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(02-16-2012 01:35 PM)Amour Fou Wrote:
[quote='chochemonger1' pid='162262' dateline='1329406939']
The thing that personally bothers me the most and actually get on my nerves is the Blackberry addiction, where you can't talk to a girl's face. Although it probably isn't as bad as elsewhere, it is not to my liking, and it is the kind of thing that I pick on girls for doing.[/quote]
Good observation about what's really insidious and distorting real socializing worldwide: Social Media
This isn't specific to Brazil, but I see it as a worldwide symptom emerging here in Giant Unsanitary Refrigerator Ukkrraaiiine.
Basically electronic "attention" is inflating chicks' self-worth evaluation all over the world.
They can get all these messages from men online, and because of that they start thinking they're going to get LTR with the level of quality guys they merely get a message from .
They literally start to consider themselves marriage material for the top 5% of guys, who merely send them internet messages.
When in reality the ladder of guys attention is something like:
1) Look at a girl
2) Send her an online message
3) Talk to her in public
4) ONS her
5) Put her in rotation
6) LTR
7) Marriage
Girls that are getting attention level "2" are lured into fantasy of getting attention level "7" from the same type of guy
So all the "4-6's" are holding out for "9" guys because they got a couple facewhore messages from guys like that.
Social media is selling the false promise of easy hypergamy.
Here's a below average 36 year old in Uuuke , looking for someone 31-40-- basically younger than her.
They're there on the site, why shouldn't she get one?