[Riker]

This is a strange situation. This takes place in BA.

I was having dinner with some friends in a trendy neighborhood when 3 classy hot Argy girls post up near by to smoke some cigs. I tell my friends I'm going to open them and to not come wing me (I don't trust their game).

I go up ask for a cig, and then just admit that I wanted to talk/meet them. They all laugh and one of them says "this guy is awesome." I was in a super chill mood so I just chit chat for a while with them and end up getting the number of the one that was most engaging and asking questions or whatever.

I text her a couple days later and get ignored, I try again a few days later and this time we exchange a few words about what we did over the weekend or whatever. I ask her out a few days later and ignored. I ask her out again a few days later and she says "Sorry I havn't been responding to your texts. I wanted to tell you that when I gave you my number I thought it was so you could organize to go out with one of my girl friends, I have a boyfriend and I don't want problems. Thanks though for a the invites!"

I respond "Oh haha, I didnt know. Well I think it would be weird if you passed me Agustina and Micaela (her friends) numbers, how about you give me their facebook?" (Facebook has become standard now a days for pickup here. its like adding them on msn so you can chat.)

She sends me one of her friends facebook. She's pretty hot. One of her profile pics is a twilight pic so I think she my be into the whole Robert Pattinson look which I resemble.

Anyways I think I played it okay. I insisted several times cause the 3 girls were really hot.

So should I add her and send her a message? Just add her? Should I have told this girl to let her friend know I was adding her? I think this whole post is like one big catharsis to the strange situation.

[FretDancer]

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I go up ask for a cig, and then just admit that I wanted to talk/meet them.

There's really no need for this, I don't know how you did it, but if done wrong it's gonna backfire, play safe.

It seems all your moves you got left only lead to her friend(s), so play that move. If it doesn't work, move on.

Also, don't use too long subjects on your posts.

[Riker]

Yea my bad about the subject being long, I was going to put "Unique situation" and then just put that whole thing. lol you actually have to manually shorten it to make a reply. Yea there's not really much to say about this, maybe I should have posted it in the Forum lounge thread.

I went over to them and asked for a cig and after lighting it and taking a drag from it I stood there and they got quiet for a second and thats when i said I actually wanted to chat with them for a bit. Something like that.

[FretDancer]

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I stood there and they got quiet for a second and thats when i said I actually wanted to chat with them for a bit

That explains it better. Shouldn't have explained yourself, just strike up conversation as norma, thats the beauty of the lighter/cig opener.