Hello,
I have been lurking here for a few months while I read Bang, Day Bang, and absorbed the great insights on this forum. Now after a few weeks of day approaches (about 30 in total) I need some help.
I cannot seem to break past the elderly opener. The elderly openers seem to resolve themselves before I can make a transition to fun and baity ramble and then my prepared big bait afterwards. It is like this is war and the most powerful weapon in my arsenal is natural game in the form of the elderly opener while the most power weapon in their arsenal is to just let the conversation die a natural death, which trumps my elderly opener and they seem to do this at every opportunity.
I know roosh says that I should try to stick to the opener for at least 1-2 mins, but they end most of my openers before I hit that mark. I understand that I could try to unnaturally segue into so fun and baity ramble earlier on, but I want to work on mastering my natural approach and keeping the interaction as seemingly natural (and thus returning greater potential dividends) as possible for now; I do plan to experiment with more direct day game later, but not yet.
I have recently started recording my approaches with my phone and have uploaded 10 of them in order from best to worst. They are from the mall, the grocery store, and the bookstore. Unfortunately, I haven't been able to make any Coffee Shop approaches since I started recording, but before that two of my best and longest approaches happened there. I will keep trying.
Please help me figure out what I am not doing and/or doing wrong in these approaches and from what I have written.
Thanks guys. Also the innuendo in the second approach was not intentional, lol
I have been lurking here for a few months while I read Bang, Day Bang, and absorbed the great insights on this forum. Now after a few weeks of day approaches (about 30 in total) I need some help.
I cannot seem to break past the elderly opener. The elderly openers seem to resolve themselves before I can make a transition to fun and baity ramble and then my prepared big bait afterwards. It is like this is war and the most powerful weapon in my arsenal is natural game in the form of the elderly opener while the most power weapon in their arsenal is to just let the conversation die a natural death, which trumps my elderly opener and they seem to do this at every opportunity.
I know roosh says that I should try to stick to the opener for at least 1-2 mins, but they end most of my openers before I hit that mark. I understand that I could try to unnaturally segue into so fun and baity ramble earlier on, but I want to work on mastering my natural approach and keeping the interaction as seemingly natural (and thus returning greater potential dividends) as possible for now; I do plan to experiment with more direct day game later, but not yet.
I have recently started recording my approaches with my phone and have uploaded 10 of them in order from best to worst. They are from the mall, the grocery store, and the bookstore. Unfortunately, I haven't been able to make any Coffee Shop approaches since I started recording, but before that two of my best and longest approaches happened there. I will keep trying.
Please help me figure out what I am not doing and/or doing wrong in these approaches and from what I have written.
Thanks guys. Also the innuendo in the second approach was not intentional, lol