I have a question... how often do you guys force yourselves to make the correct move when you would naturally make the wrong one?
For example most times when I get a girl's number (during the day usually) I'll want to message her that night or the day after but I force myself to wait two days. Then I force myself to take at least as long as she took to respond to my text though I usually see the text right away and know what I'm going to say.
I know the true answer is inner game and a busy lifestyle where I'm so busy I don't check my phone/okcupid/email or whatever too often so I'll naturally take a while to respond back to chicks.
This is just an example though, I know most things you do to improve your game don't come naturally at first but after awhile they become automatic. This is one thing that hasn't been the case for me, I have to keep reminding myself to do this and the few times I think I can start breaking the "rules" I get stuck playing with my hand.
For example most times when I get a girl's number (during the day usually) I'll want to message her that night or the day after but I force myself to wait two days. Then I force myself to take at least as long as she took to respond to my text though I usually see the text right away and know what I'm going to say.
I know the true answer is inner game and a busy lifestyle where I'm so busy I don't check my phone/okcupid/email or whatever too often so I'll naturally take a while to respond back to chicks.
This is just an example though, I know most things you do to improve your game don't come naturally at first but after awhile they become automatic. This is one thing that hasn't been the case for me, I have to keep reminding myself to do this and the few times I think I can start breaking the "rules" I get stuck playing with my hand.