I live in a small town and am having a tough time juggling girls. It seems everywhere I go I run into one. If I go out, one of them is out and all they do is stare to see what I'm doing with other girls. I tell these women were not exclusive, yet they still don't understand. It's getting to the point where they are cock blocking me. I'd like to keep some of them in the rotation cause they are smokin great lays, but how when I'm out with other women running into them. Things have been blowing up in my face hard and I'm at my wits end trying to figure out what to do. Any advice would be appreciated boys.
Juggling Girls
I think many extremely successful people in all fields of life end up moving to larger cities.
Unless your schtick is only good in small towns, each hottie in the big city will still be delusional about her powers to get control of you, and you can keep a rotation going
without them seeing each other if you find multiple hunting grounds.
By the way, I deeply hate you!
Unless your schtick is only good in small towns, each hottie in the big city will still be delusional about her powers to get control of you, and you can keep a rotation going
without them seeing each other if you find multiple hunting grounds.
By the way, I deeply hate you!
I just ran into this juggling issue last night and unfortunately I dropped the balls.
This is something you don't think about when you start learning game. What happens if/when it actually starts working? I mean, of course you imagine how great life will be once you start getting women to sleep with you. But you don't imagine the problems that will occur, such as what happens when you're banging more than one girl. And you're in a small town where everyone kind of knows each other, and they go to the same places to hang out. This blew up in my face last night. I was out with one, and the other one came into the same place. The 2nd one knew what was up and was cool with it, not attracting attention. I was sweating, trying to figure out the logistics to get #1 out of there without her seeing #2, but the stars never aligned to do that. And as soon as #1 realized #2 was there (she had seen me with her on an earlier night), there was a catfight and I had to pull them off each other. They were crying, screaming at me, everyone was staring; it was awful.
I'm from a big city. So I'm accustomed to a level of anonymity which is not available here. I'm also used to being single and ignored/despised by women. But now that some of the game I've been studying is starting to sink in, and actually pay off, everything is different. And there's good and bad that goes with that.
I think I've lost both of them. And I think I'll have to leave this town because everyone is going to hate me now. I liked it here, so this sucks...
This is something you don't think about when you start learning game. What happens if/when it actually starts working? I mean, of course you imagine how great life will be once you start getting women to sleep with you. But you don't imagine the problems that will occur, such as what happens when you're banging more than one girl. And you're in a small town where everyone kind of knows each other, and they go to the same places to hang out. This blew up in my face last night. I was out with one, and the other one came into the same place. The 2nd one knew what was up and was cool with it, not attracting attention. I was sweating, trying to figure out the logistics to get #1 out of there without her seeing #2, but the stars never aligned to do that. And as soon as #1 realized #2 was there (she had seen me with her on an earlier night), there was a catfight and I had to pull them off each other. They were crying, screaming at me, everyone was staring; it was awful.
I'm from a big city. So I'm accustomed to a level of anonymity which is not available here. I'm also used to being single and ignored/despised by women. But now that some of the game I've been studying is starting to sink in, and actually pay off, everything is different. And there's good and bad that goes with that.
I think I've lost both of them. And I think I'll have to leave this town because everyone is going to hate me now. I liked it here, so this sucks...
you could have just let the fight sort itself out and walk home with the victor, she'd have made a great lay too all worked up from the fight and super jealous. Now on a more serious note I really envy you. I had a similar problem some time ago (nothing close to allgood's incident though) ended up losing both chicks and have been on a dry spell ever since.
I think the only way is to stand aside, let natural events fold out and keep gaming other girls. If you're in such a small town those kind of problems are impossible to avoid in my opinion.
I think the only way is to stand aside, let natural events fold out and keep gaming other girls. If you're in such a small town those kind of problems are impossible to avoid in my opinion.
Check out towns not too near but not too far. You must have other towns within a 20 minute drive, right? Spend some time in those places, meet girls there.
Quote: (09-29-2012 11:38 AM)Sonsowey Wrote:
Check out towns not too near but not too far. You must have other towns within a 20 minute drive, right? Spend some time in those places, meet girls there.
Yes, but I'll probably end up leaving town. I don't actually live here, I'm just on an extended visit which can end on short notice.
From studying game, I either never came across, or never noticed, instructions on how to get the girl to accept that you're just using her as a sex toy and an unpaid escort. That part seems to be glossed over or ignored in game material. And of course I have been focused on learning basic initial game so that I could actually convince women to sleep with me, rather than just randomly getting lucky from time to time with some drunken skank. Because this one I got obviously thinks we are in an exclusive relationship, and that was not my intention. I suppose it is my fault because I never thought about it in detail until the shit hit the fan yesterday. Well now I have to hit the web and figure out how to extricate myself from this mess. Of course it would be easier to simply flee and never return but this place is a gold mine and I don't want to burn all my bridges if there's a way not to.
If I do stick around, I will definitely stop shitting where I eat, and try to spend some nights prowling the nearby towns. I haven't even checked them out yet.
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