I understand her being late is a little annoying, but your citing of "your rule" makes you sound uptight.
The phone thing is very irritating, I think you should have tried to give her a hard time about it by being cocky/funny and making fun of her "important call", but whatever- you didn't do that at the time so it's now a moot point.
I think she sounds a little too laid back, but I really get the impression you were too high strung. You let things like her clothing choice and lateness totally throw you off and you let the phone thing become a dig on you instead of an opportunity to bust on her.
I'd probably just move on, but learn from this experience.
The phone thing is very irritating, I think you should have tried to give her a hard time about it by being cocky/funny and making fun of her "important call", but whatever- you didn't do that at the time so it's now a moot point.
I think she sounds a little too laid back, but I really get the impression you were too high strung. You let things like her clothing choice and lateness totally throw you off and you let the phone thing become a dig on you instead of an opportunity to bust on her.
I'd probably just move on, but learn from this experience.