The biggest joke in the PUA community seems to be the belief that by attaining certain attributes you can get ANY woman you want.
The problem with this belief is that it's simply not true.
To understand, you have to look at your own wants. Unfortunately, when you're super-horny, you might go for anything, yet for most guys, when their thinking stick is not the one doing the commanding, the general attributes they look for are generally the same.
You want somebody that is similar to you. Someone you can relate to. Someone you can say something to.
A girl thinks the same way. The Disney fairy tale is simply not true.
You won't find too many Cinderellas in the world, and the same goes for guys. We gravitate towards what we understand.
Bring in horniness, and things change a bit, but that is only temporary.
In the end we're going to go with what we understand a lot more than what is foreign to us.
I think of it as a socio-economic qualifier. There are certain degrees of variance we will accept, but for the most part, we will try to keep it pretty close to where we are.
The problem with this belief is that it's simply not true.
To understand, you have to look at your own wants. Unfortunately, when you're super-horny, you might go for anything, yet for most guys, when their thinking stick is not the one doing the commanding, the general attributes they look for are generally the same.
You want somebody that is similar to you. Someone you can relate to. Someone you can say something to.
A girl thinks the same way. The Disney fairy tale is simply not true.
You won't find too many Cinderellas in the world, and the same goes for guys. We gravitate towards what we understand.
Bring in horniness, and things change a bit, but that is only temporary.
In the end we're going to go with what we understand a lot more than what is foreign to us.
I think of it as a socio-economic qualifier. There are certain degrees of variance we will accept, but for the most part, we will try to keep it pretty close to where we are.