I can't believe there is an online forum that's international, haven't posted anything in my life so to say I am excited is an understatement. But need to earn some rep points first before I ask questions. Here goes:
Cutting to the chase here is the order of the post:
1. How to break into after hours scene
2. Best one night stand spot
3. Swag/style advice
4. Day Game
After hours:
Someone asked how u get into this scene, well here u go..
1. Easiest way: in a word drugs, specifically xtac. Not saying u have to drop but that's your quickest entrance is to buy a few pills. The cops are paid off for the real shiz out here so people sell xtac out of backpacks in the best spots. If you think the old "insomnia" was the best AH spot you are tripping, anything on "yelp" will get shut down in 2 seconds. So for easy entrance into the scene try to buy a pill or 2 at "the end up". Open past 2am and they make a killing serving bottled water.. Go here 3-5 times and u can ask about "other AH spots". Try to buy from someone in the 30ish age range.
2. Second option is befriending bartenders in the soma/union square area. This is more vague because it's hard to tell whose in the scene. But a good filter is a bar/lounge with $5 cover on a friday/Saturday. Also a g-star raw jacket tends to be a giveaway. Finally if u have mad convincing game, there are 2 Asian restaurants where the cooks are in the scene on broadway. Not throwing them under the bus with names but it's flat out on broadway not a side street.
3. The hardest way... Find a girl in the scene (raves), she's most likely going to be at raver events or at dj events such as Benni bennassi.
Warning: these parties are hit or miss. I have met NBA players and also run into full on crack heads. Definitely a sick experience, recommended for 20 yrolds to try out.
One Night Stand
How has no one said DNA Lounge? Seriously.
Routine: open set before band goes on stage or whatever shitty performance. After 5 mins I use "have u been here before" as a filter, "yes?" = can close out. "No" good luck only waste ur time if she live in SF.
Assuming failed pick up, when band goes on stage go up stairs immediately. Do not open during the concert 30 min performance thing. When up stairs walk to bar on opposite end of performance glance down and the single girls will be frustrated. Now u have 5ish women for sure u can approach. Talk up someone or chill and go bal for round 2. Here it is regular game.
If u didn't fail, go upstairs with said girl, sit on a couch before people crowd up the place, run a few threads and you're gravy.
Talent here is hit or miss, only go saturday.
Marina: Triangle bars, enough said eastside west, matrix, and cougar bar across the street. Much more looks base here, if you're very good looking grab an apartment right there and get a rotation going, won't even need to go to other areas in town. Unless u are against white girls.
North beach: Best bet is oreiley's and Maggie mc Garry's. Need to have good SF vibe. Dress even more down than the mentioned DNA lounge, makes no sense because DNA is more hipster ish. Anyway absolute must to go to oreileys on st pattys day, I believe a homeless man could make out at minimum on that day (only 2 weeks!)
Style:
Cutting to chase:
Marina = dress well, more gq status no polo shirt crap unless u are mega yoked and good looking
DNA/Mission: Semi clean cut, jeans maybe a couple tears in them, long sleeve clean dress shirt. NO JACKETS that will make u another uninteresting hipster, no suits either. Suits only work on NYE type events.
North beach: polo shirt look, serious bar scene here similar to Polk street. Honestly my bar game needs improvement so I may be wrong but got best results with casual look
Day game:
Union square: I don't smoke, but for day game I suddenly do! Find girls alone ask for a light, game on.
Delores Park: I use regular day game here, fake tourist lines, where is the "golden gate" (still can't believe that shit worked I have lived here for 6+ years!).
Dance classes: I call this day game, because if u take lessons you have to game sober that's what I consider day game, no alcohol. Usual line here is "I'm taking xyz class to go to X country" thread into travel talk.
Anyway, fuck me if there are typos doing this from my phone but hope this helps as a first post. Good luck!
Cutting to the chase here is the order of the post:
1. How to break into after hours scene
2. Best one night stand spot
3. Swag/style advice
4. Day Game
After hours:
Someone asked how u get into this scene, well here u go..
1. Easiest way: in a word drugs, specifically xtac. Not saying u have to drop but that's your quickest entrance is to buy a few pills. The cops are paid off for the real shiz out here so people sell xtac out of backpacks in the best spots. If you think the old "insomnia" was the best AH spot you are tripping, anything on "yelp" will get shut down in 2 seconds. So for easy entrance into the scene try to buy a pill or 2 at "the end up". Open past 2am and they make a killing serving bottled water.. Go here 3-5 times and u can ask about "other AH spots". Try to buy from someone in the 30ish age range.
2. Second option is befriending bartenders in the soma/union square area. This is more vague because it's hard to tell whose in the scene. But a good filter is a bar/lounge with $5 cover on a friday/Saturday. Also a g-star raw jacket tends to be a giveaway. Finally if u have mad convincing game, there are 2 Asian restaurants where the cooks are in the scene on broadway. Not throwing them under the bus with names but it's flat out on broadway not a side street.
3. The hardest way... Find a girl in the scene (raves), she's most likely going to be at raver events or at dj events such as Benni bennassi.
Warning: these parties are hit or miss. I have met NBA players and also run into full on crack heads. Definitely a sick experience, recommended for 20 yrolds to try out.
One Night Stand
How has no one said DNA Lounge? Seriously.
Routine: open set before band goes on stage or whatever shitty performance. After 5 mins I use "have u been here before" as a filter, "yes?" = can close out. "No" good luck only waste ur time if she live in SF.
Assuming failed pick up, when band goes on stage go up stairs immediately. Do not open during the concert 30 min performance thing. When up stairs walk to bar on opposite end of performance glance down and the single girls will be frustrated. Now u have 5ish women for sure u can approach. Talk up someone or chill and go bal for round 2. Here it is regular game.
If u didn't fail, go upstairs with said girl, sit on a couch before people crowd up the place, run a few threads and you're gravy.
Talent here is hit or miss, only go saturday.
Marina: Triangle bars, enough said eastside west, matrix, and cougar bar across the street. Much more looks base here, if you're very good looking grab an apartment right there and get a rotation going, won't even need to go to other areas in town. Unless u are against white girls.
North beach: Best bet is oreiley's and Maggie mc Garry's. Need to have good SF vibe. Dress even more down than the mentioned DNA lounge, makes no sense because DNA is more hipster ish. Anyway absolute must to go to oreileys on st pattys day, I believe a homeless man could make out at minimum on that day (only 2 weeks!)
Style:
Cutting to chase:
Marina = dress well, more gq status no polo shirt crap unless u are mega yoked and good looking
DNA/Mission: Semi clean cut, jeans maybe a couple tears in them, long sleeve clean dress shirt. NO JACKETS that will make u another uninteresting hipster, no suits either. Suits only work on NYE type events.
North beach: polo shirt look, serious bar scene here similar to Polk street. Honestly my bar game needs improvement so I may be wrong but got best results with casual look
Day game:
Union square: I don't smoke, but for day game I suddenly do! Find girls alone ask for a light, game on.
Delores Park: I use regular day game here, fake tourist lines, where is the "golden gate" (still can't believe that shit worked I have lived here for 6+ years!).
Dance classes: I call this day game, because if u take lessons you have to game sober that's what I consider day game, no alcohol. Usual line here is "I'm taking xyz class to go to X country" thread into travel talk.
Anyway, fuck me if there are typos doing this from my phone but hope this helps as a first post. Good luck!