[iknowexactly]

Background Dossier: Got here just a day ago. I'm over 50 and this is a college town, but I have hair, have been working out, rarely drink, and dye hair so I could easily be in my 40's, especially to young people who don't know a lot of 50-year-olds. I've also been using hats and sunscreen since I was 20 because I saw these days coming.

But with me, you're really putting the elderly in elderly chat.
I really need to not scare the cat, and I'm afraid that's just what I've been doing, because when they feel a guy coming on to them who's not YoungTallCool; and the impetus is not coming from them, they really start evaluating what being with you means socially.

I've been trying to dial it down because in Industrial Shithole I've been getting dates even with 20 YO 8+ chicks, but I'm fouling something up somewhere. I think I'm definitely overeager.

Just have been interacting with a girl, maybe 21, -- an 8 for me, probably a 7 for you centerfold freaks-- that works in a Hostel in Wroclaw Poland, I've used two great gimmicks since I got here a day ago-- I hate discussing things I really am not interested in, for example the hypothetical Pet Shop search Roosh uses in the Day Game book, so I picked two discussion subjects that are real for me:

1) I need a card for my cell phone.
2) I'm visiting here because I'm looking for a city to live in. This segues nicely into asking why she isn't married, is it hard to find guys here, and seeing how the social climate is.

I walked around with my cell phone as soon as I got here asking where to buy a SIM so I could use it. I need to use Google Maps to venture away from the hostel I have a terrible sense of direction and am too impatient to use paper maps.

I walked up to about 5 sets, one couple, the rest girls and one guy. I wave the phone around as I asked " I'm a tourist and I need to get a SIM so I can use my phone"

I don't know if waving the phone helps but I find it comical and labeling myself as a tourist lessens the intimidation value.

It screens for English ability without directly asking, shows you have a functioning phone and are therefore not a total derelict.

Everyone tried to answer, some were pretty bad at English and didn't know but most at least tried.

The fifth person I met was a petite brunette 8 , 24?, not only told me about a store but walked me there and waited on line with me a few minutes. Within a few seconds of meeting her I asked if she was an artist because she had smudges of ink on her hands, bullseye, she was some kind of printmaker.

She apologized about her dirty hands and I contradicted her -- taking her hand in mine and stroking her fingers! --very aggressive for me-I spoke softly-- “ They’re beautiful.. long slim fingers.. you can wash off the dirt but the good genetics will stay.”

I was too overeager. I told her “ I love artists, I’m a musician and the mind types are complementary.” I was just swept away with her, because she was really what I truly liked. .very petite, maybe 5'3" 100 pounds, artistic, and smart..I wrote her a day ago and haven't heard back, that puts my odds about at zero....maybe I ruined it or maybe I never had a chance.. we’re .talking 50’s / 24 here...I’ll never really know.

One bad part besides me being an obsequious Beta was she was exhausted because it was the middle of the last week of classes and work.

I DO know that was not elderly chat, hahhhaa, more like “I’m going to fuck you until you have a baby” talk.. scaring the cat probably...But with me the chat is really elderly, even when it's Beta as hell!

[Lumiere]

You seem to have a hang up about your age. I would drop it. They will only care if you do.

I am maybe only 10 years younger than you and I banged a 20 year old college student last time I was in Wroclaw.

[Lothario]

Bravo my friend, your post reeks of pure excitement, Seems like you found the "Possy Paradise".

I think your excitement will keep you going, keep at it and keep us posted....

Happy Hunting.

[iknowexactly]

(05-23-2012 07:43 AM)Lumiere Wrote:  

You seem to have a hang up about your age. I would drop it. They will only care if you do.

I am maybe only 10 years younger than you and I banged a 20 year old college student last time I was in Wroclaw.

You're right to some degree-- i have to fight the negative internal dialog.I also still get a lot of IOI's from 6-7 chicks.

But it's harder to maintain your sexual confidence as you get older-- your body changes in negative ways-- people don't talk about it because they don't want to bum you out and they don't want to look weak-- and best of all your mind starts going!

I've always been bad with names but now it's really bad.

I think I may use the technique someone mentioned of giving them a playful nickname right away, both to charm them and to have something you can remember.

But ultimately, you're right-- even disabled guys in wheelchairs, guys in prison-- all sorts of people overcome really bad disadvantages and get hot girlfriends if they just are willing to go through the fire of taking on so much rejection it just becomes irrelevant.

[deepcov3r]

I'm in wroclaw too.

Just went out for a walk and I have to say this is close to the poosy paradise. There's a small amount of hipster malignancies but there's just a ton of women that are obviously just in depair of getting enough attention.

IKnow just has to develop some more emotional generosity.

American men are the Golden Retrievers of the world.

Have a nasty child, like an American Feminist, who likes to suddenly poke someone in the eye? Well, Golden Retrievers will take it.

I think those of us who aren't battle hardened yet we are looked as docile, lap dogs amenable to domestication.

[rudebwoy]

IKnowexactly- you are hung up on your age and need to let it go. At your age you should have patience in abundance, so slow it down. Otherwise, keep going and I love your writing. Oh, good luck - sounds like you have found a nice spot.

[Deb Auchery]

Yes you are only as old as the girl you feel after all

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