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When she calls out your neg
04-25-2012, 10:19 PM
This kind of relates to a previous post, but I felt that this was a unique enough response to phrase into a situational question. Keep in mind I'm still in attraction-building phase. Met in person, started talking on Facebook, still no number yet. She has responded positively to everything so far.
What would you guys say to this?
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When she calls out your neg
04-25-2012, 10:30 PM
My advice: stop negging girls. It's fucking lame.
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When she calls out your neg
04-25-2012, 11:21 PM
That's fine. Leave it as is and start a new conversation thread to close the deal
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When she calls out your neg
04-26-2012, 12:00 AM
Her response is fine. Change the subject and pretend it never happened. You can almost not be too aloof with girls. Most of the texts I send to girls look like they came from a fucking 5-year old
"...so I gave her an STD, and she STILL wanted to bang me."
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When she calls out your neg
04-26-2012, 01:21 AM
Those who write off a the old school game methods are missing out on a whole set of tools. Being masculine and having polarity and all that is well and good, but sometimes you need to knock a girl down a few pegs or spike her buying temperature. Using push/pull, negs, etc, you will fuck girls that in a certain situation you normally wouldn't. Use everything you can to your advantage.
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When she calls out your neg
04-26-2012, 02:07 AM
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When she calls out your neg
04-26-2012, 02:10 AM
"So, is this the part when you tongue my balls — or are we going to wait a few minutes?"
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When she calls out your neg
04-26-2012, 07:13 AM
Her: "I can't tell if that's an insult or a compliment"
You: "I'll let you try and figure it out, what are you doing on tuesday?"
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When she calls out your neg
04-26-2012, 11:44 AM
Use a smily face next time.
Change the topic immediately. Don't do what some guys above are saying and point out the fact she's on the wrong foot, leave the topic behind.
If you poke fun at her with a neg and then poke fun at her again, she'll just think you're being a dick. A neg is a subtle display of hand, not a conversational opener.
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When she calls out your neg
04-26-2012, 12:23 PM
Her: haha what you don't like my short hair?
Me: Most women shave their legs.
This is the type of round I'll expend when a girl is looking for a compliment. After that I'd leave it alone and chat her up later about something else. Once you jab a chick, never try to undo it, as that shows weakness.
If your frame is right she'll come back for approval. It's like smacking a puppy on the nose for being bad. It'll come back with it's head low and tail tucked. Women are no different.
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04-26-2012, 01:53 PM
I've seen a lot of guys advocate not using smilies when texting as it doesn't come across as "masculine" or something. The thing is, like stated above, without them words alone do not convey the true meaning of your comment.
I've always used them with great success when being a smart ass or busting the broad on something even though in person I smile very little. (I smirk at most generally)
They are necessary to convey the meaning you want your text to carry, otherwise she will take it literally and become upset/pissed/homicidal.
They are not needed on every message, especially if you want to get her hamster going, but using them occasionally will get her wondering if you are serious while controlling her urge to flip out.
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When she calls out your neg
04-26-2012, 07:02 PM
In Poland the girls use smiley faces instead of periods.