Hey everyone I need some opinions,
So I've been on one date with this girl, which to say the least went really well. Cool chick, good-looking, etc.
Since then I hadn't talked to her in about two weeks (I've been extremely busy/out of town) so I sent her a text to try to get together before she goes out of town--she's leaving for an out of town training class for two weeks this Friday. She said her week is packed trying to get ready but let's try to do dinner one night this week. I told her Wednesday night worked for me (it's really my only open slot), she said no problem, just that it's ladies night and she had plans to go drink with her friends later that night (9-ish). I hesitantly agreed to book the date anyway since I really don't have any other time and she'll be leaving so I wanted to see her.
The problem is I don't want to be seen as the free meal (assuming I end up paying) before she heads out to party with her friends. Any advice on how to make her blow off ladies night? Should I just cancel? My first thought was that the ladies night thing was just a false time constraint to make it appear as though she was too busy to agree to a last minute date.
Thoughts?
Thanks,
Sean
So I've been on one date with this girl, which to say the least went really well. Cool chick, good-looking, etc.
Since then I hadn't talked to her in about two weeks (I've been extremely busy/out of town) so I sent her a text to try to get together before she goes out of town--she's leaving for an out of town training class for two weeks this Friday. She said her week is packed trying to get ready but let's try to do dinner one night this week. I told her Wednesday night worked for me (it's really my only open slot), she said no problem, just that it's ladies night and she had plans to go drink with her friends later that night (9-ish). I hesitantly agreed to book the date anyway since I really don't have any other time and she'll be leaving so I wanted to see her.
The problem is I don't want to be seen as the free meal (assuming I end up paying) before she heads out to party with her friends. Any advice on how to make her blow off ladies night? Should I just cancel? My first thought was that the ladies night thing was just a false time constraint to make it appear as though she was too busy to agree to a last minute date.
Thoughts?
Thanks,
Sean