I feel this is topic worthy of discussion. I'll say the facts first and then give my opinion so I'll dive right into this.
Yesterday I was headed to a friend's house for a little get together. It's about 11:30pm. I'm in Chicago, so I take the El Blue line to Western, where I grab a cab up Armitage because the bus isn't running anymore.
On the train platform on Jackson(downtown) I see a blonde that catches my eye. So I kind of meander over to her as she's looking at the train map and open her with, "You know where you're going?" She has lazy blue bedroom eyes and is a second year Colombia College student. I'm not interested so I kind of let it go.
Then while on the train I sit in front of two black chicks and open them with something they said about Marvin Gaye. They start cracking up and I have to shush them because the first girl is a couple rows ahead with two mediocre looking friends and I didn't want to come across as the player who macking it up with everybody.
So I get off and have the approach aura that you get that makes you more approachable. I'm standing at a corner where there's a red light and I hear a female voice coming from a car but I can't make out what it is.
I look harder and see an SUV with a cute latina looking girl in the passenger seat and a hideous fat chick in the driver's seat.
Finally I can make out the words:
"Are you a painter?"
She's asking me if I'm a painter from the open window of an SUV at a stop light on a Friday night.
Thing is I wear a beret type hat that makes me look like an outdated stereotype of a French artist. The way she was talking to me came across as weird because she didn't try to get my attention first, she just came out with the question.
The second weird thing was the contrast between her cuteness and her driver friend's hideousness. Also that the driver was looking straight ahead as if this whole interaction was a normal thing for them.
I, personally, don't trust a woman's direct approach. I immediately think it's a trap. I told her to fuck off, which i kind of regret, even though she was being weird, and to stop being curious. She called me mean and they drove away most like to troll some other guy who would definitely give them the time of day.
I could have easily said "If you give me a ride, i'll tell you." i thought of that after the fact, as i was feeling bad for tell her to fuck off. but either way i still don't trust it.
I'm not saying there was anything wrong with her, but how do people here feel about women approaching them? any horror stories, or good stories?
Yesterday I was headed to a friend's house for a little get together. It's about 11:30pm. I'm in Chicago, so I take the El Blue line to Western, where I grab a cab up Armitage because the bus isn't running anymore.
On the train platform on Jackson(downtown) I see a blonde that catches my eye. So I kind of meander over to her as she's looking at the train map and open her with, "You know where you're going?" She has lazy blue bedroom eyes and is a second year Colombia College student. I'm not interested so I kind of let it go.
Then while on the train I sit in front of two black chicks and open them with something they said about Marvin Gaye. They start cracking up and I have to shush them because the first girl is a couple rows ahead with two mediocre looking friends and I didn't want to come across as the player who macking it up with everybody.
So I get off and have the approach aura that you get that makes you more approachable. I'm standing at a corner where there's a red light and I hear a female voice coming from a car but I can't make out what it is.
I look harder and see an SUV with a cute latina looking girl in the passenger seat and a hideous fat chick in the driver's seat.
Finally I can make out the words:
"Are you a painter?"
She's asking me if I'm a painter from the open window of an SUV at a stop light on a Friday night.
Thing is I wear a beret type hat that makes me look like an outdated stereotype of a French artist. The way she was talking to me came across as weird because she didn't try to get my attention first, she just came out with the question.
The second weird thing was the contrast between her cuteness and her driver friend's hideousness. Also that the driver was looking straight ahead as if this whole interaction was a normal thing for them.
I, personally, don't trust a woman's direct approach. I immediately think it's a trap. I told her to fuck off, which i kind of regret, even though she was being weird, and to stop being curious. She called me mean and they drove away most like to troll some other guy who would definitely give them the time of day.
I could have easily said "If you give me a ride, i'll tell you." i thought of that after the fact, as i was feeling bad for tell her to fuck off. but either way i still don't trust it.
I'm not saying there was anything wrong with her, but how do people here feel about women approaching them? any horror stories, or good stories?
