So I would move on if it was a 'some girl' I met.
I am ok if someone tells me 'oh you have oneitis'
Anyways, I met this girl from online dating.
we had a coffee and just clicked very well during conversation.
After some conversation, I took her to my business (restaurant, after closed)
I told her 'let's go to my place' and she was saying 'oh I need to go to work early' After I told her 'oh I meant my business, it's public place' she agreed to come.
After sitting with her 5 min, we started kissing.
I didn't get to see her boobs even though she let me touch outside.
I didn't go near the private area.
One thing made us feel very special. While kissing her, I asked where she was from. It turned out, we went to the same high school.
(we both don't live in that state. so it would be very hard to meet a person from the same high school)
she invited me to come to her house on Sun (this happend on Thu)
We agreed on it and said bye after making romantic kiss.
I felt like I had to send her 'sweet dreams' txt so I did that after she left. (could be a mistake) and I didn't get the txt back.
I called her Next Day (fri) to talk about plans. (another major mistake)
she said she might have a meeting on that day and would let me know by Sat.
I didn't hear from her on Sat.
On Sunday morning, I just sent her saying 'I am not sure if you were planning on getting together today, sorry I had some incidents last night and can't come' I didn't hear from her.
I think I would've made right decisions (not contacting her right away) if it wasn't that romantic. Since we had very romantic moments and I really liked her (vice versa), it messed up my brain.
There was another major mistakes I have to confess to you guys to get the right feedback.
when I was making out with her, I kept trying to pull down the bra so I could kiss her nipple. she kept moving my hands and I kept doing it.(10~20 times, not sure) She told me 'you are incorrigible'
Since she said it in a playful way, I didn't think it was an issue.
We still kissed a lot after that.
When I called her, I asked her if her roommate's was going to be ok about visiting her.
(she is a religious girl and those girls usually don't bring guys home unless they are close.)
I thought about it from 3rd point of view. I think I made it seem like I was going to do something naughty with her. (which wasn't my intention)
So I am guessing, she was very into me from the beginning.
But by contacting her soon after making out, it made me look like I was just after more sexual stuff with her.
I think I should just wait for her to contact me several days or up to a week. If I don't hear from her to that point, what should I do?
Should I apologize to her?
(I wish I could be an Alpha and just walk away but girl like that won't come along for couple years)
I am ok if someone tells me 'oh you have oneitis'
Anyways, I met this girl from online dating.
we had a coffee and just clicked very well during conversation.
After some conversation, I took her to my business (restaurant, after closed)
I told her 'let's go to my place' and she was saying 'oh I need to go to work early' After I told her 'oh I meant my business, it's public place' she agreed to come.
After sitting with her 5 min, we started kissing.
I didn't get to see her boobs even though she let me touch outside.
I didn't go near the private area.
One thing made us feel very special. While kissing her, I asked where she was from. It turned out, we went to the same high school.
(we both don't live in that state. so it would be very hard to meet a person from the same high school)
she invited me to come to her house on Sun (this happend on Thu)
We agreed on it and said bye after making romantic kiss.
I felt like I had to send her 'sweet dreams' txt so I did that after she left. (could be a mistake) and I didn't get the txt back.
I called her Next Day (fri) to talk about plans. (another major mistake)
she said she might have a meeting on that day and would let me know by Sat.
I didn't hear from her on Sat.
On Sunday morning, I just sent her saying 'I am not sure if you were planning on getting together today, sorry I had some incidents last night and can't come' I didn't hear from her.
I think I would've made right decisions (not contacting her right away) if it wasn't that romantic. Since we had very romantic moments and I really liked her (vice versa), it messed up my brain.
There was another major mistakes I have to confess to you guys to get the right feedback.
when I was making out with her, I kept trying to pull down the bra so I could kiss her nipple. she kept moving my hands and I kept doing it.(10~20 times, not sure) She told me 'you are incorrigible'
Since she said it in a playful way, I didn't think it was an issue.
We still kissed a lot after that.
When I called her, I asked her if her roommate's was going to be ok about visiting her.
(she is a religious girl and those girls usually don't bring guys home unless they are close.)
I thought about it from 3rd point of view. I think I made it seem like I was going to do something naughty with her. (which wasn't my intention)
So I am guessing, she was very into me from the beginning.
But by contacting her soon after making out, it made me look like I was just after more sexual stuff with her.
I think I should just wait for her to contact me several days or up to a week. If I don't hear from her to that point, what should I do?
Should I apologize to her?
(I wish I could be an Alpha and just walk away but girl like that won't come along for couple years)