[heavens88]

Hello

I'm Camilo, student from Spain in my mid 20's, with very basic(very little) game since I'm an introvert, I'm caucasian.

Which are the best countries in Latin America for the average Introverted man for LTR? where women tend to have good attitude toward introverts without expecting them to keep them laughing all the time, etc.

not shy but introvert, not boring.

[Roosh]

Scandinavia I would guess. The girls there like the stoic types who just listen to them babble.

[gringochileno]

Latin America's probably not your best bet. The culture in most of those countries really values people who are friendly, outgoing, and social. If you're the quiet brooding type I can't really think of a Latin American country that would be particularly good for you.

[speakeasy]

(04-18-2012 11:05 PM)gringochileno Wrote:  

Latin America's probably not your best bet. The culture in most of those countries really values people who are friendly, outgoing, and social. If you're the quiet brooding type I can't really think of a Latin American country that would be particularly good for you.

He said he's Caucasian so I'm sure Peru would be his best bet. I've seen some of the most nerdy, introverted white guys find girls in Peru without effort.

[jergens007]

Anywhere you go, you need to step out of your comfort zone and try to socialize with the locals. Its ok to be introvert but when you go overseas, you need to put your extrovert hat on. best of luck

[Celtic]

Try Bogotá. I met a lot of intellectual type girls there (programmers, engineers, etc.)- the capital of Colombia has a lot of educated middle class women who might be a good fit you.

I think you'll have a good shot at Latin America because you are both exotic and you are a fluent Spanish speaker.

That said, Jergens is right. Push yourself as much as you can, be as social as you can, and try to meet as many people as you can.

[Mr.GM]

None. I was introverted , and learned to become more extroverted. Obviously we are generalizing here , but as a Brazilian I would say that Latin Culture is very extroverted , much more based on emotions instead of rationality. In that kind of environment , the extroverted guy has always the upper hand.

[WanderingSoul]

I wouldn't go in search of a LTR if I were you. Use it as an opportunity to make yourself more outgoing and to better yourself, not to just find one girl and stick with her. Work on your social skills, your game, your self image, etc. Not saying you have to go there and try to fuck 30 girls, but locking yourself down to one isn't going to help you out much in the long run.

Good luck and keep us updated when you go.

[Sangfroid]

(04-18-2012 07:07 PM)Roosh Wrote:  

Scandinavia I would guess. The girls there like the stoic types who just listen to them babble.

Roosh, are you saying that Poland is a bad place for introverts? If so, can you describe a bit why that is?

[heavens88]

(04-20-2012 09:18 PM)Mr.GM Wrote:  

None. I was introverted , and learned to become more extroverted. Obviously we are generalizing here , but as a Brazilian I would say that Latin Culture is very extroverted , much more based on emotions instead of rationality. In that kind of environment , the extroverted guy has always the upper hand.

ok man, I can carry conversations and don't let'em push me around but I'm not the kinda guy that keeps them on their toes and laughing most of times. What chances would I have in Brazil? (I like morenas)

[Mr.GM]

(04-22-2012 10:44 AM)RioNomad Wrote:  

If you are serious about getting bigger and stronger then do yourself a huge favor and buy Starting Strength by Mark Rippetoe. That, or you can Google "Starting Strength wiki" and get most of the info there. Follow the program as is. I know it sounds crazy to squat heavy 3x a week but trust me, you will see huge gains in both size and strength very quickly.

DON'T start with some bodybuilding routine. With how skinny you are you need to do compound lifts which will put muscle onto your frame. Squats, deadlifts and presses are MUCH more beneficial to you than dumbell rows, curls and hack squats.

(04-23-2012 01:51 PM)heavens88 Wrote:  

(04-20-2012 09:18 PM)Mr.GM Wrote:  

None. I was introverted , and learned to become more extroverted. Obviously we are generalizing here , but as a Brazilian I would say that Latin Culture is very extroverted , much more based on emotions instead of rationality. In that kind of environment , the extroverted guy has always the upper hand.

ok man, I can carry conversations and don't let'em push me around but I'm not the kinda guy that keeps them on their toes and laughing most of times. What chances would I have in Brazil? (I like morenas)

You must be at least easygoing. I mean , you don't have to be a stand up comedian but you do need to "relax" and laugh with others , here in Brazil most people like to give nicknames to each other , make fun at each other etc. If you want to be sucessful with girls and build a social circle here, you can't be that guy that is always a loner and take everything seriously with a straight face. People will lable you as weird. Like I pointed before , off course there are "niches" for shyintroverted guys like everywhere in the world , but if you want to play the numbers game you need to be spirituous and "casual" to have sucess among latins and Brazilians.

[Screwston]

Mr. Gm Brazilians sounds a lot like Mexicans hermano. Is weed looked down on with most Brazilians? I'm kind of like the OP but getting high brings me out of my shell a lot faster.

[Mr.GM]

(04-23-2012 05:54 PM)houston Wrote:  

Mr. Gm Brazilians sounds a lot like Mexicans hermano. Is weed looked down on with most Brazilians? I'm kind of like the OP but getting high brings me out of my shell a lot faster.

Weed is widely used here (not my thing btw) , but doesn't work as a "social opener" in all sets.

Young,liberal people use it a lot , and if you carry some it can be a plus among people who like to party and have fun.

But if you are hitting more consertavive places (3rd tier cities , Shy girls or dealing with career-oriented people) you can be labeled as a pothead and that will kill your prospects.

Overall I don't think that the Weed issue is much different than in the US , a lot of talking going on about legalization here as well. The US may be a little bit ahead in terms of widespread acceptance and lax laws though (California for example)