[-g-]

I love sext messages, very effective for second bangs. I never really sent them out until I banged a woman 12 years older than me, this is how the first one went the night we met. Basically I was at a bar and gave her my number so she texted me moments later when I left:

Her: I'm about to take a sleeping pill aka orgasm.
Me: Oh yeah, let me come help you out with that.
Her: OK, my kids have to be up for school so we gotta wake up early, address etc,.

Basically that was a lame example but this is how I was introduced to it. Before I was shy but now I think its fun, funny, whatever just to tell a girl I want to cum on their face etc,. I only use them for women I have banged but am thinking about trying them on new women I haven't banged. Have you used them on women U haven't banged???

I don't think corny ones like "I want to beat your pussy like cake mix" or anything that sounds preplanned/rhyming works. I like to keep it real and just talk like I'm banging.

Some good starters are:
1) I want your lips on my cock right now
2) Thinking of how its gonna feel when I that hit pussy
3) You don't wanna know the dirty thoughts I'm thinking right now (best one IMHO and has always gotten an immediate response, even for girls you haven't talked to in months)

[alphaspiraton]

I thought sexting was sending nude pictures.

Was this beta?

I do send out dirty messages to girls who I have banged or am close to banging, ONLY if she's putting out a good enough vibe for the latter. Sometimes bringing up sex before enough escalation - in my opinion - shows her too much neediness. From my experience the more vague I kept my initial communication (pre-bang) the better.

[HiFlo]

(05-10-2012 08:40 PM)-g- Wrote:  

Her: I'm about to take a sleeping pill aka orgasm.

What the hell does this mean?

[WesternCancer]

HiFlo you don't get sleepy after busting a nut?

I definitely wouldn't sext a girl until you've banged her and only then I would use it if I know she is 100% DTF ie. a regular. for example one girl who was a fuck buddy once texted me saying she got a new dress. I promptly replied "I want to see it, wear it without panties so I can fuck you in the stairwell ill be there in 10"

If you said that to some girl you haven't banged she would think you're 'creepy' or socially retarded. It will give her hamster more pellets to rationalize NOT sleeping with you.

With that said I agree with the gmanifesto on the subject (he has some posts on his blog). Don't even reply to her, or if you do make it seem like you know what shes getting at, but aren't playing along. Example #2 another regular (whom wasn't a good candidate for sexting) sent me a picture of her legs down in the bath and said something hinting that she wanted me in there with her. I think I told her to not drop her phone because she wouldn't be able to cope without it, or I asked if she beat the highscore on some dumb game she played I cant remember it was a while ago. Anyways she replied "I was trying to talk sexy to you, you totally ruined it" I didn't reply for a while and then just told her to come over to my place to 'watch a movie'

[HiFlo]

oh, hahaha, i get it now.

no man i dont get sleepy at all after busting. it's just like, "ok what do I gotta do now?..." or "should I drive her home or call a taxi?" hahahaha

[Shrodax]

I don't think there's anything wrong with sexting, as long as you maintain a playful vibe with it. Plus when done right, it's a great way to get the girl warmed up for meeting later.

I've found the trick to pre-bang sexting is to escalate in a similar fashion to real life. Don't start out being sexually explicit, or you'll just come across creepy or needy. Start by insinuating just simply kissing her or having a light makeout session, so you can feel out her reaction to sexting and calibrate accordingly. Later you can escalate to cock-in-pussy messages if she's up for it or pull back if she's not responsive before trying again later.

[Caligula]

I like Emech's approach of texting "bring that dirty pussy over" or something to that effect.

I thought this thread was going to be about getting girls to send you nudes. Any tips for that?

[Timoteo]

(05-10-2012 10:17 PM)HiFlo Wrote:  

oh, hahaha, i get it now.

no man i dont get sleepy at all after busting. it's just like, "ok what do I gotta do now?..." or "should I drive her home or call a taxi?" hahahaha

The orgasm is referred to as the "little death" because after the build-up and subsequent release, some women actually feel a sadness. With other chicks, they are completely chilled out and relaxed after the release. My guess is this chick is completely relaxed and ready to sleep after rubbing one out.

[PDX]

Maybe she just really loves her Ambien.

[Hotwheels]

I sext with broads all the time before meeting them. It's hard to explain how to do this as it all comes down to calibration and reading what she is saying/insinuating.

What I often do is use some double entendres to gauge her receptiveness, which often gets her started with subtle hints that she's receptive. Sometimes the hints are not terribly subtle....

From there it's just escalation, while watching her responses to avoid going too far. Some broads will go a lot farther than others, but just getting them going with it at least a bit will clue you in on her sexual readiness. I've actually flaked on broads for a week or two until I felt they were sufficiently ready to fuck on the first date, as I hate meeting chicks for a "How are you? Nice to meet you?" date with little chance of getting some ass.

Like I say, I can't really explain exactly how to do it as every broad is different and my style may not fit yours. (I'm not usually what one would consider "over the top", very rarely sending pics, although I have sent pics of a slut sucking me off before. After acting all indignant she came over a few days laterand was fucking within 10 minutes) One develops a feel for it over time, much like any other part of game.

I should note I send a lot more texts than a lot of guys will advocate. This isn't something you can do in 4 or 5 messages. It may take a day or three. Don't just jump right on it unless she is giving you plenty of signs she may be DTF. If that is the case the sexting just confirms it for you and gets her even hornier.

[HiFlo]

(05-11-2012 01:15 PM)Hotwheels Wrote:  

I sext with broads all the time before meeting them. It's hard to explain how to do this as it all comes down to calibration and reading what she is saying/insinuating.

What I often do is use some double entendres to gauge her receptiveness, which often gets her started with subtle hints that she's receptive. Sometimes the hints are not terribly subtle....

From there it's just escalation, while watching her responses to avoid going too far. Some broads will go a lot farther than others, but just getting them going with it at least a bit will clue you in on her sexual readiness. I've actually flaked on broads for a week or two until I felt they were sufficiently ready to fuck on the first date, as I hate meeting chicks for a "How are you? Nice to meet you?" date with little chance of getting some ass.

Like I say, I can't really explain exactly how to do it as every broad is different and my style may not fit yours. (I'm not usually what one would consider "over the top", very rarely sending pics, although I have sent pics of a slut sucking me off before. After acting all indignant she came over a few days laterand was fucking within 10 minutes) One develops a feel for it over time, much like any other part of game.

I should note I send a lot more texts than a lot of guys will advocate. This isn't something you can do in 4 or 5 messages. It may take a day or three. Don't just jump right on it unless she is giving you plenty of signs she may be DTF. If that is the case the sexting just confirms it for you and gets her even hornier.

I hear what you're saying, but for me - although sexting is fun to an extent - before a bang texting seems like a waste of time. I know there have been quite a few times in the past where texting went great, but when we met up, either I wasn't feelin it or the girl wasn't feelin it. And it was like 4-5 hrs of texting down the drain. I like using texting for logistics primarily.

What are some of the double entendres u have used?

[Hotwheels]

As I've mentioned in earlier posts, I'm used to a bit of distance being involved so not wasting the time of a failed "date" is a big deal to me. Thing is, while I am currently in Chicago, I'm still doing it and it's working fine. I just pass myself off as very busy. I'd rather waste some time texting than take the time out of my day/night for a date. Just works best for me, although I definitely understand where you are coming from.

As my memory is shit and I just spout this stuff on the fly to fit the convo examples are difficult. Basically all I do is use a lot of words with both normal and sexual meanings in a way that might seem odd at times, but not really. One that comes to mind is; "Did you blow your target today?" to a girl that works in banking. (She has a daily new business intake target or something) Basically I use words like coming, blow, hard etc a lot in "normal" conversation so it's not obvious I'm being sexual, but if she is horny in any way it will spike her into DTF mode. Obviously, I do this in first person convos too.

It works pretty well but I don't have any idea how to teach it to someone other than telling them to try it and gain some experience. It's easy to go to far, so one wants to be subtle if the situation requires it.

[Hotwheels]

I ask when she gets off.

Never "When she's done".

Just another example.