Quote: (04-09-2012 09:37 PM)tjames Wrote:
Probably ONS. No LTR. It's just a social experiment for future endeavors really.
How far are you willing to go outside of your usual spin? If you don't mind a little role-play (i.e., lie), borrow a friend's motorcycle and bail on her a few times telling her you have to go to band practice, and no she can't come with.
Quote: (04-09-2012 09:37 PM)tjames Wrote:
Why though? Cos she expects you to become one or be more enjoyed in the music scene?
No, because I can't stand that version of hypergamy, and all it brings is bad mojo. And STDs. It shows really bad judgment on the part of the woman, and I disrespect her instantly. Trust me, I've tried, many, many times.
Quote: (04-09-2012 09:37 PM)tjames Wrote:
Wouldn't that mean for most of us game would be useless. Most good-looking girls dated good-looking guys so we all have to be good-looking. Plus as I said before it's only one of the types she goes for.
Oh, I'm not disagreeing -- solid game absolutely CAN land any type of woman, but that's why I asked what you were looking for. ONS is easier, LTR would be very, very difficult because women who have a history of dating guys in bands, even shitty bands that play only at the VFW have a different addiction to power. They'd rather see their lame boyfriend strumming a guitar on stage in front of 25 hipsters than hear about their boyfriend handing mergers and acquisitions in Dubai.
ONS should be easy, just act the part of a rock star if you can pull it off, or roleplay it until she gets interested.
Hell, I'd just tell her she can come to my show in a few weeks, and when she asks questions, tell her you're sick and tired of the stalker fans and she hasn't proved to you that she's isn't another one of those girls.
A 10 is going to need catnip that a 9 or 8 won't -- you need to her to qualify herself, to prove herself. What ammo can you use that other guys normally don't?