Sorry if this sounds complicated, but I try and break it down as well as possible.....
So a friend of mine comes to visit me in between trips to Brazil and Mexico. He decides to spend a week in Miami in between his trips. Unfortunately I have to work every day he's here. While I'm working, he meets up with a boy of mine who lives in Miami. It just so happens the friend of mine he meets up with has a couple of out of state friend in town as well (A boyfriend and girlfriend pair from Arizona). While I'm working, the whole group goes out, my friend from out of town, my homie that lives in Miami, and his friends from out of town. While they're out and I'm working, the group meets up with some strange... 2 black girls and a black dude they're with. These girls are neither super ghetto or high class, somewhere in between. They don't speak like the ghetto black girls, who speak close to incomprehensible english (Ebonics), that you want to punch in the face, but their actions are pretty far off upper class womens. From the story I'm about to explain, the sober girl ends up basically appoligizing for her friends behavior, and the friend slutted it up to the fullest (But I'm 99% sure if she was sober, she wouldn't have done half the things she did). So I assume these girls are middle class, decently educated girls black girls, and the drunk girl was just having a good time cause she was on vacation.
Here's how it goes... While I'm at work, my two friends, one that lives here in Miami, and the one whos visiting in betweens his trips to Brazil and Mexico, meet up with the other out of towners (my boy from Miami's friends). They go to the beach and meet up with the strange I described above at my work. It would appear they went to the beach and had a drink or 12 when they pulled up to my work, because I had forgotten to get my out of towner friend the keys to my house. When I walk outside after my boy calls me to tell me he's pulled up, I see my boys have the strange with them....
Fast foward to when I get off. I go out, a bunch of shit happens whith a whole other group of friends, but to make it short and sweet, I end up meeting up with my boys (All the people described in the sittuation above) at around 2 am. When I get to the spot, MY FRIENDS out-of-town-friends are telling me how they're gonna have a 3some with one of the strange girls (That they had picked up from the beach earlier, let's call her stange #1). While my out-of-town-friend is hooking up with the stranges friend (Let's call her strange #2). I show up sober, while everyone else is shit housed. Strange #1 approaches me and tries making out with me while she introduces herself. I turn my head and tell her, "Nice to meet you, looks like you're having a lot of fun tonight!" I let her go back to making out with the friends friends (Who are boyfriend and girlfriend, trying to make this as
I go on with the night. I talked to some girls who weren't feeling it (I guess I wasn't hipster enough), and some others girls I wouldn't have bangged (Short haired, ugly hipster girls who turned me off almost as bad as gay porn). One of the ugly hipster girls slaps my ass as I'm ordering a drink and says, "Good game."
I turn to her and say, "Good thing you said good game, otherwise I would have taken that as sexual herassment. As long as you say good game though, it's strictly business or friendly." I talk to the girl a while, just to warm myself up for a night out of approaching. She ends up going to tell her friend something, and I walk away while I see the opprotunity presents itself and meet up with my friends. My homie from Miami is just having a good time, chillin behind the DJ booth with our friend who's DJing the club that night. My homie from out of town is hooking up with strange #1. And my homies out-of-town friends are dancing around, having fun, and making out with strange #2. I show up around 2 am. I arrive sober, and while I'm ther I end up getting a little loose, but really only 2 drinks deep while the next incident occurs, I'm basically still sober. Strange #2 grabs me and tries to make out with me. I deny her and say, "You're already having fun tonight," as I point at my boys out-of-town-friends. I chill for a bit, grab another drink, still pretty damn sober, when she goes in for the kiss again. This time, I decide, "Fuck it, I'm gonna let loose." I end up making out with her, but turn her around and tell her, "You're having fun with them tonight." Pointing at my friends friends who already talked her into a 3some earlier.
Strange #2 was persistant though. I continued making out with her and denying her all night. I would fuck around with her and ask/say, "You like white boys???? You're gonna be having fun with them tonight..." She kept telling me how bad she wanted to fuck, and I'd keep repeating, "They have you tonight, but I'm gonna fuck the shit out of you tomorrow." She kept insisting that I slap her ass, which I did, and hard... She kept coming on to me and I kept telling her, "Look, I'm not gonna fuck with your situation tonight, but I'm gonna fuck the shit out of you tomorrrow."
Bottom line, my question is... Should I have just fucked her that night, or should I have done what I did and let my friends people take her home? I kept telling them after I'd make out with her, "Look, I'm not trying to fuck your situation up, I'm just gonna make out with her, but she's mine tomorrow!" I ended up letting my friends friends take her home. If it was the senario where a friend of mine was trying to score and was unsuccesful, I would have done it. But in this case I knew they had it in the bag. I ended up telling them she was theirs and I didn't wanna fuck what they had up. Should have I gone for it or did I do the right thing. I feel like if I did it different, I would have been a cock block..... I ended up going home with my dick in my hand...
While I realize the main goal is to get some, at the same time I resprect certain values I have between me and my friends... My friends homies were real cool cats and earned some respect through other means which I decided to keep out to make the story a little more to the point. My friend is a real close friend. Anyone he vouges for, I take note... Was I in the wrong for not taking advantage of my situation? Or did I do the right thing by respecting my homie, and what I thought was right (Tough situation, which I've never been put in before, that's why I'm asking the question). In this situation it's hard to call the line between cock blocking and doing what you need to do. Again, if it was my homie trying to pick a girl up and it clearly wasn't working, and she came onto me, I'm all over it. But the situation tonight, it was a sure thing, which is probably going on as I write this. I feel if I made any other decision I would have looked like I was out of place. While the whole thing between me and strange #2 was going down, my friend even mentioned how the other couple already had it, and to not get involved. This whole time the girl kept telling me how she liked white boys while she was grabbing my cock. I kept slapping and grabbing her ass, telling her how I was gonna fuck the shit out of her tomorrow. Maybe I should have taken advantage though? She was coming on way too strong. She was basically jerking me off in the middle of the dance floor.
So a friend of mine comes to visit me in between trips to Brazil and Mexico. He decides to spend a week in Miami in between his trips. Unfortunately I have to work every day he's here. While I'm working, he meets up with a boy of mine who lives in Miami. It just so happens the friend of mine he meets up with has a couple of out of state friend in town as well (A boyfriend and girlfriend pair from Arizona). While I'm working, the whole group goes out, my friend from out of town, my homie that lives in Miami, and his friends from out of town. While they're out and I'm working, the group meets up with some strange... 2 black girls and a black dude they're with. These girls are neither super ghetto or high class, somewhere in between. They don't speak like the ghetto black girls, who speak close to incomprehensible english (Ebonics), that you want to punch in the face, but their actions are pretty far off upper class womens. From the story I'm about to explain, the sober girl ends up basically appoligizing for her friends behavior, and the friend slutted it up to the fullest (But I'm 99% sure if she was sober, she wouldn't have done half the things she did). So I assume these girls are middle class, decently educated girls black girls, and the drunk girl was just having a good time cause she was on vacation.
Here's how it goes... While I'm at work, my two friends, one that lives here in Miami, and the one whos visiting in betweens his trips to Brazil and Mexico, meet up with the other out of towners (my boy from Miami's friends). They go to the beach and meet up with the strange I described above at my work. It would appear they went to the beach and had a drink or 12 when they pulled up to my work, because I had forgotten to get my out of towner friend the keys to my house. When I walk outside after my boy calls me to tell me he's pulled up, I see my boys have the strange with them....
Fast foward to when I get off. I go out, a bunch of shit happens whith a whole other group of friends, but to make it short and sweet, I end up meeting up with my boys (All the people described in the sittuation above) at around 2 am. When I get to the spot, MY FRIENDS out-of-town-friends are telling me how they're gonna have a 3some with one of the strange girls (That they had picked up from the beach earlier, let's call her stange #1). While my out-of-town-friend is hooking up with the stranges friend (Let's call her strange #2). I show up sober, while everyone else is shit housed. Strange #1 approaches me and tries making out with me while she introduces herself. I turn my head and tell her, "Nice to meet you, looks like you're having a lot of fun tonight!" I let her go back to making out with the friends friends (Who are boyfriend and girlfriend, trying to make this as
I go on with the night. I talked to some girls who weren't feeling it (I guess I wasn't hipster enough), and some others girls I wouldn't have bangged (Short haired, ugly hipster girls who turned me off almost as bad as gay porn). One of the ugly hipster girls slaps my ass as I'm ordering a drink and says, "Good game."
I turn to her and say, "Good thing you said good game, otherwise I would have taken that as sexual herassment. As long as you say good game though, it's strictly business or friendly." I talk to the girl a while, just to warm myself up for a night out of approaching. She ends up going to tell her friend something, and I walk away while I see the opprotunity presents itself and meet up with my friends. My homie from Miami is just having a good time, chillin behind the DJ booth with our friend who's DJing the club that night. My homie from out of town is hooking up with strange #1. And my homies out-of-town friends are dancing around, having fun, and making out with strange #2. I show up around 2 am. I arrive sober, and while I'm ther I end up getting a little loose, but really only 2 drinks deep while the next incident occurs, I'm basically still sober. Strange #2 grabs me and tries to make out with me. I deny her and say, "You're already having fun tonight," as I point at my boys out-of-town-friends. I chill for a bit, grab another drink, still pretty damn sober, when she goes in for the kiss again. This time, I decide, "Fuck it, I'm gonna let loose." I end up making out with her, but turn her around and tell her, "You're having fun with them tonight." Pointing at my friends friends who already talked her into a 3some earlier.
Strange #2 was persistant though. I continued making out with her and denying her all night. I would fuck around with her and ask/say, "You like white boys???? You're gonna be having fun with them tonight..." She kept telling me how bad she wanted to fuck, and I'd keep repeating, "They have you tonight, but I'm gonna fuck the shit out of you tomorrow." She kept insisting that I slap her ass, which I did, and hard... She kept coming on to me and I kept telling her, "Look, I'm not gonna fuck with your situation tonight, but I'm gonna fuck the shit out of you tomorrrow."
Bottom line, my question is... Should I have just fucked her that night, or should I have done what I did and let my friends people take her home? I kept telling them after I'd make out with her, "Look, I'm not trying to fuck your situation up, I'm just gonna make out with her, but she's mine tomorrow!" I ended up letting my friends friends take her home. If it was the senario where a friend of mine was trying to score and was unsuccesful, I would have done it. But in this case I knew they had it in the bag. I ended up telling them she was theirs and I didn't wanna fuck what they had up. Should have I gone for it or did I do the right thing. I feel like if I did it different, I would have been a cock block..... I ended up going home with my dick in my hand...
While I realize the main goal is to get some, at the same time I resprect certain values I have between me and my friends... My friends homies were real cool cats and earned some respect through other means which I decided to keep out to make the story a little more to the point. My friend is a real close friend. Anyone he vouges for, I take note... Was I in the wrong for not taking advantage of my situation? Or did I do the right thing by respecting my homie, and what I thought was right (Tough situation, which I've never been put in before, that's why I'm asking the question). In this situation it's hard to call the line between cock blocking and doing what you need to do. Again, if it was my homie trying to pick a girl up and it clearly wasn't working, and she came onto me, I'm all over it. But the situation tonight, it was a sure thing, which is probably going on as I write this. I feel if I made any other decision I would have looked like I was out of place. While the whole thing between me and strange #2 was going down, my friend even mentioned how the other couple already had it, and to not get involved. This whole time the girl kept telling me how she liked white boys while she was grabbing my cock. I kept slapping and grabbing her ass, telling her how I was gonna fuck the shit out of her tomorrow. Maybe I should have taken advantage though? She was coming on way too strong. She was basically jerking me off in the middle of the dance floor.
