Quote: (04-09-2012 02:39 PM)bonetino Wrote:
Italian or Spaniard yourself?
two of my friends have tried
1. Anglo White American male, 6"2, brown hair and blue eyes. Had no luck, complained about it.
2. Indian guy, 5"10, black hair and brown eyes, had no luck either.
I have very little experience in Italy, although I spent quite a bit of summer time there growing up. Italian women were bitchy then, and the few times I've visited Rome as an actual adult, they seemed bitchy now.
Spanish girls, on the other hand, should NOT be a problem -- depending on what part of Spain you're visiting and what racial type they are. I appreciate the lighter-skinned ones more than the Moorish skinned ones -- prettier "cuter" faces and less curves, it seems.
Andalusian women, in my experience, tend to be the most fun, extremely attractived mixed-breeds, and aren't snarky like the city gals can be in Madrid or Barcelona. I avoid Barcelona like the plague for socializing. I've visited Madrid maybe 6 times over the past decade, very hit or miss; Barcelona was always a miss for me.
Toledo is another city (and region) I absolutely love when it comes to socializing. Rolling out solo (although I do have friends in the region) was never a problem: women came up to talk to me more often than I broke the ice. Understanding of English was fine, same in Andalusia.
Maybe the difference is that Spanish women HATE over-confidence; you have to pepper your cocky vibe with a little bit of sweet beta. Also, dress well -- I don't think I ever wore jeans when I went out, usually some flat front slacks and a dress shirt. My friends who live in Toledo always wear that so I mimicked it.
If you look young, let your facial stubble grow out, too.
