I got invited to a high end wine tasting yesterday. All 1st growth Bordeaux (some $1000 bottles in there)
I'm wearing a dress shirt, Hugo Boss blazer (on sale), thrift store bought designer jeans, and Italian boots.
I get in there, and after 10-15 minutes, notice The Girl. We're talking one of those girls that stands out so bad it's fucking ridiculous. This entire tasting is populated by rich old fuckers, mostly wine buyers and industry people. This chick looked Thai, big fake tits, model looks, these weird sparkly jewels in her hair, exotic turquoise dress. She's a solid 9. She's there with some old guy, but after watching her body language I decide they're not together so I go over and start talking. Couple minutes in, I say,
"At a tasting like this, I have a strict no-spitting policy"
"Oh yeah, so the only thing I can do is swallow?"
"Get your mind out of the gutter, we're in 'distinguished' company..."
huge bullshitting grin etc etc strong eye contact, I'm in business.
Every few minutes I ditch her, talk to some wine geeks, come back 10 minutes later and escalate to the point where I've got my hand around her lower back and all these old guys are looking at me quizzically. When I step away from her guys are coming up to her, looking her up and down, and just standing there like idiots in front of her, not saying a damn thing. She's happy when I return every time. The guy she's with comes up to me and starts talking to me and asking me what the hell I'm doing there. I'm warm and polite to him, give him a firm handshake, I bullshit my way through some wine topics and he backs off.
I meet a Persian girl, a 7. She's immediately interested in me. I barely have to say 2 words and she's hanging on my every word.
I meet a Korean girl, a 7, the momentum is really going now and I'm positive I could have gotten a SNL here, but my logistics were shit. I was far from my place and got a ride from someone else.
Outside the convention room a decent looking blonde approaches ME and starts asking me personal questions immediately. Pretty sure I was glowing at this point.
Got numbers from the above 4 girls, some of them well within view of other girls I'd gotten numbers from. NOT that this means anything, but I couldn't see how to escalate to a SNL given my logistics. I'll followup this report with future bangs from any of these girls.
On my way out there was another decent blonde that I chatted up, who immediately started negging me and laying on the sarcasm super thick. It was such a conversation and boner killer I walked away from her mid sentence.
Observations:
1) Being at an event like a wine tasting...what's the best metaphor...Let's say approaching girls in clubs and bars is like going to the gym. There's some level of "training" involved. Being at that wine tasting yesterday felt like I was in great fucking shape and I got into the ring with a 5 year old. Like stealing candy from a baby.
2) I approached the hottest girl first. Didn't warm up to it, didn't plan. I saw her, I reacted. Every approach after that was like a fucking joke, it became successively easier and easier, I said less and less, and the girls were more and more interested.
3) The Thai, Korean, and Persian were significantly warmer and easier to talk to. The only negging or heavy sarcasm I encountered were from the white girls.
4) Roosh mentioned this recently, but I no longer have any trepidations about a good ratio in a venue. This place was PACKED with rich old guys, and NONE of them had game, not one other guy approached the Thai girl, and by the time I had my arm around her lower back they probably thought we were a couple or something.
5) momentum is an amazing thing. Anytime I read about "vibe" I thought it was bullshit. But when you get to a point where girls are approaching you there's no other way to describe it.
6) Framing. At one point I was moving from girl to girl with the utmost ease. I was calm and confident about it, not fast or hyper or nervous. I felt like I was in control of something. I don't know what, just in control of the social situation and controlled how much attention each girl got.
That's about it, I'd be curious to hear how any veteran cats in here would have gone for a SNL. You can probably tell by the tone of my post that I'm not used to these scenarios, but goddamn it felt good. I still consider myself intermediate at this whole thing, the fact that I even got the number from that Thai girl is such a huge fucking jump forward for my game.
I'm wearing a dress shirt, Hugo Boss blazer (on sale), thrift store bought designer jeans, and Italian boots.
I get in there, and after 10-15 minutes, notice The Girl. We're talking one of those girls that stands out so bad it's fucking ridiculous. This entire tasting is populated by rich old fuckers, mostly wine buyers and industry people. This chick looked Thai, big fake tits, model looks, these weird sparkly jewels in her hair, exotic turquoise dress. She's a solid 9. She's there with some old guy, but after watching her body language I decide they're not together so I go over and start talking. Couple minutes in, I say,
"At a tasting like this, I have a strict no-spitting policy"
"Oh yeah, so the only thing I can do is swallow?"
"Get your mind out of the gutter, we're in 'distinguished' company..."
huge bullshitting grin etc etc strong eye contact, I'm in business.
Every few minutes I ditch her, talk to some wine geeks, come back 10 minutes later and escalate to the point where I've got my hand around her lower back and all these old guys are looking at me quizzically. When I step away from her guys are coming up to her, looking her up and down, and just standing there like idiots in front of her, not saying a damn thing. She's happy when I return every time. The guy she's with comes up to me and starts talking to me and asking me what the hell I'm doing there. I'm warm and polite to him, give him a firm handshake, I bullshit my way through some wine topics and he backs off.
I meet a Persian girl, a 7. She's immediately interested in me. I barely have to say 2 words and she's hanging on my every word.
I meet a Korean girl, a 7, the momentum is really going now and I'm positive I could have gotten a SNL here, but my logistics were shit. I was far from my place and got a ride from someone else.
Outside the convention room a decent looking blonde approaches ME and starts asking me personal questions immediately. Pretty sure I was glowing at this point.
Got numbers from the above 4 girls, some of them well within view of other girls I'd gotten numbers from. NOT that this means anything, but I couldn't see how to escalate to a SNL given my logistics. I'll followup this report with future bangs from any of these girls.
On my way out there was another decent blonde that I chatted up, who immediately started negging me and laying on the sarcasm super thick. It was such a conversation and boner killer I walked away from her mid sentence.
Observations:
1) Being at an event like a wine tasting...what's the best metaphor...Let's say approaching girls in clubs and bars is like going to the gym. There's some level of "training" involved. Being at that wine tasting yesterday felt like I was in great fucking shape and I got into the ring with a 5 year old. Like stealing candy from a baby.
2) I approached the hottest girl first. Didn't warm up to it, didn't plan. I saw her, I reacted. Every approach after that was like a fucking joke, it became successively easier and easier, I said less and less, and the girls were more and more interested.
3) The Thai, Korean, and Persian were significantly warmer and easier to talk to. The only negging or heavy sarcasm I encountered were from the white girls.
4) Roosh mentioned this recently, but I no longer have any trepidations about a good ratio in a venue. This place was PACKED with rich old guys, and NONE of them had game, not one other guy approached the Thai girl, and by the time I had my arm around her lower back they probably thought we were a couple or something.
5) momentum is an amazing thing. Anytime I read about "vibe" I thought it was bullshit. But when you get to a point where girls are approaching you there's no other way to describe it.
6) Framing. At one point I was moving from girl to girl with the utmost ease. I was calm and confident about it, not fast or hyper or nervous. I felt like I was in control of something. I don't know what, just in control of the social situation and controlled how much attention each girl got.
That's about it, I'd be curious to hear how any veteran cats in here would have gone for a SNL. You can probably tell by the tone of my post that I'm not used to these scenarios, but goddamn it felt good. I still consider myself intermediate at this whole thing, the fact that I even got the number from that Thai girl is such a huge fucking jump forward for my game.