Roissy wrote about this: http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2012/04/2...nine-game/
And I think it also plays into our debate here about what is alpha.
In this vid,
He talks about getting into a mindset where you are not thinking about direct causation, and are present to the moment.
In essence, you let more of your animal side takeover. Like a woman, you are living for the now, and not in your head. I think girls can sense that you are an animal like them, and the result is that it builds comfort.
But, I don't think it is a gender thing. This is the real "natural" or animal game, not a"feminine" game, it is part of building comfort (pull). It's creating the possibility that you'd push her away at any moment, that you are solidly committed to what you want, and only what you want. There's a sense of excitement and danger here- you're aren't bound by the beta norms of society. You're are like a tiger.
When we talk about being a "natural," or going "caveman," this is all about accessing the pre-rational parts of ourselves. It is like Rousseau's return to a state of nature
This state is where all the natural body language comes from etc.
I think that this is kind of the base line, most fundamental stage in game. And it doesn't matter if you are a newbie or you've been at it for a while, it needs to be going at all levels. When you aren't in it, you are a slave, when it's on, the world is yours.
This is what all the game techniques try to get us back to. This is the "best" self that we always talk about, and the self that girls mean when they "just be yourself."
And I think it also plays into our debate here about what is alpha.
In this vid,
He talks about getting into a mindset where you are not thinking about direct causation, and are present to the moment.
In essence, you let more of your animal side takeover. Like a woman, you are living for the now, and not in your head. I think girls can sense that you are an animal like them, and the result is that it builds comfort.
But, I don't think it is a gender thing. This is the real "natural" or animal game, not a"feminine" game, it is part of building comfort (pull). It's creating the possibility that you'd push her away at any moment, that you are solidly committed to what you want, and only what you want. There's a sense of excitement and danger here- you're aren't bound by the beta norms of society. You're are like a tiger.
When we talk about being a "natural," or going "caveman," this is all about accessing the pre-rational parts of ourselves. It is like Rousseau's return to a state of nature
This state is where all the natural body language comes from etc.
I think that this is kind of the base line, most fundamental stage in game. And it doesn't matter if you are a newbie or you've been at it for a while, it needs to be going at all levels. When you aren't in it, you are a slave, when it's on, the world is yours.
This is what all the game techniques try to get us back to. This is the "best" self that we always talk about, and the self that girls mean when they "just be yourself."