[esperar]

Is it really ever a good idea to do this? My experience tells me no, because if they want you, they will come to you. Does it ever really work?

I know young girls love to fuck with guys, but since I'm pretty new to this, I'm not totally sure of when a girl is just not interested, or if she wants me to chase.

Maybe the idea is to not care either way, just show your interest, and if she is unresponsive, to move on.