[Sly]

Let me start this thread off by saying I am 22 years old and just came back from a one month excursion in the Dominican Republic where I fucked 11 girls.

I'm currently struggling to find girls who attract me since my return of about a week now.

I'm hoping the girls here start to rub off on me again but as of now, I am simply not attracted to them. There superficiality and lack of knowledge to most things in life turns me off.
I have girls who are hot who i was fucking before I left but they just don't interest me anymore.

Well, there is one girl: My crazy ex-girlfriend who is very fun.

She is definitely not your typical Southern California girl. She hangs out with gay guys and is very open minded. Plus she is very fun in bed. However when it comes down to it, she is all talk. Tried to have a threesome with her and her best friend and she couldn't do it. (I fucked her best friend behind her back a few weeks later)

I haven't slept with her in about a year and we haven't been together for about 18 months. Plus we were on the No Contact Thing up until a few days ago.

Okay, so my Ex-Girlfriend just called me and asked if I could pick her up from the airport.

Am I Dick for saying No?

I'm studying for a midterm I have on Tuesday.
Plus tomorrow is my first day starting an internship at a high end brokerage firm.
I need to be well rested and finish studying..

Anyways, I'm guessing the fact that she has the balls to call me up and ask for a ride is an IOI of her wanting to get back together with me.


I don't know what to do. I still have feelings for the girl but I don't want to go back to Onetitis.

Wow, writing to you guys actually makes me feel better about telling her I can't pick her up at the airport. I didn't give her a reason for not picking her up.

Did I play this right?

My goal is to be able to fuck her without any type of commitment..
I don't know if this is possible with an ex-girlfriend . We lived across the street from each other so spent A LOT of time together..
We were both in the party scene so we never had the official title of boyfriend, girlfriend (If it's not on Facebook, it's not official haha). Yet, we spent countless nights together. She even lived with me at one point for a few weeks

[FretDancer]

I fuck one of my exes from time to time without any commitment. Its just something you have to agree on, so its very possible. Picking her at the airport wouldn't have been bad, could have a good time together (no strings) and maybe end up fucking, which is not bad at all.

[Sly]

Thanks for the advice Fret Dancer!

My dick was definitely telling me to go pick her up.

However, shouldn't a player always be trying to better himself; even if that means blowing off girls?

This internship is big time. No way in hell I would have gotten it without my parents connections. My buddy with a 3.9 GPA (in Finance- one of the toughest majors) and a more impressive resume them myself, apparently killed an interview with them and they didn't give him the internship.

We both have a night class Wednesday night and have agreed to carpool so I should see her again soon when time isn't as scarce.

[haywire]

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I don't know what to do. I still have feelings for the girl but I don't want to go back to Onetitis.

Wow, writing to you guys actually makes me feel better about telling her I can't pick her up at the airport. I didn't give her a reason for not picking her up.

If I were you I would have told her the actual reason. Girls usually understand and even respect when you put your work/responsibilities above everything else. There is no guarantee that you would get to bang her when you pick her up and if you actually don't, it might even mess with your mindset and could further harm your prospects at the interview and test, in which case you would be really pissed with yourself.

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My dick was definitely telling me to go pick her up.

However, shouldn't a player always be trying to better himself; even if that means blowing off girls?

As a player you gotta be cold and objective. The more emotional you get the more you ruin your own chances. And the more you try to "get" her, chances are you'll screw up somewhere in your actions and lose her. Remember, the hungry never get fed.