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The slampiece drunk texted me
04-07-2012, 10:31 AM
The slampiece drunk texted me last night saying we need to talk and asked me if i only like her cause we had sex. I got out of the conversaton by saying I was asleep.
Should I act like this never happened and just go about treating her the same?
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The slampiece drunk texted me
04-07-2012, 10:55 AM
Its just her hamster drunk spinning. Good on you for saying you're asleep. She'll wake up and see you don't give enough of a fuck to grovel to her like a beta and she will feel embarrassed she even asked you that. Mind you she will always be thinking that.
Do you plan on banging her again? If so don't bring it up, show her somehow that she means something to you (even if she doesn't) ie. a date, bring her over for dinner, tone down any asshole game etc.
If you don't plan on banging her again just cease contact whats done is done.
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The slampiece drunk texted me
04-07-2012, 04:01 PM
The first thing you should do is figure out what you want from her.
An occasional booty call, who you only see for sex?
A friend with benefits?
An eventual girlfriend?
Once you do that, just assume that's what you have and behave accordingly. If she tries something like that again, you might want to try agree and amplify:
Her: Do you only want me for the sex?
You: No. The blow jobs are great too.
Her: I'm serious.
You: So am I. Your head game is tight. Anyway... (change the subject)
She'll get the message and decide for herself whether she can deal with it. If she can't she'll be out, which is just part of having fuck buddies. They have a shelf life.
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The slampiece drunk texted me
04-07-2012, 06:44 PM
Personally I have no problem dating a girl I'm interested in for a little bit. The only thing is I get bored after a couple of days or weeks so this is my response, its honest and answers the question:
"I am not looking for a relationship right now, but I wouldn't turn one down if I met the right person. I don't want to commit just yet, but I like you and let's see where things go."
It also gives you an out if things go sour, you were never really committed to begin with. Plus you can still bang other girls and get a few more out of her. It works well for me
He who hesitates, masturbates.
