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Girl opened me in the checkout, how do I turn that into a bang next time?
03-07-2012, 04:51 PM
Basically, she opened me, commenting on my groceries (all i had was bacon and ramen noodles), I basically said the same to her (all she had was frozen dinners), she laughed and told me she was "just feeling really crazy from working so much", i said "well this is dc, thats what people do sadly", she kind of laugh-sighed and said yeah then she turned her attention to the cashier and checked out. Then turned back and said goodbye to me and left.
Anyone have any tips that help out in a non-ideal situation like that where she's sort of doing something else already?
It occured to me after the fact that would have been a good time to suggest an insta-date to a spot right across the street, I guess I just need to be bolder and quicker so she doesn't get away
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03-07-2012, 05:24 PM
you should have just continued talking, hopefully about something more fun and engaging than "that's what people do sadly". fi, you've could said that you're clueless in the kitchen, and that you rely on the kindness of strange women to feed you - but that there was no excuse for her buying frozen shit. have to go with cockier stuff than the elderly ramble here, since she's on her way out and you are trying to engage her.
Still, it was a moving target and a longshot, i wouldn't beat myself too much over it.
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03-08-2012, 01:55 AM
Hmm I would of told her to wait for up for me when she said goodbye. If she wanted your dick, she would of waited for you to pay.
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03-08-2012, 02:20 PM
Girl: "she told me she was feeling crazy from working so much"
Sphere: Let me help you with that, I'm good with crazy. And I've got bacon. Let's get a drink.
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Girl opened me in the checkout, how do I turn that into a bang next time?
03-12-2012, 05:10 PM
This happens all the time. In grocery game.
its obvious there is some attraction, but is it strong or real.
the best way to find out is, push the interaction for what you want.
when she said bye: You should of said," wait up, I want to talk to you, wait a second,"
This is the moment of truth.
Provide a reason or an excuse for her to continue this dialogue.
If she stay than its on and you wouldn't be writing this. You miss your window of opportunity.
Once she waited, you can suggest a insta-date from there.