Quote: (02-17-2012 09:25 AM)Moma Wrote:
I spoke about this before. I don't advocate beating women by any means but in my travels and associations, women from the Caribbean are not unfamiliar with gauging manliness through a man setting her straight from time to time, if you get my drift.
I was speaking to a rasta while I was down in the Caribbean last year (this cat gets nuff girls of both white or black) and he told me how he beat one girl's rass (I can't remember the reason for this). This, did not deter the lizard from continuing to desire and fcuk him.
We can learn a lot about psychology from people in the so called 'developing' countries. What we think women want is not what they want at all.
Read their actions and learn to react to them. Fcuk what they say.
I am somewhat familiar with a community in Africa where spousal physical abuse, or whatever the technical name is, is pretty much endemic. It's more unusual for a man NOT to beat his wife/girlfiend than beat her.
The problem with this Alpha/Beta stuff is that this community (rural, very poor) are at the bottom of the pile economically in their country. Both the men and women have very limited opportunities mate-wize. Believe me, not even someone like Roissy is going to call 99% of the men Alpha if he meets them. It's not like other woman, from the city say, are lining up for a "real man" who has the guts to beat her. He really would get nowhere with that kind of game with any woman above his "station". Such a woman would demand a slightly different form of "dominance display" from her mate. A similar community in the city, at a higher socioeconomic level will have substantially less spousal abuse.
As an aside: The women are typically complicit in their own beating. The kind of verbal abuse they fling at their husbands before the beating. Jesus.... a drunken 60 year old sailor would be shocked.
To me middle class people (both the men and women) from the developed world who fantasize about how beating someone, or being beaten, would either prove they were Alpha, or that their man really wanted them, are just playing mental games. They are unlikely to ever actually get seriously beaten, or beat a women. They have no clue how it usually pans out in real life and live their fantasies out vicariously through people like Rhiana/Chris Brown.