I mostly bang girls I meet online (gotta work on my solo game, but that's another story), so they're not in my social circle. Sometimes, I'll get a FWB out of it, sometimes just a ONS. I like to think that I lay down the pipe pretty well, and judging by the womens' reactions, I think they agree. So how can I get referral sex out of this?
I'm not in their social circle, so I think that helps in some ways, and maybe hurts in others. Seems to me the obvious hangup is the girls not wanting to look like a total slut to their friends. Another, probably less likely, issue is girls not wanting to complicate their friendship (one girl I banged a few times was telling her gf that she should try me, but second girl didn't want to sleep with someone her friend was sleeping with).
The ONS girls are tough to parlay into referral sex because a lot of these girls fuck on the spur of the moment and try to put their impulsive slutty adventure behind them, and referring the guy just reminds them of their sluttiness. And with FWB relationships, the girl isn't always keen on you wanting to bang her friends, and when these relationships run their natural course (with the guy often bailing or showing less interest), the girl is often butthurt, and she sure as hell doesn't want to help you hookup then.
So it could be there is no particularly effective way to do it. But it seems to me that this would be worth trying to hone because if you could convert even half your notches into a referral, that's 50% more pussy for little to no extra effort as you come with pre-approved status of the highest order.
I'm not in their social circle, so I think that helps in some ways, and maybe hurts in others. Seems to me the obvious hangup is the girls not wanting to look like a total slut to their friends. Another, probably less likely, issue is girls not wanting to complicate their friendship (one girl I banged a few times was telling her gf that she should try me, but second girl didn't want to sleep with someone her friend was sleeping with).
The ONS girls are tough to parlay into referral sex because a lot of these girls fuck on the spur of the moment and try to put their impulsive slutty adventure behind them, and referring the guy just reminds them of their sluttiness. And with FWB relationships, the girl isn't always keen on you wanting to bang her friends, and when these relationships run their natural course (with the guy often bailing or showing less interest), the girl is often butthurt, and she sure as hell doesn't want to help you hookup then.
So it could be there is no particularly effective way to do it. But it seems to me that this would be worth trying to hone because if you could convert even half your notches into a referral, that's 50% more pussy for little to no extra effort as you come with pre-approved status of the highest order.
