[FilMor]

My original plans were to do 5 months of boxing muay thai training and to get in shape, rewire myself spirituality and mentally and i ended up throwing away my 1st 3 months of travelling chasing pussy, drinking beer, smoking weed and doing nothing productive at all... my return ticket to the US is April 28 and during this 3 months of travel i went to the boxing gym exactly 3 times.

I have basically 1 month and a half to change this by going up to Chiang Mai and getting serious.. what exactly can i achieve in 1 12 of training?

Why do I lack the motivation? Iv'e thrown away thousands of dollars sleeping around and partying and wasted time and money i will never get back.

[Kitsune]

Well I mean..

The answer is spend the next few months doing what you intended to do, and don't get side-tracked.

As far as, 'What am I going to do in only 1.5 months,' the answer is probably going to be more than you have in the last three months.
Feeling down is a waste of time, just consider this a valuable lesson. Drop the weed completely, get rid of the alcohol if you have to. Fuck, if you're chasing girls all the time and that is getting in the way of actual goals, forget them for a while. It isn't like those things are going to have run out by the time you've hit the gym hard.

[FilMor]

(03-02-2012 12:20 PM)Kitsune Wrote:  

Well I mean..

The answer is spend the next few months doing what you intended to do, and don't get side-tracked.

As far as, 'What am I going to do in only 1.5 months,' the answer is probably going to be more than you have in the last three months.
Feeling down is a waste of time, just consider this a valuable lesson. Drop the weed completely, get rid of the alcohol if you have to. Fuck, if you're chasing girls all the time and that is getting in the way of actual goals, forget them for a while. It isn't like those things are going to have run out by the time you've hit the gym hard.

makes sense.. i got the pussy chasing and partying out the way so now is time to get serious..

[el mechanico]

Train when you get back. If the pussy is flowing keep at it. Get drunk and smoke more weed and have as many threesomes as possible.

[TudoBem]

(03-02-2012 12:11 PM)FilMor Wrote:  

My original plans were to do 5 months of boxing muay thai training and to get in shape, rewire myself spirituality and mentally and i ended up throwing away my 1st 3 months of travelling chasing pussy, drinking beer, smoking weed and doing nothing productive at all... my return ticket to the US is April 28 and during this 3 months of travel i went to the boxing gym exactly 3 times.

I have basically 1 month and a half to change this by going up to Chiang Mai and getting serious.. what exactly can i achieve in 1 12 of training?

Why do I lack the motivation? Iv'e thrown away thousands of dollars sleeping around and partying and wasted time and money i will never get back.

The only money you have thrown away has been that for the alcohol.

Weed and vagina are retsorative and will help make a man complete.

That said, it sounds like you need a time out. Separate yourself from noise and sitraction for 3 days. Smoke lots of weed, drink ample water, do all of this as far away from internet and smart phones and noise and electricity as possible.

[Aliblahba]

(03-02-2012 12:11 PM)FilMor Wrote:  

My original plans were to do 5 months of boxing muay thai training and to get in shape, rewire myself spirituality and mentally and i ended up throwing away my 1st 3 months of travelling chasing pussy, drinking beer, smoking weed and doing nothing productive at all... my return ticket to the US is April 28 and during this 3 months of travel i went to the boxing gym exactly 3 times.

I have basically 1 month and a half to change this by going up to Chiang Mai and getting serious.. what exactly can i achieve in 1 12 of training?

Why do I lack the motivation? Iv'e thrown away thousands of dollars sleeping around and partying and wasted time and money i will never get back.

And you're complaining?

[Giovonny]

FilMor,

Don't beat yourself up over this. Enjoy yourself and workout when you get back home. You obviously needed to blow off some steam.

I never understood why guys go to Thailand to "get in shape". How the hell are you gonna stay focused in a place like that?!? I think they just tell themselves that so they don't feel like a sex tourist or something.

They say...."ya, i'm going to thailand to learn kickboxing"

Sure, and I'm going to Eastern Europe to learn ice hockey!!!

Pro boxers often go up into the mountains to train before a fight, Why? Because there is no world class nightlife and neighborhoods full of cheap hookers! That usually helps eliminate some of the distractions...

[FilMor]

(03-03-2012 01:59 AM)Giovonny Wrote:  

FilMor,

Don't beat yourself up over this. Enjoy yourself and workout when you get back home. You obviously needed to blow off some steam.

I never understood why guys go to Thailand to "get in shape". How the hell are you gonna stay focused in a place like that?!? I think they just tell themselves that so they don't feel like a sex tourist or something.

They say...."ya, i'm going to thailand to learn kickboxing"

Sure, and I'm going to Eastern Europe to learn ice hockey!!!

Pro boxers often go up into the mountains to train before a fight, Why? Because there is no world class nightlife and neighborhoods full of cheap hookers! That usually helps eliminate some of the distractions...

but i cant remember the last 3 months bro..

[Amour Fou]

How was your life back home?

Was it pretty much the same wild partying over and over or was it more "orderly"?

If your trip was something different from what you did back home, don't beat yourself so much on it. You ought to be living a crazy period of your life right now, which all go through at some point. If this crazy partying is not your "norm" don't sweat.

If it is just the same pattern you had back home over somewhere else, you ought to look deeper into that. Lack of focus, grounding, prioritizing...

An interesting point that I see is how people "plan" what they will be doing when they travel to a place or whatever and then it never goes as expected. I already have this attitude where I just know things won't be according to what I planned, and chill. I can still have an idea of what I want to do, but I know it will never be quite as I expected, and I just have to be flexible about it.

[Giovonny]

(03-03-2012 07:46 AM)FilMor Wrote:  

(03-03-2012 01:59 AM)Giovonny Wrote:  

FilMor,

Don't beat yourself up over this. Enjoy yourself and workout when you get back home. You obviously needed to blow off some steam.

I never understood why guys go to Thailand to "get in shape". How the hell are you gonna stay focused in a place like that?!? I think they just tell themselves that so they don't feel like a sex tourist or something.

They say...."ya, i'm going to thailand to learn kickboxing"

Sure, and I'm going to Eastern Europe to learn ice hockey!!!

Pro boxers often go up into the mountains to train before a fight, Why? Because there is no world class nightlife and neighborhoods full of cheap hookers! That usually helps eliminate some of the distractions...

but i cant remember the last 3 months bro..

Well, I think the lesson to be learned here is to bring an Iphone so you can take lots of pictures and videos of what you did. And, you might want to drink a little less if you want to remember your experiences.

Other then that, have a blast. Partying 3 months straight in Thailand sounds like fun. When you get sick of it. Get back to your home base, rest up, get back in shape and plan your next move.

There is a time to work hard and there is a time to play hard.

[Soma]

"I spent a lot of money on booze, birds and fast cars. The rest I just squandered." - George Best

[thegmanifesto]

(03-03-2012 01:29 AM)Aliblahba Wrote:  

(03-02-2012 12:11 PM)FilMor Wrote:  

My original plans were to do 5 months of boxing muay thai training and to get in shape, rewire myself spirituality and mentally and i ended up throwing away my 1st 3 months of travelling chasing pussy, drinking beer, smoking weed and doing nothing productive at all... my return ticket to the US is April 28 and during this 3 months of travel i went to the boxing gym exactly 3 times.

I have basically 1 month and a half to change this by going up to Chiang Mai and getting serious.. what exactly can i achieve in 1 12 of training?

Why do I lack the motivation? Iv'e thrown away thousands of dollars sleeping around and partying and wasted time and money i will never get back.

And you're complaining?

Yeah, really.

Sounds like a good trip.

[el mechanico]

What happened to Tudobem? Did I miss what kind of troll he morphed into?

[Smitty]

(03-03-2012 01:59 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

What happened to Tudobem? Did I miss what kind of troll he morphed into?

was wondering the same -- i think this thread did him in.

[el mechanico]

(03-03-2012 02:05 PM)Smitty Wrote:  

(03-03-2012 01:59 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

What happened to Tudobem? Did I miss what kind of troll he morphed into?

was wondering the same -- i think this thread did him in.

Funny thing. I can see these bans coming these days. I saw his coming from the first couple posts. I have a prediction of who's going to have the next BBl type meltdown and get banned. I'll pm you my prediction and we'll see.

[Aliblahba]

Filmor you fuckin's muppet!! Get your shit straight. You came to the forum looking for sympathy. Not gonna get it here. Now you have a choice from your peers. So I'm gonna give you mine.

You set ur sites high. And failed. So what. Shit happens. I fail EVERYDAY of my life. But I "endeavor to persevere".

If you've spent that much time fucking off and have nothing to show for it.....well... congrats. You still make the top .0001 of the board that actually went forth and did it.

Now you have 2 paths:

1. Total sober up. Go get beat up in karate.

2. Slow the fuck down. Put your head on straight and stay the course, just don't hit the iceberg. Spend the last part of your trip getting the form down before heading home. You need something that draws you back on the positive.

I ain't judging you Filmore. I've been there. And still will.

[Aliblahba]

You guys check it. Don't judge before drawing down. Here's the start of my run.

   

[Smitty]

(03-04-2012 05:48 AM)Aliblahba Wrote:  

If you've spent that much time fucking off and have nothing to show for it.....well... congrats. You still make the top .0001 of the board that actually went forth and did it.

This! Could be a lot worse for you Filmor. Embrace the experience and move on.
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[Smitty]

Aliblahba Wrote:

You guys check it. Don't judge before drawing down. Here's the start of my run.

No Jack Daniels??

[el mechanico]

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[Aliblahba]

(03-04-2012 08:20 AM)Smitty Wrote:  

(03-04-2012 05:48 AM)Aliblahba Wrote:  

If you've spent that much time fucking off and have nothing to show for it.....well... congrats. You still make the top .0001 of the board that actually went forth and did it.

This! Could be a lot worse for you Filmor. Embrace the experience and move on.

[Aliblahba]

(03-04-2012 08:20 AM)Smitty Wrote:  

(03-04-2012 05:48 AM)Aliblahba Wrote:  

If you've spent that much time fucking off and have nothing to show for it.....well... congrats. You still make the top .0001 of the board that actually went forth and did it.

This! Could be a lot worse for you Filmor. Embrace the experience and move on.

I felt like that when I got drunk and rawdogged a hooker in '98. You'll live Filmore. Charge it to the game.

[el mechanico]

I remember when I was in 6th grade I was over a neighbors house and he hold me "I'm going down to the river to party with some girls"

What? Party? You're going to have a party? No going to party. Girl with girl X Y and Z. Huh. I went down and watched them get drunk and stoned, make out etc.

I jumped right in on this.

Did I get what I wanted to do accomplished in the last 30 years? No.

When you get to be my age the memories or lack of what you just did are whats going to make you have a perm-a-grin on your face.

Not karate camp.

[soup]

(03-04-2012 10:38 AM)el mechanico Wrote:  

I remember when I was in 6th grade I was over a neighbors house and he hold me "I'm going down to the river to party with some girls"

What? Party? You're going to have a party? No going to party. Girl with girl X Y and Z. Huh. I went down and watched them get drunk and stoned, make out etc.

I jumped right in on this.

Did I get what I wanted to do accomplished in the last 30 years? No.

When you get to be my age the memories or lack of what you just did are whats going to make you have a perm-a-grin on your face.

Not karate camp.

This is some valuable knowledge- game begets game. I don't believe there is anything more helpful in the world to getting laid aside from getting laid.

Also, don't trust "getting down on yourself." Booze can be a depressant. All that matters here is getting the pussy that you want. You are going to be up against a lot of forces, both "inner" and "outer." You have to keep your eye on the prize.

Don't get psyched out or psyched up. There are going to be wins and losses. Set a goal, like getting a higher notch count, banging more beautiful women, or getting good at day game, etc.