[mrnice]

when there is attachment..you actually loose the girl because of this pathetic lingering feelings.(thats what everyone says).

does this mean we should never fall in love???..and have no romantic life?>

[speakeasy]

I don't think anyone says you should never have strong feelings for a woman. I just don't think you should feel any stronger about a girl than she feels about you. Preferably the girl should feel stronger about you instead of the other way around, but you should at least not be into her more than the other way around. If you are head of over heels and get butterflies in your stomach thinking about her, that's great...so long as she is thinking the same about you, otherwise you become an AFC trying to prove yourself to some girl and worshipping her on a pedestal.

Nothing wrong with falling in love, people been doing it for thousands of years. If your parents hadn't fallen in love you probably wouldn't exist right now.

[charmer]

the feeling which we often name 'love' creates neediness....neediness kills the game..hence,yeah,dont fall in love.

[Kona]

Just be in love with around 5 or so girls.

Aloha!