Being quiet can be good or bad, depending on the situation. In terms of getting alot of girls I think its definitely a bad thing.
Unless of course, you can make up for it in other areas, like if you were really good looking or owned a bar or something like that. Something were you can be a quiet guy and still have girls open you.
But for the average guy like most of us, we have to have a skilled tongue. We have to win people over by the way we talk and the way we carry ourselves. What we talk about and how we say it is how we are judged.
Being quiet is often misinterpreted as being a pussy or being socially inadequate. I don't give girls a chance to put me in that category. I talk to them loud and proud so they can never mistake me for being scared, shy, or inadequate.
They might think I'm an agressive caveman, but they will never think that I'm too scared to talk.
Thats what usually happens when your quiet. People don't give you the benefit of the doubt. They often see it as a weakness..
Unless of course, you can make up for it in other areas, like if you were really good looking or owned a bar or something like that. Something were you can be a quiet guy and still have girls open you.
But for the average guy like most of us, we have to have a skilled tongue. We have to win people over by the way we talk and the way we carry ourselves. What we talk about and how we say it is how we are judged.
Being quiet is often misinterpreted as being a pussy or being socially inadequate. I don't give girls a chance to put me in that category. I talk to them loud and proud so they can never mistake me for being scared, shy, or inadequate.
They might think I'm an agressive caveman, but they will never think that I'm too scared to talk.
Thats what usually happens when your quiet. People don't give you the benefit of the doubt. They often see it as a weakness..
