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02-14-2012, 02:38 PM
Well the first thing I notice is looks; girls, you don't get a seasonal pass to go on this ride if you're less than an 8, and a balanced 8; you can't have a 10 body and a 5 face, or a 10 face and a 5 body. I like the face to be as nice as the body in an LTR scenario.
Personality-wise, I don't like girls that are argumentative, over-educated, judgmental and opinionated. What I do like is submissiveness, modesty, sweetness, sensuality and kindness.
As for everything else, what does she bring to the table? Does she have a good circle of friends? Is she close to her family? Does she like to fuck often? Can she cook? Does she have money? These and other factors are crucial.
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02-14-2012, 02:46 PM
Beautiful. Wanted to cry when she stepped up.
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02-14-2012, 02:50 PM
Three quick measures of nurturing ability:
1) Prefers the affectionate loyal dog over the snooty, distant cat.
2) Likes to cook. This isn't because you want a utility servant, it shows (a) Patience (b) liking to nurture others. © Not a quick-stim addict.
3) Wants to have kids; clearly and unequivocally; not like "When my career is advanced", or "When I meet the right 6'2" surfer millionaire," just "Yes" no BS.
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02-14-2012, 03:09 PM
1. Not born in America
2. Nympho
3. Acts feminine
4. Doesn't wear flip-flops to places other than the beach
5. Works out and/or is active in sports or some other physical activity, IE - dance, yoga, etc
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02-14-2012, 03:10 PM
It's changed over time
1) oh willing to fuck! Nice.
2) super fine and willing to fuck?
3) super fine, willing to fuck,same hobbies and interests?
Now that I have more than a few notches and LTR's under my belt, attractiveness, sex skills, same interests and outlook is par for the course. It's tough enough to find these things all in one package, that a player should split the difference and engage in soft polyamory.
Currently, I look for the one thing I can't seem to get from a chick, the kind of thing you can only get from your best male friend or a dog - LOYALTY. I don't mean fidelity, but loyalty. Not compliance with your wishes and demands, but loyalty.
Fidelity ebbs and flows with your game.
Compliance as well.
You could be at the top of your game, able to pull chicks more attractive than her, and some cad will slide in when you're not looking. That's the nature of the game, because that's the nature of the woman.
But loyalty, that willingness to think about you first (as opposed to the couple, as opposed to children, as opposed to her self, her family, her friends), especially when it inconveniences her...especially when it's hard... Does she truly have my back?
Loyalty is paramount.
And loyalty is not something you discover even after a few months of being exclusive. And even after you think you have her loyalty, you can never be truly sure that she won't betray you at some later time.
There will come many times when your pimp hand wavers or she's grown accustomed to you, and her loyalty will be tested. Is it only a matter of time before she fails you in some way?
Honor, Loyalty, Character...I don't want to believe that these things are only the province of men, but my eyes and experience can lead me to no other conclusion. Indeed, I pray that my sample set is still too small.
All I can do is hedge my bets, keep my game sharp, and my assets separate. Otherwise, I would have to settle for my paltry savings and the pleasure of young women who may flow in and out of my life.
After you learn the game, you deal with 2 things
1) The seducer's dilemma - You started out wanting to sleep with hot chicks on a regular basis, but the more of them you sleep with, the less you crave the sex. You fall in love with the hunt and not the prey. You may even despise a chick after you fuck her. All of this, from a life long love of women.
2) The seducer's fate - With so many options and such a jaded view you end up choosing none.
Compare this to the hot girl (the player's equivalent) who finally finds her alpha. She gets a life to brag about, monetary support, and children out of the deal - all things he typically doesn't want.
such is life.
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02-14-2012, 06:17 PM
A Bronx Tale is a movie every man should watch.
Once, I approached two pretty girls at a bar. They where cousins. I took the number from the one I liked and invited her over for dinner the following night.
She brought her cousin along. Ok, no problem, I can handle both. So after dinner I went to the bathroom, and when I came back, my date was slacking in my living room, and her cousin was in my kitchen washing the dishes. I knew right then that I had made the wrong choice.
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02-14-2012, 06:22 PM
First I have to determine if she is crazy. Then, after determining that ALL bitches are crazy, I realize she is not relationship material and move on to the next one.
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02-14-2012, 07:33 PM
The girl Im dating now has past the test with flying colors, I'm almost gonna be sad when summer comes and I move on.
1. Attractive
2. Sense of self respect (likes to look pretty)
3. Not completely bat shit crazy
4. Gameable but not TOO gameable (girls who respond crazy well to game tend to be ones who have been gamed the most, in my experience anyways)
5. Lives with her parents (means she always drives to me, always)
6. Gives good head but shitty handjobs, (means she hasn't had enough practice with a dick to be good, thats a good thing to me)
7. Knows her place, doesn't challenge me and if she does accepts it when I put my foot down
8. Random acts of kindness (buys me things, pays for dinner, ect)