What pick up material (e.g. books, audio, articles, websites) would you guys suggest for someone who has been out of the loop for a little while?
Pickup Material Aside From Roosh's
Michael W. "The dating wizard". Links below.
I highly recommend reading all of Michael's free articles. He breaks down western women psychology very well. I read these back in 05 when I was just starting out.
http://www.alovelinksplus.com/advice/the...thinks.htm
http://www.alovelinksplus.com/advice/the...iously.htm
http://www.alovelinksplus.com/advice/the_dating_wizard/
I highly recommend reading all of Michael's free articles. He breaks down western women psychology very well. I read these back in 05 when I was just starting out.
http://www.alovelinksplus.com/advice/the...thinks.htm
http://www.alovelinksplus.com/advice/the...iously.htm
http://www.alovelinksplus.com/advice/the_dating_wizard/
I just stumbled across this blog a few days ago and have been reading a number of his articles: http://www.girlschase.com
It's pretty solid I think. His advice is very much toward the practical/methodical side sort of like Roosh's style. He has a deep understanding of social psychology.
It's pretty solid I think. His advice is very much toward the practical/methodical side sort of like Roosh's style. He has a deep understanding of social psychology.
Roissy
http://www.heartiste.wordpress.com
Tariq Nasheed - has several books that are phenomenal, the two I've read are:
The Art of Mackin
The Mack Within
The following book started my change from nice guy to asshole.
No More Mr. Nice Guy
I'm listening to Tyler Durden's audiobook "The Blueprint", you'll learn some new game epiphanies when listening to this and it can get me pretty juiced up about going out to game girls.
Check out Sasha PUA's videos on YouTube, yes his style is different than most, but I've learned some valuable techniques from watching his street game videos.
http://www.heartiste.wordpress.com
Tariq Nasheed - has several books that are phenomenal, the two I've read are:
The Art of Mackin
The Mack Within
The following book started my change from nice guy to asshole.
No More Mr. Nice Guy
I'm listening to Tyler Durden's audiobook "The Blueprint", you'll learn some new game epiphanies when listening to this and it can get me pretty juiced up about going out to game girls.
Check out Sasha PUA's videos on YouTube, yes his style is different than most, but I've learned some valuable techniques from watching his street game videos.
I do not like materials talking about Theory. they usually talk about how women are this and that, you should be dominant blah blah without giving an example. Most of stuffs are like that.
Anyways, I went to girlschase.com website and read this. it struck my head so hard.
I think I've been doing everything wrong.
http://www.girlschase.com/content/making...ns-nothing
Anyways, I went to girlschase.com website and read this. it struck my head so hard.
I think I've been doing everything wrong.
http://www.girlschase.com/content/making...ns-nothing
Quote: (05-20-2012 06:46 PM)Sebastian Wrote:
I do not like materials talking about Theory. they usually talk about how women are this and that, you should be dominant blah blah without giving an example. Most of stuffs are like that.
Anyways, I went to girlschase.com website and read this. it struck my head so hard.
I think I've been doing everything wrong.
http://www.girlschase.com/content/making...ns-nothing
Everything in that girl chase article is covered in articles I posted(if you actually take time to read them). It's not just theory.
Quote: (05-20-2012 06:46 PM)Sebastian Wrote:
Anyways, I went to girlschase.com website and read this. it struck my head so hard.
I think I've been doing everything wrong.
http://www.girlschase.com/content/making...ns-nothing
Funny you should post this link (pun not intended). I have fallen into that trap myself, where I feel like I turn into comedian mode. I can even place the time when this started happening (I was in the beginning stages of an improv group). Good to catch it and work on it now.
Cesar Milan's guides on dog training.
If you google "Ricky Raw" or "The Rawness", that's some really excellent inner game shit.
Quote: (05-20-2012 06:46 PM)Sebastian Wrote:
I do not like materials talking about Theory. they usually talk about how women are this and that, you should be dominant blah blah without giving an example. Most of stuffs are like that.
Anyways, I went to girlschase.com website and read this. it struck my head so hard.
I think I've been doing everything wrong.
http://www.girlschase.com/content/making...ns-nothing
Thanks for the girls chase link. There is so much awesome in his articles.
This is pretty good stuff. Thanks for the link speakeasy.
Thanks Speakeasy, that site is $$$
Roissy for inner-game and mentality.
For everything else, it depends on where you're at with your own game.
I personally really like Gunwitch's 'Way of Gun' audiobook. Sure, the guy is a now complete nutcase and I think he was sent down like a year ago for shooting someone (lol) but his thinking and methodology is rock solid. He knows what is successful and, unlike a lot of other gurus, he hasn't started down the path of 'enlightenment' with all that self-help bullshit. The audiobook itself can sound a little unprofessional at times, but he sounds genuine and I actually think it's easier to listen to than most other audiobooks around this subject.
For everything else, it depends on where you're at with your own game.
I personally really like Gunwitch's 'Way of Gun' audiobook. Sure, the guy is a now complete nutcase and I think he was sent down like a year ago for shooting someone (lol) but his thinking and methodology is rock solid. He knows what is successful and, unlike a lot of other gurus, he hasn't started down the path of 'enlightenment' with all that self-help bullshit. The audiobook itself can sound a little unprofessional at times, but he sounds genuine and I actually think it's easier to listen to than most other audiobooks around this subject.
60 Years of Challenge. His ebook is very legit. It's normal, sensible stuff
I think I want to try his ebook. but it's 40 bucks.
Is it ok if I ask people here to share the cost with me? I think I need 3 more people so we can pay $10 each.
Is it ok if I ask people here to share the cost with me? I think I need 3 more people so we can pay $10 each.
Quote: (05-21-2012 06:40 AM)P Dog Wrote:
Quote: (05-20-2012 06:46 PM)Sebastian Wrote:
I do not like materials talking about Theory. they usually talk about how women are this and that, you should be dominant blah blah without giving an example. Most of stuffs are like that.
Anyways, I went to girlschase.com website and read this. it struck my head so hard.
I think I've been doing everything wrong.
http://www.girlschase.com/content/making...ns-nothing
Thanks for the girls chase link. There is so much awesome in his articles.
http://dsc.discovery.com/videos/science-...-walk.html
The "science" of the sexy walk
What I'm getting from reading this girlschase stuff is that basically the man to mimic is Daniel Craig. He's got the voice down, the swagger down, so are chicks throwing themselves at him?
The "science" of the sexy walk
What I'm getting from reading this girlschase stuff is that basically the man to mimic is Daniel Craig. He's got the voice down, the swagger down, so are chicks throwing themselves at him?
Quote: (05-20-2012 06:46 PM)Sebastian Wrote:
I do not like materials talking about Theory. they usually talk about how women are this and that, you should be dominant blah blah without giving an example. Most of stuffs are like that.
Anyways, I went to girlschase.com website and read this. it struck my head so hard.
I think I've been doing everything wrong.
http://www.girlschase.com/content/making...ns-nothing
Exactly, that's one of the first articles I saw on his site. That's a deep insight that never occurred to me. I think a lot of us get wrapped up in thinking we have to be entertaining and funny to girls. But being an entertainer is not going to get you laid in and of itself.
This one really got me thinking: http://www.girlschase.com/content/how-pi...tor-part-i
Read the part about the "x-factor" at the end. After reading this, it occurred to me that that is why some guys swear by game and some deny game. If you don't have that x-factor to any degree, no amount of game is going to work. So to such a guy, they see game as a sham. It may not be a sham, but this mysterious factor cannot really be taught and if you don't have it, you probably won't fine much success even if you do learn game inside and out. A guy with the x-factor plus game will kill. If he has looks on top of that, he will be a beast.
Mode one by Alan Roger Currie
In my opinion the X-factor is a "sexual state". This why it's hard for some guys to get laid without alcohol. Without liquor they are too inhibited and repress their sexuality.
http://www.becomeaplayer.com/articles/wh...really.htm
"The more sexual and dominant a man is, the more he naturally projects the essence of man that ALL feminine women cannot help but be drawn to, regardless of the guy's character or personality. It's not a personality type like "submissive or dominant". This is core essence of Man and Woman."
Side note: Women are not mysterious.
Quote: (05-21-2012 11:17 PM)speakeasy Wrote:
Read the part about the "x-factor" at the end. After reading this, it occurred to me that that is why some guys swear by game and some deny game. If you don't have that x-factor to any degree, no amount of game is going to work. So to such a guy, they see game as a sham. It may not be a sham, but this mysterious factor cannot really be taught and if you don't have it, you probably won't fine much success even if you do learn game inside and out. A guy with the x-factor plus game will kill. If he has looks on top of that, he will be a beast.
In my opinion the X-factor is a "sexual state". This why it's hard for some guys to get laid without alcohol. Without liquor they are too inhibited and repress their sexuality.
http://www.becomeaplayer.com/articles/wh...really.htm
"The more sexual and dominant a man is, the more he naturally projects the essence of man that ALL feminine women cannot help but be drawn to, regardless of the guy's character or personality. It's not a personality type like "submissive or dominant". This is core essence of Man and Woman."
Side note: Women are not mysterious.
LOL at the girlschase site. it's just a big sales pitch for his shit. Nothing new there.
About the only blog other than heartiste i read is Sinn's which is pretty good: http://sinnsofattraction.blogspot.com/
About the only blog other than heartiste i read is Sinn's which is pretty good: http://sinnsofattraction.blogspot.com/
Quote: (05-21-2012 03:02 PM)kerouac Wrote:
http://dsc.discovery.com/videos/science-...-walk.html
The "science" of the sexy walk
What I'm getting from reading this girlschase stuff is that basically the man to mimic is Daniel Craig. He's got the voice down, the swagger down, so are chicks throwing themselves at him?
I like that article. One reason why I like foreign women so much is that they have the sexy walk mastered. Americans across the board (particularly women) are so stiff in the hips.
I am sure that almost all guys know they shouldn't be an entertainer aka clown. I never thought of myself as that either. I don't use funny voice, body language and facial expression. I thought I was 'witty guy'
I am not sure about his claim on laughter can kill the tension thus lower the attraction.
It struck my head because he described what I was doing exactly.
I go to the bar by myself. Obviously, I can't stand there by myself. So I find a target asap. Usually 2~3 girls. I approach them and try to put smile on their face since it's awkward if she is talking with poker face.
If I see a smile on her face, that was a green light (possible attraction too)
The thing is that,
I was approaching them to VALIDATE myself.
'I think I am a decent guy. But I need to put it to the test. If I can interact with those girls, I am good enough. If not, I have to work on it'
It's addictive because....
Who doesn't like to see solid 8.5 girl giggling in front of you? who doesn't want to tease them like a little sister and squeeze their chicks?
I also loved the attention from other people. 'wow this guy approached 3 hot blondes by himself, he is flirting with them and making them laugh' this is also part of Validation
I think there is nothing wrong if you make other people laugh.
But if your motive comes from impressing others to make yourself feel better, then you have to change it.
I am not sure about his claim on laughter can kill the tension thus lower the attraction.
It struck my head because he described what I was doing exactly.
I go to the bar by myself. Obviously, I can't stand there by myself. So I find a target asap. Usually 2~3 girls. I approach them and try to put smile on their face since it's awkward if she is talking with poker face.
If I see a smile on her face, that was a green light (possible attraction too)
The thing is that,
I was approaching them to VALIDATE myself.
'I think I am a decent guy. But I need to put it to the test. If I can interact with those girls, I am good enough. If not, I have to work on it'
It's addictive because....
Who doesn't like to see solid 8.5 girl giggling in front of you? who doesn't want to tease them like a little sister and squeeze their chicks?
I also loved the attention from other people. 'wow this guy approached 3 hot blondes by himself, he is flirting with them and making them laugh' this is also part of Validation
I think there is nothing wrong if you make other people laugh.
But if your motive comes from impressing others to make yourself feel better, then you have to change it.
Quote: (05-20-2012 08:05 PM)kerouac Wrote:
Quote: (05-20-2012 06:46 PM)Sebastian Wrote:
Anyways, I went to girlschase.com website and read this. it struck my head so hard.
I think I've been doing everything wrong.
http://www.girlschase.com/content/making...ns-nothing
Funny you should post this link (pun not intended). I have fallen into that trap myself, where I feel like I turn into comedian mode. I can even place the time when this started happening (I was in the beginning stages of an improv group). Good to catch it and work on it now.
for the general model: Lovesystems - Magic Bullets & Routines Manuals Vols. I & II
for newbs and ugly guys looking to build up their open & attract skillset: Brad P. - Instant Attraction, Underground Dating Seminar
for advanced tactics and elaborate breakdowns of the basics: Sinn - The Seduction Roadmap, Breakthrough Comfort, Sinn's Inner Circle
for newbs and ugly guys looking to build up their open & attract skillset: Brad P. - Instant Attraction, Underground Dating Seminar
for advanced tactics and elaborate breakdowns of the basics: Sinn - The Seduction Roadmap, Breakthrough Comfort, Sinn's Inner Circle
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