[Raving]

On gaming a conservative, dull but gorgeous girl? I've already managed to get a good response from her and she's added me on FB to chat further. I'm taking it slow because she knows she's pretty. Looks like I'm going to have to do a lot of the input as she's a tad bit shy.

Thanks in advance.

[Knowledge Seeker]

(05-07-2012 11:09 AM)Raving Wrote:  

On gaming a conservative, dull but gorgeous girl? I've already managed to get a good response from her and she's added me on FB to chat further. I'm taking it slow because she knows she's pretty. Looks like I'm going to have to do a lot of the input as she's a tad bit shy.

Thanks in advance.

You probably have to do most of the initiating. Build rapport and get her to come out.

Shy girls are awesome because they are extremely submissive as long as you lead the interaction.

[Built to Fade]

Just got back on FB and I don't have any good messaging techniques for you but I HIGHLY suggest moving from FB to texting. That way you can do it at your leisure and it fells more private so the both of you can talk more liberally. Seriously, ask for the number... She won't say no if she's shy. Also, how do you know she thinks she is hot?? I mean you say she is shy but most of the hot women I know are out going so therefore she probably doesn't know exactly what guys think about her i.e she's hot

[loverboyy]

Advice: Go approach 100 girls then message her whatever the hell you want.

[Raving]

Thanks for the replies..

(05-08-2012 08:53 PM)-g- Wrote:  

Just got back on FB and I don't have any good messaging techniques for you but I HIGHLY suggest moving from FB to texting. That way you can do it at your leisure and it fells more private so the both of you can talk more liberally. Seriously, ask for the number... She won't say no if she's shy. Also, how do you know she thinks she is hot?? I mean you say she is shy but most of the hot women I know are out going so therefore she probably doesn't know exactly what guys think about her i.e she's hot

Well let's put it this way, she knows she's not a push away. Other men do slobber over her because she's the pretty, quiet type. There doesn't seem to be an ounce of flirt in her. I already tried exchanging numbers by giving her mine and she insisted we FB. Don't really seem to be closing much of a deal, the first conversation on FB wasn't long, got her asking me questions about my av, tried to make her more curious by mentioning by plans to travel to a faraway country and that was it, haven't contacted her since..

I think I might be overdoing the novelty seeker thing but one never knows.

[Veloce]

Hot and pretty girls are often dull, which is why they go for bad boys because bad boys are stimulating and are the opposite of boring.

Definitely don't fawn over her. In fact, treat her like the dumb boring ho she is, she probably knows she's boring, so when guys try to fabricate cool attributes and assign them to her, she above everyone else knows it's bullshit. She wants someone to stimulate her.

You want to drop info about your life and what makes you interesting, maybe a little bad. Drop hints about owning a motorcycle, or some "business" you have to attend to over the weekend. If she asks what it is, say "I can't talk about it" with a smirk." Talk about going to Vegas, or a crazy trip to Europe you had, just don't try to hard, it HAS to come off very naturally and in passing. You might need to be much more direct with this girl than you think.