[Spike]

Dude has a serious case of one-itus. My advice : make sure what the girl wants with you beforehand because you're setting yourself up for a self imposed heartbreak. Date other girls before she arrives.

[buenosaires]

(05-10-2012 12:15 PM)Neil Skywalker Wrote:  

Dude has a serious case of one-itus. My advice : make sure what the girl wants with you beforehand because you're setting yourself up for a self imposed heartbreak. Date other girls before she arrives.

How do you suggest I find out "what she wants"?

Thank you for your concern, I will try not to get heart-broken. I do not think to have one-itis, I am actively generating dates, with newly found tool of "beach game".

Seems I have to defend myself for having a great girl coming over to visit me after 10 minutes talk in the train 2000 km away.... which I think its pretty awesome.

I would much more apprecciate some insight from you NeilSkywalker, since you did a whole tour of Russia.

[buenosaires]

(05-09-2012 12:38 PM)buenosaires Wrote:  

Quote:

We have not mentioned the airport yet. Why you ask that?

[quote]
Then you should not offer picking her up at the airport. I'd let her bring it up first. Maybe a hint like "do you know how to get to my place from the airport?" and let her persuade you to pick her up

Great idea. Thanks 1

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I think I should go pick her up. Mainly because she is a girl, doesnt know the language or the place.

[quote]
Yep, you should. But the question here is not whether you should, the question is whether you should mention it first.

Very right.

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I am thinking of asking her to bring some fancy clothes so we will go to the casino. I want her to bring the high heels to tell you the truth....

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"Make sure you have a set of acceptable clothes for that cool club we're going to visit". Feel free to follow up which clothes are acceptable

Excellent stuff. Thanks #2

I asked her to bring appropiate clothes for a "cool club/casino" and she replied right away:

Ok I do swear - You will be accompanied by little princess, el principito) so don't worry - be happy

I dont want to sexualize much further, but princess leia comes to mind...she would fit right in

[Spike]

(05-10-2012 02:47 PM)buenosaires Wrote:  

(05-10-2012 12:15 PM)Neil Skywalker Wrote:  

Dude has a serious case of one-itus. My advice : make sure what the girl wants with you beforehand because you're setting yourself up for a self imposed heartbreak. Date other girls before she arrives.

How do you suggest I find out "what she wants"?

Thank you for your concern, I will try not to get heart-broken. I do not think to have one-itis, I am actively generating dates, with newly found tool of "beach game".

Seems I have to defend myself for having a great girl coming over to visit me after 10 minutes talk in the train 2000 km away.... which I think its pretty awesome.

I would much more apprecciate some insight from you NeilSkywalker, since you did a whole tour of Russia.

Well, i actually also met a Russian girl on the train for about 10 minutes and got her phone number. She visited me in China,Thailand and the Philippines totally on her own costs.
The only difference with your case is that i banged her in her hometown a day after i met her on the train and slept over at her place for two nights. So i already had sex with before she visited me in China and we kept in touch through email alot. It was still in my beta days.

http://www.aroundtheworldin80girls.com/2...ok-part-1/

A couple of questions:
- where is she staying when she visits you? At your place ?
- Did you already had some flirty or sexual talk with her ?
- Did she send you pictures of herself ?
- Did you see the tickets by email ?

short answers please.

[buenosaires]

(05-10-2012 03:16 PM)Neil Skywalker Wrote:  

(05-10-2012 02:47 PM)buenosaires Wrote:  

(05-10-2012 12:15 PM)Neil Skywalker Wrote:  

Dude has a serious case of one-itus. My advice : make sure what the girl wants with you beforehand because you're setting yourself up for a self imposed heartbreak. Date other girls before she arrives.

How do you suggest I find out "what she wants"?

Thank you for your concern, I will try not to get heart-broken. I do not think to have one-itis, I am actively generating dates, with newly found tool of "beach game".

Seems I have to defend myself for having a great girl coming over to visit me after 10 minutes talk in the train 2000 km away.... which I think its pretty awesome.

I would much more apprecciate some insight from you NeilSkywalker, since you did a whole tour of Russia.

Well, i actually also met a Russian girl on the train for about 10 minutes and got her phone number. She visited me in China,Thailand and the Philippines totally on her own costs.
The only difference with your case is that i banged her in her hometown a day after i met her on the train and slept over at her place for two nights. So i already had sex with before she visited me in China and we kept in touch through email alot. It was still in my beta days.

http://www.aroundtheworldin80girls.com/2...ok-part-1/

A couple of questions:
- where is she staying when she visits you? At your place ?
- Did you already had some flirty or sexual talk with her ?
- Did she send you pictures of herself ?
- Did you see the tickets by email ?

short answers please.

I can tell you are an ALPHA now.

[oldnemesis]

(05-10-2012 08:25 AM)buenosaires Wrote:  

What do reccomend for improving in this regard? Any book or reference?

One of two things:
- You can change your presentation (read Gmac's post about it)
- You can choose the women you hang out with, so you don't have to present yourself as someone you are not.

I'm lazy so I prefer the second solution.

[Handsome Creepy Eel]

You seem to be doing well, just don't fuck up things. Continue what you're doing, you can be kind about picking her up and some activities (she is the one coming to visit you and is paying for herself, after all!), just no Beta shit or how much you like her.

[buenosaires]

(05-10-2012 05:20 PM)oldnemesis Wrote:  

(05-10-2012 08:25 AM)buenosaires Wrote:  

What do reccomend for improving in this regard? Any book or reference?

One of two things:
- You can change your presentation (read Gmac's post about it)
- You can choose the women you hang out with, so you don't have to present yourself as someone you are not.

I'm lazy so I prefer the second solution.

I subscribe to the second option too.
I tend to do better the smarter/refined the girl, since I do not respect/tolerate stupidity.

[buenosaires]

(05-11-2012 03:28 AM)Handsome Creepy Eel Wrote:  

You seem to be doing well, just don't fuck up things. Continue what you're doing, you can be kind about picking her up and some activities (she is the one coming to visit you and is paying for herself, after all!), just no Beta shit or how much you like her.

Ok

[oldnemesis]

(05-11-2012 03:32 AM)buenosaires Wrote:  

I tend to do better the smarter/refined the girl, since I do not respect/tolerate stupidity.

Don't go to America then.

[buenosaires]

So she came.
It was the most feminine woman I ever had.

Fucking shit, this Russian thing could be addictive!

She had (or pretended very well to have) the right frames for a feminine woman and
-she made the bed
-she made the dishes
-She said thank you
-very submissive and compliant
-dolled up all the time
-more

I am feeling East is the way to go for me!