just seems like a lot of dudes who just walk right out on the dancefloor and hit a girl up get blown out. Maybe it's because she doesn't want to leave her friends. I don't know. I've seen some dudes pull it off.

[kerouac]

The Approach on the dance floor is the most important thing. You have to set off the right vibe from the very beginning.

What's the right vibe?
Positivity. Big Smile on your face, slight eye contact, controlling the movement, taking her in, and pushing her out, whispering in her ear, getting nice warm breath close to her neck, telling her you guys should go to the bar and get a drink, it's getting hot, she comes to the bar with you, and then the rest of the magic happens

[speakeasy]

(11-20-2009 04:31 PM)kerouac Wrote:  

The Approach on the dance floor is the most important thing. You have to set off the right vibe from the very beginning.

What's the right vibe?
Positivity. Big Smile on your face, slight eye contact, controlling the movement, taking her in, and pushing her out, whispering in her ear, getting nice warm breath close to her neck, telling her you guys should go to the bar and get a drink, it's getting hot, she comes to the bar with you, and then the rest of the magic happens

So do yo say something to her first or just grab her and start dancing? Often the problem is that almost all the girls on the dancefloor that aren't already dancing with guys are dancing in this little circle groups with their friends. I don't know why girls go out to meet guys, yet circle the wagons when they get to the club. If it's a 2 set, you can almost forget as she doesn't want to leave her friend hanging.

[kerouac]

Man, I almost never say anything on the dance floor. I give them the look of supreme lust, and take them in What I think is the most important thing for success in the clubs is maintaining the idea that you're THE SHIT. What I mean by that more specifically is Assuming Success. When you go in confident thinking that you want to dance with her, she is going to dance with you. And from there you just eventually move it to the bar.

I'm going to try to get a more methodical list of things to do later. I'm going to try some stuff out tonight and I'll see if I can make it more describable.

[kerouac]

Most guys' problem on the dance floor is being hesitant, and going for the straight booty grind. What I like to do is take them face to face and take my hand and firmly place it on her hip and have her move with me.

[kerouac]

Also, another thing is, if you learn how to dance, or if you're a good dancer, EVERY GIRL will want to dance with you. My dancing is so-so, but on the sucky side, so i just do a little commanding at first and try to move it elsewhere from there.

[speakeasy]

I want to get good at some of the intricate stuff, like salsa. I like Latinas so that gives you big bonus points with them if you know that shit well.

[kerouac]

(11-20-2009 04:39 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  

I don't know why girls go out to meet guys, yet circle the wagons when they get to the club. If it's a 2 set, you can almost forget as she doesn't want to leave her friend hanging.

Girls do the circle thing because they're shy. If a guy comes in looking good and confident, they will easily move away from their friends and start dancing with the guy.

One thing that works too is to tap a girl on her shoulder if she's in a circle. When she turns around give her a good smile, put your hand out like you're expecting her to join you in a dance, and take her away from her friends.

On the two-set thing, the one time I remember vividly was when I saw a two set in hermosa. One of them was a brazilian and the other i don't know... I pulled the brazilian in and tried to pull her friend in but the friend was being cold, so I just danced with the brazilian. I said something like "damn I wanna grind your booty" and she said "I'm not drunk enough yet!"
hah fuck

But yeah, two sets are doable too, but I guess depending on the girl you're dealing with.

Another time, there were two cute mexican girls and i took both of them in my arms and told them I want a threesome. They both loved it and and started sandwiching me. Their alpha cunt girl friend came in and pulled them away. Damn.