[FilMor]

My first night here in Kuala Lumpur I was introduced to the singer of a band at the spot I was hanging out that night, We ended up exchanging numbers discreetly and ever since then we have been having a great time together..we smoke weed and go listen to jazz together on the regular or go out and hit up food markets or just stay home and fuck all day.. our chemistry is great. But there's a problem the chic lives with what she says is her ex boyfriend and he is in the band with her.. the lead guitarist. He is always blowing up her phone and the other night she had to dip out of our date because the dude showed up in the area and she got nervous and wanted to leave.

So ok.. she is now telling me she will move out and wants me to stay with her in her new place, what do i do? i told her i'm just here today and gone tommorow that she shouldnt be breaking a 7 yr relationship over a traveller that's just passing by..but she insists that the relationship has been done for quite sometime.

My original plans were to make it up to thailand and do 2 months of muay thai before my travel time is done so i can come back to the US in some sort of shape, but now i realized that i been in KL for like 9 days now and I'm getting into some deep shit... Would you continue your original plans of muay thai or just stay here living with this chic that has maybe the best chemistry i ever encountered with the opposite sex.

What the hell i'm i getting into?

[esperar]

Why would you want all of this drama? Move on. Red flags all over the place.

[Lumiere]

Original plan.

[Yul Brynner]

If you already get laid a lot, stay and enjoy the drama and chemistry for a bit.

If you only get laid occasionally, stick to your original plan and move on.

Edit.

I just realized how that could be interpretted in different ways

What I'm trying to say is if you know how to seduce women without much trouble then stay because chemistry isn't that common and I always enjoy a bit of drama.
If however your notch count is low then stick with the original plan, move on pick up some muay thai skills and imrove yourself

[Alpha]

(02-22-2012 06:48 AM)Yul Brynner Wrote:  

If you already get laid a lot, stay and enjoy the drama and chemistry for a bit.

If you only get laid occasionally, stick to your original plan and move on.

lol

I'd stick to your original plan dude. Enjoy her for a while, but move on when you had planned to.

[FilMor]

Will just enjoy her for 1 more week and keep it moving.. at the end of the day history always repeats itself.

[esperar]

You need to think about the boyfriend too. After you rob a bank, you don't stick around for the police, you get the hell out.

[iknowexactly]

You can't learn anything from history except that you can't learn anything from history.

She has weak boundaries, that's why she melded so quickly and easily with you. He's still fucking her and
she's lying to both of you , telling him she's true and telling you the opposite.

The weak boundaries also go with not wanting to move out and be on her own-her own personality is too weak to stand on its own.

Soon she'll be on to the next while still living with you, talking about you like she talks about him. Never, ever, believe anything a woman says about her relationships unless it negatively reflects on her, then it might be true.

As a musician I know women musicians are even more spoiled than normal chicks because most musicians are guys.

[Timoteo]

I would bounce on this monkey-branching bitch. She's a drama magnet that would probably get off on a confrontation between you and her boyfriend. If she really wanted to end it she would (yeah, I get that they're in a band together but still...). I have a hard time imagining he's THAT stupid that he hasn't figured out she's fucking around on him. I'd quit while I'm ahead - you already hit it, and had a positive experience with her. Stay ahead of the drama posse and stick to your original plan.

[Caligula]

Reminds me of a girl in Buenos Aires who wanted me to come home with her after being introduced at a club by mutual friends. Her ex-boyfriend still lived there. He was a Saudi diplomat of some sort (ie. probably has diplomatic immunity). She said he was jealous and had vowed to kill any man she brought home. Epic shit-test or was she just completely insane? I didn't go with her to find out.

Let it fizzle out.

[Chad Daring]

[wolf]

What's with chicks living with their exes?

[Hencredible Casanova]

Don't ever live with a chick you're not married to. I've done that before and it was one of the worst mistakes of my life. Brought me a lot of unnecessary problems.

[Drudenhaus]

Nope, just run as fast as you can, you can be banging some other chick who's probably drama free.

[iknowexactly]

(02-23-2012 12:07 AM)Hencredible Casanova Wrote:  

Don't ever live with a chick you're not married to. I've done that before and it was one of the worst mistakes of my life. Brought me a lot of unnecessary problems.

Could you elaborate-- which problems? I lived with an ex, you could say-- she was so bitchy I just stopped fucking her. Once I hid in my room, she wasn't bitchy anymore.

I still think it was healthier than living alone in that rural area.

I don't mean "player" living alone, bringing home girls 3x a week, I mean REALLY alone.

There were no girls to game in that area, I had to stay there for work, so just to have someone to have casual conversation with was healthier than web
surfing all the time.

[FilMor]

Ok moved on, yesterday banged a yoga instructor from Holland, this old triffling bitch is old news... but i wish i could've layed down the D better.. the sex was extremely sloppy due to the fact that both of us were completely wasted.

Anyway if any of you cats come to Kuala Lumpur you guys need to hit up the skybar at traders hotel.

[gringochileno]

Glad you made the right decision, there was absolutely no reason to stay in that situation. And whaddayaknow, the minute you move on you bang another chick and forget all about the other bitch. I feel like I've seen this movie before

[Hencredible Casanova]

(02-23-2012 12:26 PM)iknowexactly Wrote:  

(02-23-2012 12:07 AM)Hencredible Casanova Wrote:  

Don't ever live with a chick you're not married to. I've done that before and it was one of the worst mistakes of my life. Brought me a lot of unnecessary problems.

Could you elaborate-- which problems? I lived with an ex, you could say-- she was so bitchy I just stopped fucking her. Once I hid in my room, she wasn't bitchy anymore.

I still think it was healthier than living alone in that rural area.

I don't mean "player" living alone, bringing home girls 3x a week, I mean REALLY alone.

There were no girls to game in that area, I had to stay there for work, so just to have someone to have casual conversation with was healthier than web
surfing all the time.

Man. Checking my e-mail on my laptop when I wasn't home (using Gmail's search feature to see what other girls I was talking to and seeing what I may have said about her to friends). I'd come home and she'd just be chillin' watching soap operas. Smart, accomplished chick but she didn't do anything. Never cooked, cleaned, etc. Just a waste of space. Over time, lots of little issues evolved into big problems. Had to get her out of there.

I've never lived in a rural area so I can't relate to the situation you described. I've only lived in big cities.